loneliness

I've been married for some time now. Like most we've had our ups and downs. Probably more then some i'm sure. My husband works very hard to provide a roof over our heads. We have 4 children between us and as you can imagine time is always a issue. In the past there have been incidents where I...

About six weeks ago I had to get an 18 month restraining order against my husband, who pulled my down to the ground in what was the final straw of living with his violent rages issues (that was the first time he actually hit me, but he often threatened to, and came close to it many times in the...

I am seeking feedback from others who have experienced similar... First of all, I love my husband, we have similar interests, I really enjoy being with him, he is extremely kind, loving, supportive etc. The only problem is every time I want to do something for me (not us) he does something to...

Hi. I'm 29 years old and a first-time mother of an 18 month old son. I've been married to my husband for 3 years and things have mostly been wonderful -- he's a wonderful and loving man, a hard worker, and a good provider -- but since our son was born things have been different. I feel bad...

Hello~ I am not sure which kind of advice I can get about this, but I wanted to give it a try. We got married last January, after living together for about 3 years. I am finishing my post graduate studies hopefully next April and the deal before was that I would find a job and he would follow...

Anyone have any good ideas about how to get past the pain of loneliness when it feels like it's going to kill you? My husband left a few nights ago and I drank the first two to get past the horror (it's a long story, like they all are, but we had just moved in to a new place together for a...

To fully explain, I need to start at the beginning, so I will go ahead and apologize for this being so lengthy. I had a long term boyfriend when I was in high school who was no good. He cheated, had a drug problem, would disappear for days at a time, and even hit me once. He was my first love...

My husband and I have been married for 5 ½ years, we have two lovely children; one boy 10 & one girl 5, we live near our hometowns and have a great support system. We are an average family with the normal house and car payments but nothing more than that. My husband has always been a hard...

I have been married for 14 years. I thought happily. Monday, my wife drops a bomb on me and says she hasn't been happy in over a year. I know it's going to be hard for you guys to give me advice because you don't know either of us and it's too hard to explain the circumstances. So the question...

This is my first post in this community, I have read some other similar stories so please forgive me if these issues seem repetitive. It will also be a long story because I need to take it off my chest and maybe when understanding all the elements involved in it I will finally find a solution...