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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am sure that I am not alone, but I feel like I am all alone! I wanted so badly to grow old with my husband, but I realize now that he doesn't love me, at least not the way I think love should be! He never comes home half the time and always chooses his friends over our family, we never...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone, I am a long time lurker but I am not sure if this post belongs in this section or the general discussion section... I will try and sum things up as best I can without writing a huge novel- My husband knows I am posting this and is also interested in reading the feedback I get...
  3. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi All, Im new here and looking for advice. I have been with my husband for 7 years (married 4). He has always lied to me about small things but I just overlooked them because I really loved him. Now, a few yrs after getting married, it has gotten worse! He lies about everything...normal...
  4. The Ladies' Lounge
    OK deleting the post This is a PRO-marriage forum. No place for hurt-but-moving-on Singletons here maybe
  5. The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband obsessively stares at other women/friends/coworkers/neighbors. I am not talking about an occasional brief glance at a passing stunning girl. I'm talking mouth open, non blinking, blunt staring until they are out of sight, locking eyes sometimes up to 30 sec eye contact and I am right...
  6. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband (J) and I were married in August last year and have been separated since January. I always believed that people got married to share their life with someone, yet I have never felt so alone... The past 8 months of my life have been a living nightmare. I am a cautious person - to the...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am hoping to find any and all points of view with my situation! I know the bottom line, is its MY decision, however Im torn..please help... I'll try to sum it up.. Im married to a soldier for almost 3 years. We got prego as soon as we got married. I have a 7 yo from a diff relationship. I...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been friends with my newlywed husband of 11 years, of which, 8 of them were platonic. He and I got together 3 years ago, and he left me because of my family and not being over another woman who had cheated on him. I was devastated; I was so in love with him. He and I remained distant...
  9. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok I apologize ahead but I need to get this out. This will be VERY LONG! :eek: Years ago in middle school I was being picked on by bullies again (normal day for me) when out of nowhere this cute boy walked up & stopped them. He told them to get lost and helped me up, asked if I was ok and...
  10. Sex in Marriage
    I'm new here, this may be long but I'm desperate for help. This has been going on for years and don't know how to handle this or what to do. I don't have anyone I can talk to about it and would appreciate any help please! Me and my husband have been together for nearly five years and have two...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    i wrote several months ago that i felt that my husband's been lying. well, i finally confirmed what the lies were about. my 51 year old husband had an affair of one year with his 22 year old student. i spoke with the girl and she said whenever i was out of town for work, she would sneak in...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband sent me a text this morning saying "any objections to me going to the gym tonight?" I didnt reply. What should I have said? No? I dont want him to go, I dont trust him- but what does working on our marriage involve? Him being my prisoner, coming home straight after work? I dont want...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    Hi all, my husband went to Vegas recently with male friends for a bachelor’s party. I did not like the idea at all, but we have been having problems for a while, and we weren’t really talking, so he went. The day that he came back, we talked for a long time about our problems and everything...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband is the kindest, most charming guy that everyone loves and looks up to. He's left his rich, luxurious life to serve people in need. He's just Mr. Perfect. But several times, I have felt that he shoves me aside :( when he's in his "helping a lost soul mode (all women)", and I have...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    Okay, this is my first post so bear with me please. I'm a writer so I have a tendency to get a bit long winded when I don't edit. I've been dating this girl for about 2 months now and I'm not used to dating at all. I'm the type of guy once I start talking to a girl we end up dating for atleast...
  16. General Relationship Discussion
    I don't know how to begin this post, but I must start somewhere, so here goes. Please feel free to ask me for details or ask me about things that I haven't mentioned that you suspect could be in play... because they probably are, and I just don't want to "over share." I'd like some level of...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    My H & I have been together for 4 years & married 1 year. We have 2 kids together & had them very young. Im not going to disclose my age because I dont want anyone giving me anwsers based on it. We have been through so much in our relationship & Things were going well for awhile. Well after I...
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