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  1. Coping with Infidelity
    What I had is “gone” cause of what I have done and I cannot forgive myself for the pain that I have caused but I am hoping he can forgive me. Since 2004 I have been in a relationship with a man that knows more about me then I know about myself, has seen who I am and knew what I could become...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    Where to begin? My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years and just recently had our first baby. We got married young (both 21) and had decided on waiting on kids because of that. Fast-forward about 6 years and this is when our problems began. We were both under a lot of stress bc...
  3. The Ladies' Lounge
    I am a 29 year old who has just now allowed myself to start the process of fixing my biggest flaw. I have commited to going to a 12 step group called Celebrate Recovery, because i have been directed there by our MC. I am truly commited for the first time in 5 years to stop the cycle of pain in...
  4. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    :( So, there's a possibility my nine week separated partner is having and EA?PA with my sister-in-law. (my brothers wife) Three weeks after he left, she wanted out of her marriage too. My brother works away and has been sending letters and love from across the world, trying to salvage his dying...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    What would you do if someone openly devoted themselves to you in every way in any particular way? Through any means of communication with heartfelt positive notion. Would you give in and connect with them no matter the distance or sacrifices you must take? Because, in some way you feel the...
  6. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Our story is definitely as complicated as they come. Bare with me as the story may jump. I met my husband in 2000. He would always come into where I was working at the time. I didnt know at the time that he was younger than me as he dressed and acted older than 17. I was 19 and fresh out of...
  7. General Relationship Discussion
    Hey everyone, I am glad I found a place to ask some advice, because I have been so clueless as to what to do in my marriage for a little while now. My husband and I have been married for 5 years in October, but together for 6 1/2. We have two biological children together and he claims my...
  8. The Ladies' Lounge
    Have been with this man for 28 years. He was a hard working man always provided for our family howeverthere was always a problem with having a stable household now since the final piece of secrecyhas unfolded the answers have left me devastated. First secret he had never been divorced when he...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been married going on 4 years. We have two small children. Almost 3 years ago, we were living with his sister, when we moved out his sister told me he was constantly saying he wanted a divorce. We worked through it, in the last two months however, I've had two other...
  10. General Relationship Discussion
    I accidently found out that my engagement ring is not a diamond but a cz. Doesn't sound like a big deal, but I had an arranged marriage... Throughout my whole engagement period, this man and his family bragged and bragged about being so rich and having such a great job, house, car, investments...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    Red flags, Wife is lying and I'm long away at work One fine Saturday afternoon, I placed a call to my wife and in the course of the conversation asked her where she was. She claimed to have joined friends party and would be heading home to take care of the kids. This was at around 17:00 Hrs...
  12. Sex in Marriage
    I'm 24 years old, been with my husband for a little over 2 years, married 1. (went to high school together, so I know you're thinking we married too young/soon) He'll be 24 in a few months, so we're the same age. We have no kids, neither do we want any. That's never been an issue. To set the...
  13. General Relationship Discussion
    Ok, so my wife and I have been together for over 10 years. Married for 6. 2 kids. We already have trust issues from various little things here and their. Lots of little lies, usually about insignificant things. One big thing was about 4 years ago, I found out she was staying up at night and...
  14. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ive been with my lovly gorgeous, smart wife for 5-6 yrs, we have been married 3.5yrs. We had to go to a foreign country and basically stay in a small town for a good 2 yrs of our marriage. It was really hard. I made a lot of mistakes and lied constantly about prescription pill abuse as well...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    my husband was cyber cheating on me, as well as having phone sex with woman on chatlines, im wondering when will i feel better? when will i trust again? when does the pain stop ????? when will there be a day where i dont look @ him & feel anger inside me? when will i feel like the way things...
  16. General Relationship Discussion
    Me and my partner have been together 3 years minus a few month split up engaged till the split up which occurred through the first half of my pregnancy, (he left me for someone younger, smoked pot nonstop, drank,etc) which I do believe was solely because when he realized we were going to have a...
  17. Relationships and Addiction
    Hi everyone. I am new here. Thanks for letting me join and post. I hope I can figure out my marriage. I have been married, happily, for 20 years. Husband recently laid off work; I am disabled and receive SSI. We moved to a new city in search of better job opportunities but so far nothing has...
  18. Relationships and Addiction
    So, awhile back after my husband and I had talked about pornography and our opinions on it, he told me it would not bother him at all to not look at it anymore because it bothered me. A couple of months after that I was taking a bath and he thought I was going to take a long time and went to...
  19. General Relationship Discussion
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  20. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married to my husband for almost 3 years, together for 7. We do not have children. We have seen a counselor since January. In the last year, I've found that my husband is a liar. They are not lies of infidelity, he's never cheated on me. He lies about our financial situation, and...
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