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  1. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Where do I start... I’ve been married for almost 21 years. I have 3 children and I want a divorce. My husband claims to love me and says he will never stop loving me that I am the love of his life... my story is LONG sand could be made into a Sunday night movie- I grew up very religious and...
  2. General Relationship Discussion
    My wife told me a bold-face lie last night. It was something inane, to the extent that I don't even understand why she bothered to lie. I only found out about the lie when my daughter told me something contradictory the next day. I actually believed my 12yr old daughter, because she is generally...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, This a bit of a long one... If you feel able to respond to leave a comment, we'd appreciate it. Please reply to us as you would like to be spoken to yourself - peacefully and respectfully. Thank you. I'm married (M37) to my wife (F34), for 11 years, together for 18 years in total...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    "HAPPY" new year, not? Need opinions/advices. hello everybody, I need some kind of help. it is escalating here and i don't know what to do. my husband betrayed me in our dating phase and right after our wedding. i found out 6months after we moved together (after our wedding). at this time my...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    I met my husband 4 years ago. We married a year ago and now expecting our first child together. When we first met I was 21 and he was 26. I was into the party scene and just wanting to live my life how I wanted. He already had 2 beautiful girls and had his mind set with his responsibility. We...
  6. The Men's Clubhouse
    So - I have this friend [M38] (not close, but still a friend) who has been with his fiance [F38] for about 18 months. They bought a house and have been living together for about 5 months. About at the same time they bought the house - 9 months ago - he told his ex GF [42] (my friend) about his...
  7. General Relationship Discussion
    Late last year my wife told me she was rapped by someone she knew and she went to the hospital for a check up and reported to the police the next day. I was very upset of what had happen to her because she lied to me. She told me she was coming home from her mothers house but ended up coming...
  8. Life After Divorce
    So the saga continues as I watch my ex-wife rewrite history...I just went from being a “good father for the girls” to “world’s greatest deadbeat dad.” (whaaaaaaaaa?????) So…questions… How did they do it? How did it make your feel? When did it stop? Did they ever figure out they did it? Were...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    After 7 years of living together, my boyfriend and I finally married. At the same time, he began a new job, and he promised our lives would improve. We had sought couple's Counceling even before marriage, as my husband is very child like when it comes to conflict. Within weeks of our...
  10. General Relationship Discussion
    my husband and I fight all the time about me wanting to be in my daughter and 2 granddaughters life, he hates my daughter because they got into a verbal spat and she said some hurtful things to him and the reason the fight happened is because he wont allow her to come over and every time she...
  11. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello Everyone. I really need some good advice. My wife and I have been married almost 9 months. Life has been wonderful. Except for one thing. We had a long distance relationship back before We married. We talked about everything. We both come from previous marriages so we wanted to cover...
  12. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My story is one I never though Id have to tell and honestly I have been completely alone dealing with this for almost a year now and desperately need any advice any of you are willing to give. I feel like I am at my breaking point. A little background on the previous 9 years - my husband was so...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    This is going to be a long post, and I wish there was some way to cut it down but unfortunately there isn't. So here goes... My husband and I met in middle school. After "dating" a few weeks on and off, I began seeing my first love. We broke up in the 9th grade, and my now husband who I will...
  14. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married about 5 years to a mid 40's man who grew up in Europe. We agreed at start of relationship that we didn't want to go in to past details as number of partner etc. One issue I did bring to his attention at the start of our dating was that I had a 'recreational' video that I made...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I am in a distance relationship with my husband at the moment. He is in NY and I am in Spain. I have lost trust in him due to many things that have happened in the past (he is a recovering alcoholic). The point is before leaving we made clear some bounderies so that we don't hurt each...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone, this is the first time I have ever posted anything online so I am not sure if I am in the right area in this site but I really need opinions and would greatly appreciate any you would have....I talk a lot so this may be pretty long but I will try my best to keep it on the shorter...
  17. Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Please excuse if you have seen this already; I thought I posted it but never saw it again. I hope I don't lose this one! I've been married 23 years now, and I can't tell if I'm overreacting to issues in the past or actually looking at an accumulation of evidence. My questions are 1) what do...
  18. General Relationship Discussion
    Well I want to start by telling the story then asking the question so everyone gets the full effect. My husband started being really mean and just standoffish this year he normally works Fridays and Saturdays until 11-12 so he was leaving work and going to the bar on these nights as well as...
  19. General Relationship Discussion
    There is a man and a woman...They met online. They quickly fell in love with one another. About 6 months into their relationship she found out he was talking to other women..Not completely sure how many, maybe just one. She confronted him. He swore he loved her and he would never do it again...
  20. The Ladies' Lounge
    My husband and I have known each other for 22 years. We "dated" for 2 years in school. His family moved away so we lost touch. I found him 14 years later, and within 3 weeks he rode his motorcycle across the country to come back to me. We got married 2 years later and now have a family together...
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