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  1. Divorcing but still "friends" in picture

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Well guys, I'm in somewhat of a train wreck type of situation. Married 6 years, marriage failed and now divorcing. I (husband) filed 2 months ago because i could no longer deal with it all and because she personally does not have the resources and means to. Now she works and can get on her own...
  2. The 180 - Lessons Learned - Guidance Appreciated

    Coping with Infidelity
    Long Time Lurker - First Time Poster - I'm looking for guidance and some tough leadership from the veterans. I'd like to share my situation, my early grasp of the 180 (and how I failed just like you vets said could happen), but also the good things that I accomplished. I'm going to crank...
  3. How to let her go?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been together with my gf for 4 years. When we met we were from different worlds, we had 7 years of age difference and completely different educational backgrounds, including different nationalities. We fell in love and it was wonderful for 3 years. During the time I have been mostly...
  4. I'm ready to move on, but I can't. Please Help!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone and thank you for your replies they are much needed or else I wouldn't be here writing this now... I am 24 years old and married. I decided to leave my husband last October 2011. It is now almost August 2012 and I still haven't proceeded with our divorce. The decision to get...
  5. Developing Detachment / Letting Go

    Coping with Infidelity
    I just want to share with you guys this very nice article from I know this will help! DEVELOPING DETACHMENT By Jake Lawson What is detachment? Detachment is the: * Ability to allow people, places or things the freedom to be themselves. * Holding back from the need to rescue...