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  1. Would you want to know? Caught my ex cheating on her fiancee with...

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  2. Why does my wife like dressing me up so much?

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello. My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have been together for 8 years in total. She was my first and when I first had sex with her i asked her if I was the biggest penis shes ever had and she started laughing. After that we kept having sex, but we keptWithin a year, we were...
  3. Lesbian Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    I titled this Lesbian Marriage so that you all know what you're getting into by reading this. Please don't come at me with "you're going to hell" or this or that. Just move along. If you are reading this to help, I thank you. I will try to keep it short. My name is B (22). Her name is S (28)...
  4. Lesbian domestic violence situation/adoption..really at a loss

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey I'm new here but I could really use some urgent help with this situation I've been with my gf for 5 years, we are a lesbian couple. And our relationship has always been great up until this recent incident. I have very bad trust issues b/c I have been cheated on in the past. The night of...
  5. Wife had lesbian affair. What do I do now?

    Coping with Infidelity
    The first 15 years of my marriage were awesome. My wife and I met in college and were very much in love. Lots of love throughout our marriage and great physical and emotional intimacy. We have two elementary-age children. But the last 4 years have been a struggle. New jobs and relationship led...
  6. Mixed orientation marriages

    Sex in Marriage
    Perhaps this is as good as it gets. After all, what is ‘a successful Mixed orientation Marriage’? We've just reached the first anniversary of my wife’s coming out as a lesbian. And we’re still together, still exclusive and faithful to each other, and intending to continue that way. What a year...
  7. My "hasbian" wife. Is she cheating? How to handle situation?

    Coping with Infidelity
    First some backstory about my marriage: I have been married for about 2 weeks to a woman who I have known for 20 years and lived together with for 8 years as a couple. We are in our early 30s and have no kids. I earn a very comfortable living, and she has a lot of debt. She was with me before...
  8. Lesbian Afffair? Emotional Affair? What Should I Do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I'm hoping to get some advice as I don't feel I can speak to anyone I know about this. I have been with my gf for 8+ years, we have a 3 year old together. I've thought for a long time that our relationship wasn't perfect, but we rarely fight and are nice to each other, maybe just lacking...
  9. Is there hope for us?

    Sex in Marriage
    I'm in a lesbian relationship and have problem with my wife. She is grossed out at giving oral sex, although is perfectly content to receive to. She said it wasn't me, it was that way with all women, and she has a strong sense of smell and can't do it. Other than this, our sex life is...
  10. Will love save us?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 2 years (we are registered domestic partners which is as close to legal marriage as we can get). We love eachother very much, we have great times together, we love spending time together and don't get tired of one another. Our problem...
  11. My first actual lesbian relationship

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello guys, We I met this girl almost two years ago (I'm female) she came up to me one day in class and asked for my number to share a book sometime and I didn't know her. So after class was over she started texting me and somehow I kinda figured she was gay too. Later that day she came to my...
  12. gf babys daddy and girlfriends ex? HELP!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey, I need advice. Im in a relatively new relationship. We moved fast and we are living together, me her son and her. (PS, IM GAY) Im not used to children but i really love this kid and the woman im with is everything i could dream of. Ive had some rough past relationships. Heres the thing. I...
  13. Wife of 25 years in affair with other woman

    Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry Long Post. My first... My wife and I had an amazing 25 years of 28 years of marriage with a robust sexual life and a mutual love and respect. We had been very close and I adore her parents and my extended family. We were married at 24 years old and she was always the true love of my...
  14. time to leave her? - Disclaimer- lesbian relationship

    Coping with Infidelity
    I was cheated on 2 years ago by my girlfriend; we had been together for 6 years prior. We met very early in undergraduate, neither having dated women prior, and just fell head over heels in love. She and I had both been in serious straight relationships. I had very recently left my high...
  15. The Diaries of Anne Lister: And Mine

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    I was not sure in just what sub-section to post this piece I wrote recently about Anne Lister. I'll place it here and, if moderators want to move it, that's fine with me.-Ron:scratchhead: ---------------------------------------------------- SECRET DIARIES MORE INTERESTING THAN MINE The Secret...
  16. My wife watches lesbian porn and doesn't know I found out!

    Sex in Marriage
    So I truthfully stumbled (did not snoop!) across a bunch of lesbian porn and google searches for lesbian sex on my wife's devices. When I saw it I was very shocked. I thought for sure it was a mistake or someone must have gotten a hold of her device without her knowledge. You see, in our house...
  17. Venting and Jealousy Toward My Husband's Lesbian Friend?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I'm new here, and something's been bothering me. My husband has a lesbian friend (which I have nothing against) who he has known for 8 years. She is very nice, and I like her as a person, but at the same time, there are certain things that bother me about her, too. I will admit, some of the...
  18. Wife might be bi or gay...need advice!!

    Sex in Marriage
    I need outside opinions on this.... I have been married for over 15 years. We were adventurous in the beginning. Before we were married and for spotty periods of time in our marriage, we have had great sex. Until we began using vibrators for her, it was dead. Now we have sex often, have two...
  19. Discovered W in long PA with OW

    Coping with Infidelity
    ** I have been posting on MB and DB. I found the approach found in MB to be a bit renegade. I have found that DB lines up more with my character. I am posting my story here just to see if there are others out there with experience in a same sex affair. I will start by posting the main story...
  20. Can’t read my wife’s sexual preference –

    Sex in Marriage
    It’s been somewhat difficult to feel weather she is in the moment while we are having sex. For sometime now I have noticed my wife’s sexual attention has shifted toward this curiosity of being with another woman (which is not rare). She doesn’t really hide this, which is nice but I noticed...
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