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  1. No longer attracted to husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been with my husband for almost 4 years (married for less than a year). Before we got married, he was always happy and eager to help me with chores and errands. He would spend time planning fun activities we can do together. Now that we're married, he's sloppy and lazy. He throws mail...
  2. Husband doesn't hustle, doesn't set financial goals

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    How do you deal when you're married to a man who doesn't hustle? I am the one earning to meet the family's needs. I am very motivated, driven and I like to think big. My husband is taking care of a business (which startup funds we borrowed from my parents). The business has been running for 2...
  3. Layabout husband- 3 years in a tore-apart home.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have never considered divorce until now. The issue of laziness is at a breaking point. My husband and I have been married 12 years and we have two children 11 and 5. I was the primary breadwinner and quit my job and am starting two related new businesses that I can do from our home. My...
  4. Miserable in marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    So this is my first time on one of these but i am so miserable in my marriage right now. And i can take responsibility for the most of it. I make poor choices in men and then lose interest in them once i realize i can't "fix" them. My first husband and father of my son, died in a car accident...
  5. He turns 'I need help" into 'You can't handle it'

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all. If you could shed some llght on my situatu ion, I'd appreciate it. We are proud parents of a 3 year old and a 6 month old. I am lucky enough to be on paid leave for 6 more months. My husband thinks that means I do all with the kids and he kicks in when he feels like it and it should...
  6. I don't understand why

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    My husband has worked for UPS for four years. He lost that job at the end of Jan and he began a pharmacy tech online program. This isn't a school, though I asked him to just take the classes at the college. He is doing this alone at home and says it will take a month and he'll take the test, get...
  7. Pregnant with a Lazy Husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    Im 22 weeks pregnant with a 6 year old and 19 month old. Ive been married for 3 1/2 years to, what i think is, the most laziest man ever! I work all day and come home to have to clean, cook and take care of the kids while he stays home and doesnt do anything productive with his time. Instead of...