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  1. Lonely and Smothered.. I’m new

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello everyone! I’m new here, living in the US! Been married to a wonderful man for 5 years (together 7) my husband is on the spectrum which effects almost every aspect of our marriage. Sex is rare and awkward when it does happen, communication is a constant struggle and within the past year we...
  2. 10 year drought and sore forehead

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am banging my head against the wall. Ten years. Ten YEARS. We have not had sex for over ten years. Affection dried up before that. We have talked about it. "It takes two" she always says. :iagree:Yes, that is true. However, when it has been so long, why bother to try to start...
  3. Spin cycle of loss, bisexuality, control and failure

    Relationships and Spirituality
    This is something I've needed to share for a number of years and just have not felt safe or right in doing so. There are several issues that I feel surrounded and entangled with in my marriage of 22 years. Some early marriage background: both my husband and myself had a strong foundation in...
  4. Married 10 yrs, together 15, lack of sex, husband wants to leave me

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    So a couple months ago my husband informed me that he did not know if he wanted to be married anymore, after 10 yrs of marriage and 15 yrs together. :( We are in our late 30's and in the beginning we both were always affectionate and always had sex. A few yrs later we had a child, after that...
  5. I've lost interest in sex life

    Sex in Marriage
    I've been married for almost 11 years to my beautiful wife. I love her like nothing else in the world, she's been my lover, friend, partner and many more things and on top of everything she gave me my 2 beautiful children. For many years I (like most men) was always after her for sex. She is...
  6. Jealous over "Bro-mances"...

    General Relationship Discussion
    My H and I have been married for 11 years, together for 13. I am 46 and he is 39. The beginning years were mostly perfect. Love, affection, healthy sex life, attention etc. At the 7 yr. itch mark it happened, a brief "emotional affair" with his 20 yr. old secretary and I was prepared to end...
  7. Getting divorced because of no sex

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I am having one of the worst times in my life because of the lack of sex in my marriage. However, ever since the begining of our relationship, we have only averaged sex about 2 or 3 times every three months or so. I asked her if she is not attracted to me. I keep myself very fit and have...
  8. I think my lovely wife is getting too obese...

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I love my wife, I love my wife, I love my wife BUT lately, I’m beginning to think her weight has become a problem for me. Let’s throw it out there…Yes; I’d still stay with her through all sickness and strife. She’s still the very attractive. She dresses well and keeps herself dressed and made...
  9. Why won't my husband have sex with me?

    Sex in Marriage
    We had a baby 6 months ago, and have only had sex4 or 5 times since Sept of 09. I let him know that I am interested and he seems to ignore it. I've done everything... worn lingerie, gotten a Brazilian, left loving notes and nothing. But I know he still looks at porn. He swears up and down...
  10. Husband doesnt want to make love to me, I wish I was never born.

    Sex in Marriage
    I am so miserable, sad and confused with my marriage, that honestly I dont know whether its worth staying in it or getting a divorce.? My husband and I will be celebrating our 1st anniversary in February. We have been together for nearly 3 years. Personally I believe our relationship was doomed...
  11. Men... I need your help! Why doesn't my man try to have sex with me?

    Sex in Marriage
    So my story is: We have been dating for over 4 years, he is 28 and I am 24. We get along great, we live together, do things together, can talk to each other about anything, but the sex has gone downhill. In the beginning it was wonderful and frequent, now it is once or twice a month and I have...
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