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lack of desire

  1. Husband is not interested in sexual intimacy

    Sex in Marriage
    I am 26, my husband is 31, and we have been together 7 years (married 2yrs). He is generally not interested in sexual intimacy and it breaks my heart. He is a loyal, hardworking, good man and we love each other very much, but I'm having a hard time coping with repeatedly being rejected and...
  2. Wife (me) lost sex drive

    Sex in Marriage
    Anyone else completely lost their sex drive? I am not able to have pleasure alone or with my husband. Then we tried and for the first time in over 20 years when he started to have his pleasure, the build up, the sounds, and then he just went limp inside me without cumming. We were unable to...
  3. My husband seems uninterested in me

    Sex in Marriage
    No matter what I try or how I approach it my husband either turns me down or pushes having sex off for another time, once he does agree to sleep with me its very mechanical and not very emotional or passionate, what can I do? I have tried to explain how it makes me feel but he just blames it on...
  4. Not attracted to my spouse :(

    Sex in Marriage
    I'v been married 7 years. I'm not attracted to my spouse for many years now. I still want to stay with him but I'm very saddenned because I used to love sex and found it a very exciting fun part of our lives together. When we met he wasn't really my "type" physically, but I fell in love with his...
  5. Sex with my wife

    Sex in Marriage
    I am sure this is the more common scenario in marriage and that there are more than a few posts on the subject, but I'd like some help with my particular situation. I am 37, my wife is 31 and we have been married for 12 years now. We were quite young, her much more so and to complicate things...