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  1. Growing Sexually with a wife who has hit her kinky stride full on - Insights Please

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife is in her 50s and hitting her kinky full stride (or at least things that have not been the norm for the past 20+ years of marriage). I am praying I can stay alongside for the ride. So far there have only been a few bumps in the road where I lost traction which is what brings me here. I...
  2. In Kinkiness Or In Health

    The Ladies' Lounge
    When we got married 13 years ago I never thought that now it seems like every weekend he wants to go out and do something kinky (go to "clubs" that oftentimes involve BDSM or recently swingers clubs--to "check it out"). It starts Thursday mornings. He'll start asking me "are we going to do...
  3. just told I'm boring in bed

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone, I'm new to this site, but I'm up late and can't stop thinking about what my husband said to me. Early tonight I tried to initiate sex, but nothing I did was getting him excited. He worked long hours today, so I asked him if he was too worn out or if he wanted to keep trying. He...
  4. Husbands: When does flirting become cheating?

    Sex in Marriage
    I am 31 and I have been married for 4 years and together for 8 years. I love my husband and he is a wonderful husband and father. We have two kids, ages 1 and 3. We have sex every other day or so, and sometimes it is great sex and sometimes just ok. I know there are times he watches porn and...
  5. Finding Common Ground

    Sex in Marriage
    Background: 2nd marriage for both. Married 10 years. I am 50 and husband is 51. We have sex at least once per day on average for some time. Sometimes vanilla but trying to spice things up a bit. When dating he revealed: -at least one time going to a swingers' club with his ex-wife. She was...
  6. Husband wants kink and not sex

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi everyone! This is my first post on here so hopefully I can communicate everything well enough. My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 4 of them. He is 29 and I am 27. We have never really had a sex life. He had sexual partners before me but our first time having sex...
  7. Kinky sex details - do you tell your friends?

    Sex in Marriage
    Do you tell friends about kinky sex details with your spouse? I recently realized that my hubby has been telling his best friends some details about our sex life. We're in our fifties. We've been together since we were teenagers and still have dear friends from those teenage years that we...
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