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  1. Feeling like you come second

    General Relationship Discussion
    Does anyone in my age group (25-30) who has kids feel like they always come last to your husband to his friends and hobbies? I think I just want to feel like I’m not alone because i don’t really have anyone to talk to about it and he makes me feel like some crazy controlling wife when all I want...
  2. He wants kids but I don’t

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been together for 7 years married 3 of those years. I was always very upfront on how I will probably never want kids. It’s just something that’s always been a fact. He had said that was fine and that I was enough. I would always be enough for him. About two years ago he...
  3. Need to hear the truth

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey my first post and figured I’d reach out to who ever would just tell me what to do..I’ve read some Marriage forums about wife hating you, and honestly I don’t see that they pertain to me. Why? They all have some type of hope of coming back from That..I don’t and I am to Blaim! Here’s a run...
  4. Ahoy all!

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I was going to with "Hey everyone" but i noticed that there's a billion posts with that intro already.. so i decided to be different. I put this in my bio, but i'll reiterate myself in the intro: My name is Alex, I live in Arizona and came across this forum when googling answers about my...
  5. Husband Introduced Young Kids to His "Friend"

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I apologize if this is long, it has been a while since I posted.
  6. Moved out

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I haven’t talk to any lawyer bc I don’t have the money for it. I moved out of our rental house that me and my “husband “ live with our 2 kids We were fighting a lot, and I thought I couldn’t pay for the rent by myself and he need the space for his tools and such. Now he is seeing some...
  7. Need help, losing mind and hope quickly.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Now for something you may of heard before. Me and my wife have been together for six years. We have three young kids, are in our thirties, rent together and have combined financial assets, if you can count that little, lol. We have opposite personalities, I have been diagnosed with schizoid...
  8. Making it work for the kids

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been together for 15 years and have 6 children together. About 4 years ago I left my job as a state social worker, making great progress in the field of advancement, to become a sty at home dad while she worked as a nurse. Everything was fine for quite so time but probably...
  9. My husband is leaving me and I can't cope

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been going through this for 3 weeks now. My husband has been having an emotional affair that has lead to hickies on her neck. But it all started with them being friends and riding into work together, 3rd shift factory work. And now they have a "special connection he and I never had". I know...
  10. Help! I had A Great wife and marriage....

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am not sure what to do here. I have been with my wife for 7 years, married for 6. We have a generally happy marriage and good family life. When I met her I was on the recovery from a bad marriage, and was looking for nothing serious. I wasn't expecting to develop real feelings for anyone...
  11. Why is this so hard for me

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I feel like I don't know which way is up anymore. I have been married for 10 years. We have 4 children. My husband is sarcastic (that I can handle) and passive aggressive. The later has eaten away at me over the years. I feel like I can't do anything right. Like I'm on high alert for his next...
  12. Troubles with a lot of dynamics

    General Relationship Discussion
    So I have been married for about a year, met my wife while she was coming out of treatment (she was in and out of jail and probation for meth use until she was sent to different treatment facilities for a couple years). She completed everything, one of those actual mindset changes where she was...
  13. Recently separated, seeking insight.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, I'm just trying to seek out some insight from anyone who may have some. Also I apologize for the wall of text. It turned into many more words than I was intending, but details might make it easier to provide insight. Background: My wife and...
  14. Would you tell your kids?

    Coping with Infidelity
    So after 13 years of marriage, I found out my stbx husband was having an affair (again) and this time he was done and wanted to move on. We ended up staying in the same house though for a year, living separately. Just recently we finally moved to another state. My kids are 9 and 12. They...
  15. Daughter going off to college. How are you guys handling thiis?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Like most parent at this time of the year, I am getting ready for my baby to go to college. We are getting the required list going, she is buying her stuff and putting her things together. She is learning to drive. I am happy for her, she has worked so hard. She is a great kid. We've never...
  16. He thinks he MIGHT want kids.... I know I don't

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Since the age of 17, I've known that having kids was something I wasn't interested in. Many people have told me that my opinion will change, but at 31... I feel more confident than ever in my decision. When I met my husband, I was very open about not wanting to have kids. 2 weeks before the...
  17. Pre-Cancerous and STILL smoking? WTH?

    Life After Divorce
    So four yearsa go we split...blah, blah, blah... A few months after she is in her new place , the kids report to me that she has stopped smoking. I congratulate her and she tells me that her last checkup x-rays showed interstitial scarring on her lungs. I'm supportive. A while back I noticed...
  18. Hate him flirting...with me.

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Met up with my estranged husband today over coffee to discuss our son's birthday (separated about 3 months now). He kept flirting and asking when we could go out. I have a really hard time keeping my temper, because it seems like he's serious. He says he's lost without me, etc, and while I feel...
  19. What do I do?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I’ll try to keep this short as this is a 13 years saga in the making and to cover it all would be like reading War and Peace. Our problems are the same as everyone else’s just with a twist. The twist doesn’t matter, the long and short of is I want to leave my wife but there are 2 things...
  20. Different life goals

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    My spouse and I have been together for almost a decade now. For most of that time, we've had a really strong relationship. We got together because we both shared a love of the outdoors, and we've had a lot of adventures together over the years. We even hiked over 2000 miles of the Pacific...
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