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  1. Husband's kept his multiple FB profiles a secret and it has left me disturbed!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for 6 years through arranged marriage. We have a son (5) and a daughter (2). He was never on Facebook, whereas I have been for some years now. He never seemed inclined and I didn't fuss over it. However, a few months back out of curiosity I searched his name on...
  2. Very insecure husband, Advice please!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Sorry in advance, I know it's long…ridiculously long…. Ok so I feel like I'm losing it here. I have been married to my husband for over 9 years now. We've been together for 12. We have two children together and I have two children from my first marriage. My divorce was pretty straightforward...
  3. Virgin husband struggling to overcome his wife's sexual past?

    Sex in Marriage
    Before dating my wife, I had zero sexual experience (no intercourse, no oral sex, nothing). As I dated and eventually married my wife images of her past sexual experiences did bother me a little, however I was able to not dwell on the past, ignore the images as best I could, move on and live in...
  4. The Best Friend

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My girlfriend has a male best friend. They are very close, text and Skype each other on a regular basis, and live a few hours apart. Both occasionally drive the distance to visit. They have known each other for almost ten years. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly four. I am not in any...
  5. I just need some advice.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 1/2 years. We have a fairly healthy relationship, we don't live together but see each other on a weekly/bi-weekly basis. I love being with him, we don't always do fun stuff but I enjoy his company. Sometimes I absolutely don't want to be with...
  6. Please help! Major trust issues and relationship anxiety =/

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and being that this is my very first serious, committed relationship (even though I'm 23 years old, turning 24 soon), I'm not sure what's "normal" and what isn't. A little background story before I explain what I mean. So we met at the...
  7. New here, dealing with insecurity... need advice.

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I are semi-newlyweds, only married less than a year. Before we got married, we lived together for about a year. I honestly did believe that this man was my Mr Perfect. He's smart, funny, good looking, sensitive, caring and he takes care of me and my kids (from a previous...
  8. Controlling Behaviour

    General Relationship Discussion
    I work away from home and dont speak to my wife as much as I would like. When I do I sometimes get in a sulk/mood if I find she has been having a life and doesnt tell me. I accused her of keeping secrets. I feel like I just want to be important to her and be involved and part of her life but she...
  9. Insecurity - The Fuel of Relational Conflict

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    One of the core components of reactivity and defensiveness is personal insecurity. I work with individuals that often share how family or friends are often reactive relative to them. The difficulty with defensive individuals is that they feel they are just protecting themselves from another...
  10. Uncomfortable with OBGYN

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I just recently had a baby. When we first found out that she was pregnant, she started spotting and went to the ER. I met her there and the doctor came in. He was young and just rubbed me wrong. He had this perverted vibe about him like he was enjoying looking at my wife too...
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