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  1. How to convince her?

    Relationships and Spirituality
    Hi, I just need some advice. I live in Europe and my girlfriend (and hopefully my wife to be) lives in England. I love her and she loves me. I am planning to live in England with her, but she keeps saying I am too good for her. It seems like she doesn't believe me, which is very annoying and...
  2. Insecure and porn makes it worse...

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I know a lot of people have hashed out the porn topic before-The advice I'm seeking less about porn and more about personal image, I think... I understand that men (and women) watch porn. I don't want to ask my fiance to stop watching porn, but I can't help but feel sad, ugly, unwanted, etc...
  3. Was I wrong?

    General Relationship Discussion
    He sends me a text while I'm at work....that he is having a bad day and When I get home we need to talk...so...I automatically assume Ive done something wrong....and dwell on thoughts of it for hours, becoming more frustrated as time passes...and couldn't think of anything ive done to upset...
  4. I need a man's opinion

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I apologize in advance for the long post, considering this is my first time posting, but I really need a man's opinion on my concern. My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years. We have been together for 10 years, since he was 17 and I was 18. We met online and talked for over a year...
  5. gf babys daddy and girlfriends ex? HELP!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey, I need advice. Im in a relatively new relationship. We moved fast and we are living together, me her son and her. (PS, IM GAY) Im not used to children but i really love this kid and the woman im with is everything i could dream of. Ive had some rough past relationships. Heres the thing. I...
  6. overreacting because I'm jealous of my husband'd female "buddy"

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have an awesome husband, and I do not think he's cheating or ever would. But he has befriended a woman (we'll call her Rachel) who is in love with his friend (Tom) so he became the middle man for them because Tom is unhappily married and fell into feelings and an affair w Rachel. Well, my...
  7. Am I being insecure or am I terribly wrong?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I know this is a long post, but you need all the info I can give in order to help/give advice. Been married 15 years. We are both 38. We have 2 kids 13, 9. Please follow along carefully because its important to try and understand the entire dynamic of what I’m dealing with. Problem: Wife has...
  8. I've never been this way before

    General Relationship Discussion
    This is my first post on this site. I've never done this before. At any rate, i figured it wouldn't hurt to try. I have been married to my husband for 3 years. We have been through more heartbreak and damage and baggage than most newly weds should ever have to think of! We have been separated...
  9. Separated and needing advice - how to 180

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi all, So i have been married 8 years and wife separated from me a few months ago. We have children together as well and splitting time with them. We see each other a couple times a week for dinner and TV when she has the kids and have been texting and IM'ing frequently while at work. Our...
  10. it's hard.........

    General Relationship Discussion
    When I first divorced I dated a lot but looking back I think I was looking for security as I was feeling very insecure and unfortunately met a few men that weren't really interested in me in the way of getting to really know me as a person or wanting to get into a real relationship. I am sure...
  11. Insecure after Five months

    General Relationship Discussion
    My Girlfriend/fiance has a male "best friend" whom make me feel insecure and now very untrusting. My nature is to be jealous and this is something I am battling and working on. We have lived together for five months. She moved over from Taiwan. Our relationship has been turbulant yet I do love...
  12. Can I get through this?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Insecure about his 2 exes? Can I get through this? I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now. He is by far one of the best men I have ever met. He treats me like his queen and adores my family, which has always been one of hte most important things I have looked for in a man...
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