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My marriage and relationship with my husband has been suffering for a long time. I know this does not excuse cheating but our marriage has been terrible. My relationship with the man I am seeing started probably crossing the line about ten months ago and kept progressing from there. This...

Hello. I was surprised to find this website. Well, it happened to me, my worst fear since becoming married. I'm 28, and my husband is also 28. My husband cheated. Again and again and again. This time it was physical. We have been married for 4 years, but together for 5 years. We don't have...

I have been following the comments and want to thank everyone for trying to help me. I think my marriage will be ok after some time and changes even though this has really messed him up and our relationship. He still loves me and doesn’t hate me thank god. No mention of divorce or separation. It...

I feel very stuck in my head and I don't know what to do. My husband and I have been married for about 5 months, and together almost 2 years in total. Yes, I know that's a pretty small amount of time but it felt right. I discovered halfway through us dating that he has a pornography/sex...

I recently found out that my fiance of about 8 months had been getting nude pics from a girl that he had talked to throughout our relationship. We are engaged now and to my knowledge he has been faithful since we moved in together in 2020. Prior to this, we were also in a long distance...

How do you learn to forgive yourself post affair? I am really struggling badly with guilt and shame. I think back to how I treated him during the affair and it hits me like a sledgehammer. I am so ashamed of myself. And the guilt on top of that is just eating away at me. I need solid...

I was reading many threads about what a woman goes through when they take back their unfaithful husbands. Note: This is pertaining to cheating men who have had a long term affair with the same woman. Not just a one off situation. Among the stories I have read, I see that many women realize...

Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...

So, my husband and I have been together 19 years, married 18. Have three amazing boys. Our relationship hasn’t been rainbows and butterflies and it has been dreadful at times. About 5 years in, I began talking to a friend of his. He hyped me up, told me how gorgeous I was and I ran with it...

Hey guys! Mom of 3 boys, married 18 years, madly in love but have made some mistakes. Hubby and I have not had a perfect relationship by any means but I do love him. About 6 years into our relationship, I talked to someone. He was funny and he seemed to pay attention to me which I liked. Then...

My wife and I have been married for 19 years. She is 47 and I am 65. I retired a few years back and we downsized our home and relocated to a seaside town. I suffer with incontinence and my sex drive has all but flown the nest. Because of the issues I have when we moved we agreed to sleeping...

My husband recently went away for business and I exposed him in a series of lies that have completely changed my feelings towards him. Backstory: friends 20+ years, living together for 10, children together (under 7), married just a year and a half ago. We have kept the children home doing...

I've been married for almost 21 years to my best friend. I've thought we were soul mates. I've had two D days in that time. Once just over 3 years ago and once 2 months ago. The one 3 years ago was a shocker. The one 2 months ago has me questioning my entire marriage and sanity. A brief...

Okay. First of all, thank you for the immense support. I saw a lot of varying things. Not gonna lie, a couple of the quarrels between users were funny. ** Feb 10. The day after I found everything** I called my boss and told him about it all. We are close and he also went through infidelity...

My wife of 5 years confessed to me that she had an all-girl orgy with her friends while I was away on a business trip. Her friends all came into town at the same time, so after having drinks all went to their hotel room and had an orgy. Is this considered cheating? My wife says no. I say yes...

Hi everyone, Husband and I have been having major marital problems for a while (have other threads here in the forum) and it escalated to him wanting a divorce and him signing the papers. Anyway, to make a long story short; he gave me a proposal the other day; let’s start counseling and take...

This is a doozy. Several months ago, wife started a chat online with a scammer pretending to be J Hope, a famous K Pop star. Somehow he convinced my wife that he (famous wealthy 27-year old pop star) is in love with my 63-year old overweight wife, and wants to marry her. In the process, he...

I stayed single and independent for the longest time.. I married older and I thought I was marrying the right guy. I did not say perfect, he's human after all. I dated this guy when we were in our 20's and too young to get married. He went on with his life, got married, no children, divorced...

Hi everyone, My partner and I have been together for slightly over 10 years, during 6 of which we have been married. It is a long story how I fell for him, but he is about 20 years older than me. Over the last couple of years, he told me clearly that, due to getting old, he has no longer...