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  1. The Family & Parenting Forums
    This is my very first post so forgive me if I'm making any mistakes or posting in the wrong place. I'm 28 he's 30 and we were together almost 10 years. I'm pregnant with our 3rd child and when I was about 4 months pregnant, he very abruptly kicked me and our children out claiming I didn't "clean...
  2. Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I don’t even know where to start or how to start this. 5 years ago I received a mental health diagnosis that made my life make sense to me, explained everything, but my husband does not believe it is real. In 2018 fall I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, generalized anxiety, panic disorder...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    Well she had no problem telling me that she has cheated on all of her ex partners. She would live with them but still have her own place, where she could sleep with any other guy once in a while. She says that she has never been caught. She would never confess her cheating, except if it was...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband of 16 years has been having an affair with his coworker and now we’re divorcing so he can be with her. I was completely blindsided by him telling me he wanted to be with me, he just couldn’t back in October. I didn’t understand why he even wanted a divorce, until I found out about the...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    I recently found out that my wife of 14 years is having an affair, I found out by finding text on my 10 year old daughters phone as she was using my daughter to lie and has even taken her up there for a weekend to see him and his two kids. A little back story to start. She is the love of...
  6. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Sooo, my husband cheated many times. I finally reached my point of okay.. he's not going to stop. It's time for me to leave. I have been waiting now 2.5 weeks, maybe longer (my sense of time has been off lately), for my lawyer to finish drawing up the divorce papers so that I can sign them and...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been together for 9 years and married for a year and a half. We have 4 kids (1 from his previous marriage, 2 from my previous marriage and 1 together). Our relationship had always been a rollercoaster but in 2017 he did the Love Dare and earned my trust back. We had done...
  8. General Relationship Discussions
    I’m in a tricky situation. When my boyfriend of six years and I where going through some difficulties, he decided to (sort of) cheat on me. I say sort of because they didn’t get physically intimate (which is why he won’t call it cheating), BUT only because the girl he fancied didn’t seem to want...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello. So, my husband cheated. It never crossed my mind that he may actually have depression. We have been going to therapy and the therapist said that based on everything he has been saying and doing, it seems as though one way of coping with his depression was through infidelity. She suggests...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    My marriage and relationship with my husband has been suffering for a long time. I know this does not excuse cheating but our marriage has been terrible. My relationship with the man I am seeing started probably crossing the line about ten months ago and kept progressing from there. This...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello. I was surprised to find this website. Well, it happened to me, my worst fear since becoming married. I'm 28, and my husband is also 28. My husband cheated. Again and again and again. This time it was physical. We have been married for 4 years, but together for 5 years. We don't have...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    I have been following the comments and want to thank everyone for trying to help me. I think my marriage will be ok after some time and changes even though this has really messed him up and our relationship. He still loves me and doesn’t hate me thank god. No mention of divorce or separation. It...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    I feel very stuck in my head and I don't know what to do. My husband and I have been married for about 5 months, and together almost 2 years in total. Yes, I know that's a pretty small amount of time but it felt right. I discovered halfway through us dating that he has a pornography/sex...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    I recently found out that my fiance of about 8 months had been getting nude pics from a girl that he had talked to throughout our relationship. We are engaged now and to my knowledge he has been faithful since we moved in together in 2020. Prior to this, we were also in a long distance...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    How do you learn to forgive yourself post affair? I am really struggling badly with guilt and shame. I think back to how I treated him during the affair and it hits me like a sledgehammer. I am so ashamed of myself. And the guilt on top of that is just eating away at me. I need solid...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    I was reading many threads about what a woman goes through when they take back their unfaithful husbands. Note: This is pertaining to cheating men who have had a long term affair with the same woman. Not just a one off situation. Among the stories I have read, I see that many women realize...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    So, my husband and I have been together 19 years, married 18. Have three amazing boys. Our relationship hasn’t been rainbows and butterflies and it has been dreadful at times. About 5 years in, I began talking to a friend of his. He hyped me up, told me how gorgeous I was and I ran with it...
  19. New Member Introductions
    Hey guys! Mom of 3 boys, married 18 years, madly in love but have made some mistakes. Hubby and I have not had a perfect relationship by any means but I do love him. About 6 years into our relationship, I talked to someone. He was funny and he seemed to pay attention to me which I liked. Then...
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