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How do you learn to forgive yourself post affair? I am really struggling badly with guilt and shame. I think back to how I treated him during the affair and it hits me like a sledgehammer. I am so ashamed of myself. And the guilt on top of that is just eating away at me. I need solid...

I was reading many threads about what a woman goes through when they take back their unfaithful husbands. Note: This is pertaining to cheating men who have had a long term affair with the same woman. Not just a one off situation. Among the stories I have read, I see that many women realize...

Looking for some outside perspective. I am 38(f) and husband is 42(m). Been married 10 years. Have two children aged 3 and 6. A month ago I discovered my husband has been having affairs throughout our marriage. I know of at least 3 and seemed to be purely sexual. I had no idea at the time...

So, my husband and I have been together 19 years, married 18. Have three amazing boys. Our relationship hasn’t been rainbows and butterflies and it has been dreadful at times. About 5 years in, I began talking to a friend of his. He hyped me up, told me how gorgeous I was and I ran with it...

Hey guys! Mom of 3 boys, married 18 years, madly in love but have made some mistakes. Hubby and I have not had a perfect relationship by any means but I do love him. About 6 years into our relationship, I talked to someone. He was funny and he seemed to pay attention to me which I liked. Then...

My wife and I have been married for 19 years. She is 47 and I am 65. I retired a few years back and we downsized our home and relocated to a seaside town. I suffer with incontinence and my sex drive has all but flown the nest. Because of the issues I have when we moved we agreed to sleeping...

My husband recently went away for business and I exposed him in a series of lies that have completely changed my feelings towards him. Backstory: friends 20+ years, living together for 10, children together (under 7), married just a year and a half ago. We have kept the children home doing...

I've been married for almost 21 years to my best friend. I've thought we were soul mates. I've had two D days in that time. Once just over 3 years ago and once 2 months ago. The one 3 years ago was a shocker. The one 2 months ago has me questioning my entire marriage and sanity. A brief...

Okay. First of all, thank you for the immense support. I saw a lot of varying things. Not gonna lie, a couple of the quarrels between users were funny. ** Feb 10. The day after I found everything** I called my boss and told him about it all. We are close and he also went through infidelity...

My wife of 5 years confessed to me that she had an all-girl orgy with her friends while I was away on a business trip. Her friends all came into town at the same time, so after having drinks all went to their hotel room and had an orgy. Is this considered cheating? My wife says no. I say yes...

Hi everyone, Husband and I have been having major marital problems for a while (have other threads here in the forum) and it escalated to him wanting a divorce and him signing the papers. Anyway, to make a long story short; he gave me a proposal the other day; let’s start counseling and take...

This is a doozy. Several months ago, wife started a chat online with a scammer pretending to be J Hope, a famous K Pop star. Somehow he convinced my wife that he (famous wealthy 27-year old pop star) is in love with my 63-year old overweight wife, and wants to marry her. In the process, he...

I stayed single and independent for the longest time.. I married older and I thought I was marrying the right guy. I did not say perfect, he's human after all. I dated this guy when we were in our 20's and too young to get married. He went on with his life, got married, no children, divorced...

Hi everyone, My partner and I have been together for slightly over 10 years, during 6 of which we have been married. It is a long story how I fell for him, but he is about 20 years older than me. Over the last couple of years, he told me clearly that, due to getting old, he has no longer...

Hi all. I am in my thirties, and have been mostly happily married for just over the last 10 years. My wife and I met when we were in college, and have been together ever since. We've been married just a little over 10 years, and lately have been drifting apart. We have two small children, and...

Two weeks ago, my (M37) wife (F33) of more than seven years asked me for a separation. Although it came somewhat out of the blue, it was preceded by about seven weeks of terrible communication, tensions related to her work, her being physically and emotionally absent from the home and household...

I am in what must surely be one of the messiest relationship entanglements, and I don't know whether I need advice, sympathy or a good metaphorical kicking, to be honest. Some pressures around my wife leaving her job in 2015 ultimately resulted in me starting an emotional affair with someone...

My wife and I have been together for four years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. Our relationship was absolutely perfect... right up until she got pregnant. Then it was like somebody flip the light switch. She would purposely pick fights and push my buttons to prompt a reaction from...

Just for clarification I am female. I recently found out my husband of 5 months has been sexting with men for years, throughout the entirety of our dating relationship and our marriage. He has several emails, as well as accounts on websites similar to Craigslist where he posted ads looking to...

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...