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  1. A Bit of Advice from someone who has been on both sides

    Coping with Infidelity
    In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...
  2. I've been sleeping with a girl that has a boyfriend of 3 years

    Coping with Infidelity
    I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...
  3. Don't know if Im being Paranoid

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My husband has been unfaithful in the past. I found out 7 years ago about past infidelities on his part and it crushed me. More over I thought I how stupid was I for not checking up, or not seeing the signs. I really felt like an idiot. For the last year we have started butting heads and its...
  4. DNA data offers scientific look at 500 years of extramarital sex in Western Europe

    Coping with Infidelity
    https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/11/191114115934.htm
  5. Mutual Friends or New Foes...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    How are your relationships with couples that are “mutual friends”? We’re not divorced yet but I have a set of supposed friends that we knew independently before any of us got into relationships. I even worked with her overseas where our husbands were stationed (we were all in the military...
  6. caught my husband one night stand andi idk what to do now!

    Coping with Infidelity
    hi, so my name's nyla and i am not sure if i am posting at the right space but. Anyways. i have been married for a year now. and my husband is a cabin crew and he flies all the time, of course. And throughout our time together, i have never once doubted his actions or felt any insecurity...
  7. I know I’m not perfect, but is this my fault...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I’ve been to therapy for a few months since learning from my children that my husband had been in an ongoing affair- they were 3 and 5. I was absolutely devastated and the first thing that my husband said was that it was both of our faults and that I need to own my part. I did so much for him...
  8. Tired of it all after wife's cheating

    Coping with Infidelity
    Wife and I had a troubled 7 year marriage. We had multiple points of tragedy with unable to have children, issues with side attention from other men due to low self esteem which would come and go, and fights which would get chaotic and end in no real resolution. Eventually we got to a point she...
  9. 6 Months Ago Today. The Pain Continues.

    Life After Divorce
    Today marks 6 months since my XWW moved out. Although I'm not writhing on the floor in emotional distress, that sledgehammer called grief keeps pounding me in the gut at least once a day. I see her face, my best friend, smiling at me. My confidant, my lover, my wife. Suddenly, gone and in...
  10. Infidelity questions

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have read a great number of posts here and on other marriage and psychology sites about why people are unfaithful. Men do it for different reasons than women, it's not really cheating if, should I take him/ her back etc. I'm old school on this I suppose but don't couples discuss the issue of...
  11. Where do I go from here?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Wow, finally a place where I can get advice - good or bad - truthful and honest... My story is a long and complicated one. It started over 20 years ago when I first cheated on my now wife, then girlfriend with a woman from work. I'll cut it short but since then I have re-offended on multiple...
  12. Wife wants divorce

    Reconciliation
    I am in the army and i have been on tdy orders in germany since october. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and married for almost 1. A month after marriage was when i got my orders. Last month she called me to say that she had a one night stand 2 days earlier when she was drunk at a bar...
  13. Wife Left Me for Her Married Boss

    Life After Divorce
    My WS wife took a job as a restaurant manager in March of 2016. It was a new establishment and very high end. Business is very good to this day. I had a regular 9-5, and she had been looking for something more fulfilling and better pay for quite some time. We were married after an 8-year...
  14. Is my husband addicted to Porn?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've had many issues with my husband - he's chased several women he works with over the years, but without success. He has been dealing with depression and anxiety his whole life, and attributes a lot of his behavior to that. Recently, we went through several months of marriage counseling after...
  15. Gut instincts about boyfriend's female best friend

    General Relationship Discussion
    We have been together for six months now and getting along great except for one thing. He has introduced me to some of his friends. The first of his friends that I met is his female "best friend". She is married. The first time the three of us got together so that I can meet her, he treated her...
  16. Contact from Ex

    Life After Divorce
    Recent background: I had been posting a bit in another forum (named after a shack), but their site disappeared from the internet a couple of weeks ago (anyone know why?). I had hit on that one by accident. Now I realize this forum is quite a bit more active, so I'm going to give it a try. I...
  17. How do I respond to virtual infidelity?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for over 5 years. We have one child (a toddler) and, as of 2016, I am a stay-at- home mom. We also just bought a house. Throughout our marriage, my husband's porn use has been a constant issue. I compromised and said that magazines and dvds were fine but...
  18. Broken Vows

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I am new here, and I am reaching out to ask for godly input regarding my marriage, which is currently in shambles. I was married last February to my friend of 9 years. We had a long distance relationship through the majority of our relationship, and I knew that he had a past...
  19. High school sweetheart cheated on me then continued talking to him

    Coping with Infidelity
    I know this is alot as you can imagine being a long relationship/marriage. I'm cutting a few things out to shorten it up but feel free to ask for clarification. Please excuse any grammar or punctuation errors, I typed this up as quick as possible. Cliffnotes: My high school sweetheart of 17...
  20. Why is she (wife) behaving like that?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    We are married for over 20 yrs and have 2 grown children. We had a happy and active sexual relationship. 3 years ago I had a medical negligence issue that rendered me 2 years in coma. I spent 6 months therapy to learn to learn to walk and talk again. Past 6 months had made good progress. We both...
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