infidelity

My wife and I have been together for four years and we have a 1 year old daughter together. Our relationship was absolutely perfect... right up until she got pregnant. Then it was like somebody flip the light switch. She would purposely pick fights and push my buttons to prompt a reaction from...

Just for clarification I am female. I recently found out my husband of 5 months has been sexting with men for years, throughout the entirety of our dating relationship and our marriage. He has several emails, as well as accounts on websites similar to Craigslist where he posted ads looking to...

My husband and I have been married for 7 months, and together for 5 years. I just found out that my husband started an emotional affair with a much younger coworker and it became sexual. This affair started 3 weeks after our wedding and has been ongoing for the entire duration of our 7 month...

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Sorry this is a long read but I think the context is needed before requesting advice. Met my wife in 2009 and married in 2012. In early 2019, I found out she was cheating on me with one of her co-workers. I confronted her and threatened to leave, but she begged for forgiveness and wanted to work...

Hi my wife and I have been dealing w an affair that ended a few years ago. It was on my end. Loneliness and yearning to be apart of something made me make this mistake with A co worker I traine. Time has passed but the trust has been broken, we ended up conceiving our only child thru the drama...

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Self Reflection Questions: 1. How can I overcome my past wounds? 2. What can I do to avoid emotional triggers that set off memories of unpleasant times? 3. How can I find fulfillment through overcoming the past? 4. How would my life change if I had better control of my thoughts and emotions...

Up front, this is long and probably way too detailed for anyone other than those who are suffering from insomnia! My apologies for that, however even if no one reads this, just writing it out served as some therapy for me. Also, as I read other posts I realize this is pretty tame, but still...

I am Totallysad, and I first wrote a post here in 2015 sharing my experiences after a 16 year marriage with my husband in which I went through numerous instances of finding him cheating on me, physical abuse and emotional trauma. Every single response to my post asked me to seek counselling for...

In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...

I met this girl named Fi 3 years ago. We kind of fancied eachother, but we lived in different cities, so we didn’t pursue anything. A couple of months later, she got a boyfriend. I felt a little hurt, but I wasn’t all that bothered since nothing could’ve happened between us. Three years later, I...

My husband has been unfaithful in the past. I found out 7 years ago about past infidelities on his part and it crushed me. More over I thought I how stupid was I for not checking up, or not seeing the signs. I really felt like an idiot. For the last year we have started butting heads and its...

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How are your relationships with couples that are “mutual friends”? We’re not divorced yet but I have a set of supposed friends that we knew independently before any of us got into relationships. I even worked with her overseas where our husbands were stationed (we were all in the military...

hi, so my name's nyla and i am not sure if i am posting at the right space but. Anyways. i have been married for a year now. and my husband is a cabin crew and he flies all the time, of course. And throughout our time together, i have never once doubted his actions or felt any insecurity...

I’ve been to therapy for a few months since learning from my children that my husband had been in an ongoing affair- they were 3 and 5. I was absolutely devastated and the first thing that my husband said was that it was both of our faults and that I need to own my part. I did so much for him...

Wife and I had a troubled 7 year marriage. We had multiple points of tragedy with unable to have children, issues with side attention from other men due to low self esteem which would come and go, and fights which would get chaotic and end in no real resolution. Eventually we got to a point she...

Today marks 6 months since my XWW moved out. Although I'm not writhing on the floor in emotional distress, that sledgehammer called grief keeps pounding me in the gut at least once a day. I see her face, my best friend, smiling at me. My confidant, my lover, my wife. Suddenly, gone and in...