Hi Everyone! I am devastated and shattered at this point of time. I just found out last week that my Hubby of 8 months went to a sleazy massage place. I know it is sleazy as I went to investigate the place myself and my guy friend checked on the pricing for BJ, HJ and FJ. And they only serve...

Hi, New poster here. I'm quite sad/embarrassed that I'm having to seek help in this area, but I'm also thankful to be here to gain support as well. This is going to be REALLY long - so apologies in advance. This is all so frustrating and heart breaking because my wife and I get along and go...

My husband of 18 years all of a sudden started accusing me of cheating two years ago. He has accused me of sleeping with over 200 different men. He always says he has the proof but will never show it to me. But he is positive each time. I swear he search Facebook for men in our town and accuses...

Coming up on 8 years of marriage and I'm not sure I can suffer another year let alone a lifetime. We were married only 11 months into what was already a challenging relationship. We married quickly because he was (is) in the military and was being transferred. When we were dating there were...

Hi all, I guess my post is a lesson to show that everything really does eventually come back to bite you. I’ve been married 32 years, the first 10 years were rocky. My husband had drug and gambling issues that we needed to work through but he eventually became a good husband and father and now...

I had an affair last year and since I told my husband 8 months ago, we’ve recovered well. We are stronger than ever but he is still struggle with this intrusive thought of having a threesome. It stems from the man I had an affair with at one point asked if my husband would join. I never thought...

This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...

It's been 5 months since I discovered my WH had an 'affair' 5 years ago :confused: I am a military wife that has been married for 19 years and have been chronically ill for 6 years. The past 6 years have been super stressful for me and I had only recently stopped grieving my life before I got...

My wife and I had our first marriage counseling session yesterday. This is not the first time either of us have been in marriage counseling, although previously it was with both of our now ex-spouses. After our session, she texted me and told me she felt she could not go through with it, and...

I would love to know how you would see my situation with my ex. I feel so torn. Here's what happened: 1. We had a very rough long distance marriage (me in Vancouver, and her in San Jose) that lasted 2 years before I ended it with her. The main problem was that she continually, angrily...

I am now desperately trying to find a way to ruin my husband's affair trip going on right this moment. We are married for almost 25 years. He is now with this woman that he did not even know the last name. He bought airline ticket for her vacation in CA and joined her from east coast for her...

Married 10 years last month. Typical ups and downs; last few years we've taken a nosedive. Increasingly vicious and personal fights. A storm cloud hangs over our house and persistently threatens any peace. I take responsibility for my role in all of this. Four years ago, I got fired for cause...

Okay... I’m at a crossroad right now. If you guys have read my previous thread you know that I’m going through a separation, my wife is considering divorce, and she wants to file next month. Here is the gist of my situation: -Got kicked out of my house because my wife needed space and time to...

I was married to my second husband for seven years when we separated and then three years into working on it divorced. After our divorce is when he pursued getting back together with me. I resisted but after four years of counseling, marriage workshops, a lot of soul searching and faith to say...

My wife of 18 years left 3-1/2 months ago and moved into her own tiny apartment, leaving me and our 11 year old daughter. Now she's looking for an apartment to move in with her AP. She kept me in limbo for 3 months, saying she needed more time to decide, but I now believe she was just doing that...

I am so lost and confused and scared out of my mind. Last June, I discovered that my husband of only 1.5 years was having an affair. It lasted March-June. When I found out, I asked him to leave and he did. We then went through the motions of seperation. In August, we decided to reconcile...