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Hi all, I guess my post is a lesson to show that everything really does eventually come back to bite you. I’ve been married 32 years, the first 10 years were rocky. My husband had drug and gambling issues that we needed to work through but he eventually became a good husband and father and now...

I had an affair last year and since I told my husband 8 months ago, we’ve recovered well. We are stronger than ever but he is still struggle with this intrusive thought of having a threesome. It stems from the man I had an affair with at one point asked if my husband would join. I never thought...

This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...

It's been 5 months since I discovered my WH had an 'affair' 5 years ago :confused: I am a military wife that has been married for 19 years and have been chronically ill for 6 years. The past 6 years have been super stressful for me and I had only recently stopped grieving my life before I got...

My wife and I had our first marriage counseling session yesterday. This is not the first time either of us have been in marriage counseling, although previously it was with both of our now ex-spouses. After our session, she texted me and told me she felt she could not go through with it, and...

I would love to know how you would see my situation with my ex. I feel so torn. Here's what happened: 1. We had a very rough long distance marriage (me in Vancouver, and her in San Jose) that lasted 2 years before I ended it with her. The main problem was that she continually, angrily...

I am now desperately trying to find a way to ruin my husband's affair trip going on right this moment. We are married for almost 25 years. He is now with this woman that he did not even know the last name. He bought airline ticket for her vacation in CA and joined her from east coast for her...

Married 10 years last month. Typical ups and downs; last few years we've taken a nosedive. Increasingly vicious and personal fights. A storm cloud hangs over our house and persistently threatens any peace. I take responsibility for my role in all of this. Four years ago, I got fired for cause...

Okay... I’m at a crossroad right now. If you guys have read my previous thread you know that I’m going through a separation, my wife is considering divorce, and she wants to file next month. Here is the gist of my situation: -Got kicked out of my house because my wife needed space and time to...

I was married to my second husband for seven years when we separated and then three years into working on it divorced. After our divorce is when he pursued getting back together with me. I resisted but after four years of counseling, marriage workshops, a lot of soul searching and faith to say...

My wife of 18 years left 3-1/2 months ago and moved into her own tiny apartment, leaving me and our 11 year old daughter. Now she's looking for an apartment to move in with her AP. She kept me in limbo for 3 months, saying she needed more time to decide, but I now believe she was just doing that...

I am so lost and confused and scared out of my mind. Last June, I discovered that my husband of only 1.5 years was having an affair. It lasted March-June. When I found out, I asked him to leave and he did. We then went through the motions of seperation. In August, we decided to reconcile...

Bear with me, this is a long one. Last friday, feb 3 2012, while at work at night shift I got a text from a stranger telling me that they saw my wife out in the middle of the night 2 times in this past week, 1 with her sister and a guy, and the second with the guy alone, and seemed to have...

Hi guys, new here. Did not have anywhere else to talk and after browsing a bit, I found a lot of yall's words of advice very helpful. My boyfriend and I have been together almost four years and we have a two year old son together. When I entered the relationship, I had just left another LT...

What to make of these Mixed Signals? Hi: I am married, 9 months pregnant, and a stay at home mother of three children (5,8,9). About 2 months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair for about 5 months with a woman he worked with. This woman is also married with 4 children. I found...

My STBXW and I separated back in November of 2010 due to constant verbal, physical and emotional conflict. I left the house and filed for custody a few months ago and we have our first hearing next month. My STBXW still harbours hope to reconcile but after several MC and IC the same persistent...

Anyone have a Histrionic Personality type rock your marriage?