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  1. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hello TAM audience. I expect that it's mainly men who will respond to this, but if any women want to write, I will be happy to hear from you. My question is simple: is watching animated porn the same as watching regular, recorded porn? The moral condemnations people cite regarding the porn...
  2. New Member Introductions
    Brand new....having major trust issues with my husband of 10 yrs. He is very active in NA ,has 19 yrs clean. During covid I lost my work from home job and took a job on a warehouse working 3rd shift, 4 ten hrs nights...I'm in my mid 50's and this job literally broke me....constant pain, lost 2...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    I found out 2 months ago about my wife’s affair. My wife and I have been married for just two years. We have a 21 month old together and we spent the first year and a half of our marriage fighting for our lives. I didn’t realize that she had extreme postpartum depression until I was in way over...
  4. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband cheated on me this past July with a girl from work and left me for three months. It came out of nowhere and I never thought he’d do such a thing. Eventually he came back home and we decided to work things out. I truly believe he is my special person. I can’t imagine myself with anyone...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I’m 45 and my husband 41. About 2 years ago I found out he was having an affair with a 26 year old. When confronted, he told me it started The month before and chose to leave the house and not try save our marriage. Fast forward two years, we are divorced and she now lives in the house I...
  6. Coping with Infidelity
    Need some help here. I have been with my wife for almost 10 years and married for 5 years, we have 2 kids (2 and 4 year old). 2 Months ago I found out she has been having an affair for the last year with one of her coworkers that is also married and has 2 kids. I imediatly blew up and said a...
  7. Coping with Infidelity
    First of all, I have never been in this predicament before and I ask for respectful and genuine advice. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years... (We'll call her Cindy) I truly have always wanted to marry her since we began dating, as well as she. For the past 4 years or so, we have been...
  8. Coping with Infidelity
    I wanted to share my story and get some perspective and opinions on my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and together for 10 years. My trust in him has always been infallible when it comes to cheating and inappropriate behavior with other women. Then, my husband...
  9. Coping with Infidelity
    Hey everyone. Well I'm 26 and I've been married to my husband for two years now. In fact our anniversary is tomorrow, and how I am dreading it. Um, well I found out about his affair almost two years, the December after we got married. Not even an entire month that we were married and I found...
  10. Coping with Infidelity
    After being married for 14yrs, I found out that my husband had several affairs for the past years. Even after I found out I forgave him only for him to come back and tell me that he found another woman and he was done with our marriage. He left the house and moved in with this woman. He said...
  11. Sex in Marriage
    I am a married white male in my late 20's. My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I often view interracial porn that is mostly homemade involving real white wives with black men. Over the years this has evolved for me, it initially was just me being turned on by the reality of...
  12. General Relationship Discussions
    hello everyone, this is my first time ever posting on a forum. I am here in hopes of finding some advice. I have to admit I am afraid to share my story, all I am seeking is advice from other people who understand me... I've been married for over a year now. My husband and I were engaged about 5...
  13. Coping with Infidelity
    I'm at the end of my rope. I have gone through so much I feel as if my marriage is a complete sham. Here it is. My husband and I have been married for three years. In the summer of 2010 I cheated on him once with an exboyfriend I had been chatting with on and off. I told him about it a few...
  14. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I got pregnant when in high school by a guy I was dating at the time. Let’s just say he disappeared when I told him I was pregnant. I decided to have my baby because he was MY baby, and I would not do anything to harm my child. About two years after, I met my husband, we started dating and one...
  15. Relationships and Addiction
    I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years. Married to him for 10 months. Sex life was always constant but not wow. (just thought I was a little freakier than him) My husband always looked at porn, which i knew about and didn't have a problem with. In May of this year I decided to go on our...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    Greetings, this is my first post and I apologize if it is too long. A quick background: I have two kids from a previous marriage that I still have a good relationship with. Move forward to 2009. I was living in a foreign country and fell in love with one of the locals. She happened to be 30...
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