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  1. Husband left me for younger woman

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I’m 45 and my husband 41. About 2 years ago I found out he was having an affair with a 26 year old. When confronted, he told me it started The month before and chose to leave the house and not try save our marriage. Fast forward two years, we are divorced and she now lives in the house I...
  2. Wife had an affair and does not know if she wants to stay married

    Coping with Infidelity
    Need some help here. I have been with my wife for almost 10 years and married for 5 years, we have 2 kids (2 and 4 year old). 2 Months ago I found out she has been having an affair for the last year with one of her coworkers that is also married and has 2 kids. I imediatly blew up and said a...
  3. Kissed long-time GF's friend - I need sound advice.

    Coping with Infidelity
    First of all, I have never been in this predicament before and I ask for respectful and genuine advice. I have been with my girlfriend for 8 years... (We'll call her Cindy) I truly have always wanted to marry her since we began dating, as well as she. For the past 4 years or so, we have been...
  4. Is what my Husband did cheating?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I wanted to share my story and get some perspective and opinions on my situation. My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years and together for 10 years. My trust in him has always been infallible when it comes to cheating and inappropriate behavior with other women. Then, my husband...
  5. Is it time?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hey everyone. Well I'm 26 and I've been married to my husband for two years now. In fact our anniversary is tomorrow, and how I am dreading it. Um, well I found out about his affair almost two years, the December after we got married. Not even an entire month that we were married and I found...
  6. What type of Therapy?

    Coping with Infidelity
    After being married for 14yrs, I found out that my husband had several affairs for the past years. Even after I found out I forgave him only for him to come back and tell me that he found another woman and he was done with our marriage. He left the house and moved in with this woman. He said...
  7. Accedentally turned my wife on to Interracial Cuckold porn. What should I do?

    Sex in Marriage
    I am a married white male in my late 20's. My wife and I have been married for almost 9 years. I often view interracial porn that is mostly homemade involving real white wives with black men. Over the years this has evolved for me, it initially was just me being turned on by the reality of...
  8. some advice please, newcomer

    General Relationship Discussion
    hello everyone, this is my first time ever posting on a forum. I am here in hopes of finding some advice. I have to admit I am afraid to share my story, all I am seeking is advice from other people who understand me... I've been married for over a year now. My husband and I were engaged about 5...
  9. We are BOTH cheaters... Is this finally too much?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm at the end of my rope. I have gone through so much I feel as if my marriage is a complete sham. Here it is. My husband and I have been married for three years. In the summer of 2010 I cheated on him once with an exboyfriend I had been chatting with on and off. I told him about it a few...
  10. Separation - 2 Cheating Spouses - Psychological Abuse

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I got pregnant when in high school by a guy I was dating at the time. Let’s just say he disappeared when I told him I was pregnant. I decided to have my baby because he was MY baby, and I would not do anything to harm my child. About two years after, I met my husband, we started dating and one...
  11. Hi, New here. Possibley dealing with a Sex Addict husband?

    Relationships and Addiction
    I have been with my husband for 3 1/2 years. Married to him for 10 months. Sex life was always constant but not wow. (just thought I was a little freakier than him) My husband always looked at porn, which i knew about and didn't have a problem with. In May of this year I decided to go on our...
  12. The twins aren't mine

    Coping with Infidelity
    Greetings, this is my first post and I apologize if it is too long. A quick background: I have two kids from a previous marriage that I still have a good relationship with. Move forward to 2009. I was living in a foreign country and fell in love with one of the locals. She happened to be 30...
  13. One year after

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm new to this site, but I don't really have anyone else to talk to and I'm just confused about a lot of things in my life. I've been married for almost eight years now but around this time last summer my wife had an affair while she was away for Air Force training. This was the second time she...
  14. When To Confront Cheating Wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    I would love to hear the ladies' point of view on my situation. I'm a 44-year old man in Sweden and I just found out that my wife, who's 10 years younger, has an affair. We haven't talked about it yet and my problem is that I don't know if there is a "good" moment to do so. I don't want to blow...
  15. Husband Cheated - Headed for Divorce - Advice Please!

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have never posted in a forum before. But like many that have come before me I have found myself at the end of a ten year marriage. We have been separated for 10 weeks, though the problems began in the fall. So we are 5 months into this disaster. I will do my best to keep this concise. I...
  16. What to do?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, I'm not really sure how to start this, as I've never done anything like this before. I was hoping that I never would have to. Here goes: My wife and I have been married for nearly six years now. We were both young when we took the plunge- I was 22 and she was 18. We met at church, and grew...
  17. Husband Confessed Infidelity & Temporary Seperated

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been with my husband going on 7 years. We have a 4 yr old son together. About two years ago he decided that he wanted to become a cop. After trying several departments he finally got accepted into another state other then we we're currently living at that time. During that time I had just...
  18. I cheated,please help

    Coping with Infidelity
    Well first i'll give some background im 23 H is 28. We've been married for 6 yrs and have 2 children 4 & 6mos. I cheated three years ago when H and I were not living together. I recently have told H about the ONS. Our life has been wrecked ever since. I guess i'll start from the begining, I used...
  19. She doesn't know what she wants...UGH!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone, in March of this year my wife of 12 years told me she wasn't happy with the state of our marriage. Stupidly I didn't take her seriously. So, two months ago she moved out of our house after telling me she met a divorced guy, and for two months they had been having an emotional...
  20. He cheated with a stripper whie I'm pregnant

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've been with my husband for almost 6 years. I was 15 when we started dating and he was my first everything. We've been married a little less than 2 years and he's been in the Air Force for about 1 1/2. I'm currently 6 months pregnant with our first, a girl. Which I thought he was very excited...
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