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  1. Trouble with mixing my parent's and in laws

    General Relationship Discussion
    Some people will be aware of my marriage issues from other threads but there is another issue i'd like advice on. My Wife and I have been together for 21 years, as were 17 when we met we needed the support from both our parents. Unfortunately we made the mistake of socialising with both her...
  2. Caught between mother-in-law and husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    I feel awkwardly trapped between my husband and my 92-year-old mother-in-law, June. Her husband (my husband’s father) died 7 months ago. Since then June has had health problems and has moved to an assisted living facility. One problem was confusion from a urinary tract infection, which is...
  3. In laws and husband's attachment to them destroyed my marriage

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My in laws and I never got along. They were horrible to me since before they met me. When he would visit me, his family would constantly give him crap for wanting to spend time with me instead of them. We only spent time together after I got off work (9PM) and my days off. When I finally met...
  4. Setting new boundaries need help

    Coping with Infidelity
    My past is posted in my first post, but here's my present. I am working (toe in the pool) on reconciliation. My partner dove into his two sisters and 91 yr old mother for support when he was discovered for using prostitues for THREE YEARS. The Korean massage parlor type. Yes, I know - low...
  5. Marriage Trouble

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have gone through some major challenges the past 2 years. We have only been married 3 years, but together for a total of 8. Our latest, biggest struggle is an issue with my parents. It is a very long story - but in a nut shell, they have tried to tell us what to do and...
  6. Newly married and struggling. Need advice!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, So i've been married for just over a year and prior to that we were dating for a year. It was amazing, we would go for walks, cuddle and watch tv, have great sex. He swept me off my feet, i had come out of a 5 year relationships and he put me back together. We were completely in love...
  7. Husband's Obsession with his Family

    General Relationship Discussion
    We got married nine months ago. Now I am pregnant, approaching my sixth week. Before marriage, my husband used to live in a home with his parents, his brother, his divorced sister and her son. He used to provide for them, and still does. He pays the entire rent for that home, because his parents...
  8. Passive aggressive in-laws

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husbands parents have always never liked me but they will never come out and say it, however confronted my father in-law about his behavior he told me what he thought. He said he believe i'm cold uncaring, and selfish. He went on to say that he didn't understand why his son wants to be with...
  9. Sad and confused

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am going to keep this really short - please help me if you been through the same or have any ideas. I have been married for 14 years to my childhood love. We have been together for almost 20 years now. We don't have kids. I have always had a tense, not-so-loving relationship with my in-laws...
  10. Problems with the in-laws, please help

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Lately I have been having some issues with my in-laws. These issues have been going on since I had my kids. I think I'm finally understanding that my mother in law has been taking control and she cant stand not having the control. Since I met my husband she didn't like me, my friend who was then...
  11. Future In Law Issues

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hi there, New member, needing advice on future-in-laws. (Warning LONG) My SO (let's call him C) and I have been together 2years, today (it's our 2nd anniversary:smthumbup:), and I have been thinking about the issues with my future-in-laws, because we have been seriously discussing marriage...
  12. Have I got married a Right Person? It's a Love Marriage!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I got married in Nov, 2010 with a person from my work place. Me and my husband worked in the same office, first he proposed me, I denied. After two years of his regular approaches and after seeing his soft behavior, love, compassion, I decided to marry this guy. We both are from different...
  13. I lost my Best Friend

    The Social Spot
    This is a long story, but I appreciate you reading! So my Brother In Law is actually my best friend. We (usually) text consistently through out the day (usually making fun of each other) and now he hasn't talked to me even AFTER I apologized and I don't know what else to do. What happened...
  14. Incredible Husband : Horrible In-Laws / How to Make it Work

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Ok if anyone has any advice for me - please share! I am happily married to the love of my life. He is a military man who is kind, honest, hard-working.. and I could go on to use every positive adjective in the book but you get the idea of the picture I'm painting. We have only been married a...
  15. In-Laws

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Horrible In-Law / Incredible Husband - How to Make it Work Ok if anyone has any advice for me - please share! I am happily married to the love of my life. He is a military man who is kind, honest, hard-working.. and I could go on to use every positive adjective in the book but you get the idea...
  16. Iternational parents/in-laws

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hi all, I met my then girlfriend some 10 years ago and we have been married from 5 years now. Since the very first months we tried to involve our respective parents into our international world, with mixed results. At the beginning, at least. After all this time, I can honestly say that we...
  17. Husband gives money away

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    My husband is currently in the military and I am not working because we both agreed it would pay off in the long term for me to finish school faster. His family does not have a lot of money, he pays for his fathers cell phone every month, he pays for his parents cable and internet bill, and...
  18. Inlaws Coming AGAIN

    General Relationship Discussion
    http://http://talkaboutmarriage.com/general-relationship-discussion/14640-impending-doom.html The last two years my out of state inlaws have come to visit and stayed with us. It was documented in my mad ravings I have linked above. Pure and utter HELL! They are due here on Monday. My anxiety...
  19. Is this normal?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'll try to keep this short but if the details make it long sorry. This just seems a little odd to me. My husbands 2 exes have been adding his family as friends on Facebook. His mother, father, sister, brothers and his brother's wife all have them added. His family talks about these women as if...
  20. In laws, lies, and denial

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I married young, in our very early 20s, and were heads over heels in love. He was my first boyfriend and I still love him very much. But unfortunately, ever since we got married things started going down hill, especially when I quit my job. We live with his family because they...
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