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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My marriage is in shambles. My husband has cheated on me and has been wanting us to break up because he wants to single, date other people and do things without having to be accountable to anyone. He’s been distant, sometimes mean to me and angry. He’s still active on dating sites. Yes, I know...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    Self Reflection Questions: 1. How can I overcome my past wounds? 2. What can I do to avoid emotional triggers that set off memories of unpleasant times? 3. How can I find fulfillment through overcoming the past? 4. How would my life change if I had better control of my thoughts and emotions...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    Alright first time poster but not new to this as I have spent countless nights and days researching, reading, seeking advice and still not there yet so I now turn here in hope of something. I know that sounds selfish and why would a bunch of strangers be able to help? Well for starters you and...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    I'm not sure what I am expecting by posting the discovery I made this morning. I went to my old house where I use to live with my husband to drop things off for the children. There was a black car parked on the grass and the air conditioning was running in his bedroom. He had already gone to...
  5. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I'm not sure what I looking for but I just needed to tell someone what my husband has said so many times over the last few months. We have been separated for 2 years and have 3 children. He likes to tell me that he despises me, hates me, that I am vindictive, that I don't care about his...
  6. General Relationship Discussion
    I have been in an on again, off again relationship with someone for 2 years. The beginning was great, everyone adored him and I. Long story short, he went through a lot of things in his life and treated me less than how I deserved to be treated more than once. I walked away while he "got...
  7. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Dear all, I guess some of you have read my story and some of you may read it for the first time. I do not want to go through it as it is painful and embarrassing that I never new the man that was next to me for 7 years. He not only played a role for me, he played a role for my whole family...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    Hi folks, I don't normally like posting on forum boards for stuff like this, as I feel that if I have major issues like these should be discussed with a therapist, but my current insurance doesn't cover marriage counseling. Basically, I noticed in June/July that my wife had been becoming...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I'm very new here & glad I found this forum. Ok going to give a few details so this will sort- all make sense. Please bare with me. Me & DH (Matthew) has been married 17 yrs. We also have worked together at the same place for 9 yrs. We only have one car so it works out having to share 1...
  10. General Relationship Discussion
    I am very thankful I found this website and forum. It has been encouraging for me to see I am not alone in the waters of navigating a difficult marriage. Please read my story and DO REPLY, if u like with any advise, encouragement, shard experience, or other. My story...I have been married for 8...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    Okay, please don't judge me or say "you was insane to stay with him this long" etc...I just want to talk about it and get some advice :( I'm 21, I was with him from my 17th birthday, he was 24. I have a son that will be 2 in september, we got married when i was 18. in the beginning I kind of...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    I am writing because I don't know what else to do. Let me start by introducing myself. My name is Scott. I met my wife when I was just starting college. She was perfect. She didn't drink, she didn't cuss, she was "by the book." I soon dropped out of college and joined the Army in 1995. She...
  13. General Relationship Discussion
    We met thru facebook, dated and got married. He has an 8 yrs old daughter and I have a 7 yrs old son. We've been married a year now. The problem started out with him telling me that a wife comes and go but his daughter stays. Meaning I'm not as important as his daughter. To me, once...
  14. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hey all, Where to begin...ah yes. I grew up in a small town in Washington, my parents split when I was 10 years old, and due to the long drives and every-other weekend visits, I swore I would never be divorced. As a child, I loved to go fishing, and had an obsession with birds of prey, but...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    It's been a week and 1 day and my wife confessed to me that she had a one night stand. Let me back up, we've been married 12 years and have 4 young kids. We met in college and when we married I was 22 and she was 25. A year into our marriage, I found out she was having an affair. I wanted...
  16. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    So here goes. This is my first ever forum expierence so please bare with me..I just need advice...words of encouragement, wisdom...anything because I am alone, confused and hurting. Me and my ex have been friends since we were 16. One night when we were 18 we got drunk and took our friendship...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, looking for help here. I found out a couple months ago that my wife was having an affair online with a guy she met on words with friends back in June and in July he was in town where they met up and turned it from online to physical. She swears it was the first time and the only time she...
  18. Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I resent my husband because I feel like I have more responsibility than him and because he refuses to massage my back, no matter how bad I say it hurts. I know, sounds weird in a sentence but my resentment is building. I guess the back massage is a superficial anger in response to my deeper rage...
  19. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone... My husband always fights with me over petty issues...i cant tolerate it & i get angry like anything... most of the times it just starts with a small thing & goes beyond everything. we have been married for 2.5 yrs now. we dont have kids. i dont know what to do.. am sick of all...
  20. The Ladies' Lounge
    hello. sorry, this is long, like "are you writing a novel" long, but i really want to give you the whole story of how things went down. so here's the thing, my husband and i just got married a few months ago. months before that i was already getting annoyed at him for constantly being on his...
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