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  1. Confused about My Feelings

    Life After Divorce
    Hey everyone! After an 8 month separation my husband (rather ex husband - still weird to say it like that) went ahead with the divorce and I got our divorce decree 2 weeks ago. I have been taking it OK-ish. I was a much worse mess before everything because I did not know if we were going to get...
  2. Your first and only Love

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am writing this because unlike what I have been reading for the past two weeks, I didn't think it would happen to me. I met my wife in a night club 13 years ago and we connected in a way that I can honestly only say was like the world dissolved around us. In a room of several hundred we...
  3. Pregnant Gf close to being fiance mother trying to break us up

    General Relationship Discussion
    I just need some help here I guess some non bias opinions on the situation I am in. A little background on me and us... Me:27 Her:25 I fell in love with a flight attendant 3.5 years ago she was flying international out of NYC for about the first 8 months which made it a extremely difficult...
  4. Mixed signals and false starts

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi Everyone. First post on the forums because I'm at a loss with my situation. Figuring people on these boards have heard stories similar to mine and might have some advice. My wife (29 and I'm 34) of 7 years, 11 years together, told me in August that she wanted a divorce. Three days later she...
  5. New here, married 20 years husband rather watch porn than have sex with me

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    We've been married a long time. I was very young 18 didn't realize what love should really be between two people. We move from his parents place after 20 years of living there which I hated and it caused me much depression and anxiety. Early in the marriage I found an online sexting thread...
  6. Life as a wife, or life fulfilled?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I am seeking feedback from others who have experienced similar... First of all, I love my husband, we have similar interests, I really enjoy being with him, he is extremely kind, loving, supportive etc. The only problem is every time I want to do something for me (not us) he does something to...
  7. Married me out of depression??

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I got married older...to the one I thought was the one for me in college. She got married to someone else. I moved on. She contacted me a time or two over the years, it made me feel great but we were legitimately friends...we had been best friends in college, so I didn't look too far into it...
  8. Married 25 years and she still can't orgasm

    Sex in Marriage
    OK so I am new at this my first post ever about anything. Wife and I have been married 25 years this April 2014. 3 kids 9, 10 and 11. We married very young I am 44 and she is 46. I would say that we are both above average in looks and both look a lot younger than we are (she is way above...
  9. Caught ya!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Okay....well, it's hard for me to know where to begin. I posted here a while back about the possibility of my husband cheating, among other thoughts that could be going on. 2 very long months later and my husband and I have kind of reunited. For the record, my husband did cheat on me. We are...
  10. Reconciliation after separation? Is it possible?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Hi. I'm relatively new to the forum but my husband and I have been struggling for quite some time. We have been in therapy since April, both together and separately. We have two boys, age 10 & 11. We have been married for over 18 years. We have had a lot of ups and downs in terms of...
  11. Why do you put up with this *%^$?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am seriously starting to become convinced that sometimes, we love out of habit. Having read the posts of so many on TAM and then gone over mine as well, I just started thinking to myself - why the HELL do people (I) put up with so much crap that screws up their lives. Things that must at least...
  12. Need some advice

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Hello to all, Im new to this idea of posting about personal things in my life, but Im simply at a point I have never been at and hope some people out there may have some advice to offer. Im 32, married but separated and my wife has filed for divorce, but has not served papers and will wait to...
  13. Fragile Love

    Coping with Infidelity
    What would you do if someone openly devoted themselves to you in every way in any particular way? Through any means of communication with heartfelt positive notion. Would you give in and connect with them no matter the distance or sacrifices you must take? Because, in some way you feel the...
  14. Relationship Crisis! Help!!!

    Coping with Infidelity
    Last week, my partner of three years admitted that he had developed feelings for a coworker. He was deeply upset, and felt so guilty for his feelings that at the end of the day, he decided that I "deserved better than him" and he told me that he wanted to move out. That night, he went to the...
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