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  1. Unwillngly separated wife took kids need adv

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I apologize for the length of this post but I want to put as many details here because I really need help. Have been married 9 yrs. W and I are both alcoholics, I am many years sober. We met 12y ago at a sober camping trip, dated, moved in and married. We agreed that it would be a sober...
  2. Lying and Hiding

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hey! I'm new to this site and this forum - thought I'd give it a go! About a week ago I noticed my husband was acting strangely. He was texting strange numbers without saving the contacts, and one night, he got out of bed really late, and I overheard him on the phone with someone taking about...
  3. Trust issues

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been with my husband since we were 15, we are now 25 and have been married for 3 and a half years. He's always been kind, caring, and genuine with me. 6 years ago he joined the military which caused us to be separated (edit for clarity: still in a relationship just not physically...
  4. Separated and Pregnant... Need Advice PLEASE!

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I have been married for 4 years and just discovered yesterday that I am pregnant. I should be overjoyed as my husband and I had been TTC since we were married in 2009. We already have a 7 year old and were desperate for a sibling with no luck. Although, unfortunately my husband and I have...
  5. Putting on my seat belt...it's going to be a long ride

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I'm brand new here. I honestly don't even know how I made it here, but I might as well give it a try and see if I can find myself a little peace. Here goes... My husband and I have been married for 4 years - happily. Every single day for 8 years, he has made me feel like the most...
  6. why wont he talk to me?

    General Relationship Discussion
    heres a breif run down 1. married 2 yrs. 2.we have a pretty good sex life.4-6 times a week,hardly ever under 1hr haha. i really enjoy it. 3.every aspect in our relationship is doing very well except i feel like he never REALLY talks to me. i feel like im always poking for words when he does...
  7. Porn and dishonesty

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello, My husband has done something that has really hurt my feelings. We discussed pornography both before and during our marriage. We both agreed that it was something we would abstain from because of our moral stances. Recently I found a pornographic DVD and magazine in his sock drawer. I...
  8. PLEASE Help... Is My Hubby Gay? Low Sex Drive?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am fairly new to the forum but have read many posts about similar situations such as mine. I do get some answers that are very helpful, but my mind is going CRAZY. I can't sleep at night and I cry all the time (please note I had all these thoughts and emotions prior to getting pregnant with...
  9. progressive neurological disorder...how/when to tell date

    General Relationship Discussion
    I was diagnosed with spinocerebellera ataxia a couple years ago. It's not so noticeable yet...but will be down the road. It's a pretty serious disorder, no cure or treatment. When it begins it affects mostly your balance, hand-eye-coordination, speech...but progresses into affecting almost...
  10. Marriage = Team; Team = Marriage...ADVICE NEEDED!

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    What would you do if this happened in your marriage? A marriage is supposed to be about teamwork - 2 people working towards a specific goal or goals. When discussing finances, what would you do, if you've talked to your spouse about not spending a certain amount of money on something, they agree...
  11. We finally learned how

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Just speaking for myself (male), I had to go through a lot of very bad relationships, counseling, therapy, Recovery work, a mountain of books, an ocean of tears, a world of pain, some spirituality & religion, the web and just about anything and everything to finally learn how to make a good...
  12. feeling left out

    General Relationship Discussion
    I dont know where to start, i have been married for 4 years now and we have a 2 year old and 14 month old. I do honestly everything i can imagine would make my husband happy, from cooking, cleaning, working out, taking care of myself to look good, keeping myself educated, work, be a great mother...
  13. How to move on

    Coping with Infidelity
    Is there any way to forget and move on without coming clean and asking for forgiveness for my irresponsible actions? I feel as if I'm never going to be able to push anything out of my mind if I don't talk to my husband, even though everyone has told me to forget and learn (everything is...
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