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  1. When is it acceptable...?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    To hide things from your spouse? I was looking in my husband's file cabinet for some empty file folders when I discovered a small dildo hidden way at the back. I felt uncomfortable for having found it, and wondered what on earth he used it for since it is so small. Then I started wondering...
  2. Lying and Hiding

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hey! I'm new to this site and this forum - thought I'd give it a go! About a week ago I noticed my husband was acting strangely. He was texting strange numbers without saving the contacts, and one night, he got out of bed really late, and I overheard him on the phone with someone taking about...
  3. Wife started / hid smoking e-cigs.

    Relationships and Addiction
    My wife dropped a bomb on me and told me out of guilt she started smoking ecigs (former smoker 9 yrs ago), and has been using "alot" for about 6 months. I went on a stress spiral, this toppled my already full plate. I pleaded to quit, as she has been lying to me about charges, questioning my...
  4. 3.5 Years later

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone, I'm new here, so please forgive the lack of abbreviations. I'm a male in my mid 20's. 2 months ago my fiancée, who've I've known for 7 years and been with coming on 5, broke up with me. She signed a new contract for an apartment, and moved out. All without any warning or a...
  5. Confused, Feeling Hopeless

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hi everyone. I am new here. Thanks for letting me join and post. I hope I can figure out my marriage. I have been married, happily, for 20 years. Husband recently laid off work; I am disabled and receive SSI. We moved to a new city in search of better job opportunities but so far nothing has...
  6. New here, dealing with insecurity... need advice.

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I are semi-newlyweds, only married less than a year. Before we got married, we lived together for about a year. I honestly did believe that this man was my Mr Perfect. He's smart, funny, good looking, sensitive, caring and he takes care of me and my kids (from a previous...