help - relationship

Hey guys not sure where to start honestly as I am lost. My wife and I have been married 10 years now and im 33 and she is 48, our sex and marriage has always been great really up until the past year give or take. I wouldn't ever do anything to mess our marriage up and i love this woman with...

Back story: For New Year's my husband's youngest sister (18yrs old) accompanied us and my family to celebrate. That night she told us when we got home that my SISTER'S FIANCE (29yrs old) was hitting on her multiple times that night and even made some questionably pedophile remarks like "you were...

Hey everyone, Would just like to say I made a mistake. My girlfriend is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I apologise for wasting anyones time for responding to this thread and I would like to apologise publicly to my girlfriend for upsetting her like this. I'm sorry.

I had an affair last year and since I told my husband 8 months ago, we’ve recovered well. We are stronger than ever but he is still struggle with this intrusive thought of having a threesome. It stems from the man I had an affair with at one point asked if my husband would join. I never thought...

My wife gets really emotional and says the most horrible things to me about the most fundamental things that make me me, she attacks my core. And I admit I am at fault some times. But she puts me down and this is the lowest I’ve ever felt. Thought I could pull myself back up alone but I’m not...

My husband and I have been together for over 15 years. We are now in our mid 30s, we have a son and I am expecting our second. We have always had problems, many things on him that I didn’t like. But only recently (in the past year or so) I started to really realize what they are and how some...

Hello TAM community, I'm coming to you out of desperation in need of as much sage advice as I can get... Long-story short, I threatened my wife that I would take full custody of our unborn child. It was a foolish, desperate attempt to get her to realize that I am just as much committed to the...

My fiance who we have lived together for 3 years and moved across the country to be together after meeting on vacation through mutual family friends walked out a week ago. All the signs of walk away wife. Looking back on it there was opportunities I should have seen where she was communicating...

My Husband and I have recently hit a road block in our marriage and I want to show him how much I care about him and am willing to put in the effort and work to better our marriage. I have created a "date jar" that we will pick out once a week and complete. My Husband is a hopeless romantic...

Hey Guys, I am recently married – 4 months ago. And I feel my entire relationship with my now husband – 1.5 yrs has been an emotional one. My husband was my brother’s business partner, whom they have had a shaky relationship. As soon as my parents found out we were dating they pressured us to...

It might sound strange but i had an arranged marriage... my husband and i didn't know each other before the wedding, we were forced to be together so i'll leave you to imagine how bad our relationship must be. After almost 2 years of marriage and having our first child i could say that i...

My husband and I are both 26 and we've been married since December 2013. Before that we were really good friends for a few yeas and started dating in the beginning of 2011. We have a 4 year old daughter together and I have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship. Since our relationship...

First time poster. I sought this out hoping to find help as I'm sure many of you have. My wife has Generalized Anxiety Disorder. As with any disorder like this, there are good days and bad. I knew she had GAD before we got married. In fact, I knew her for nearly 15 years before we got...

First, a little background. I’m 35 and my wife is 36. We’ve been together for a couple of years now. This is my second marriage, and I have an awesome son who is six years old from my previous marriage. My wife adores my son, and he her, so there are no issues there. The issue is with us...

My girl has seemed a little bored lately and while I am at work she has been taking our 4 year old on day outings. I got a little upset when i got home and i didn't hear from her for a few hours. I gave her the silent treatment for most of the night till close to bedtime(I realize how childish...

Help/clarity I have been with my wife for 10yrs, of which we have been married for 3yrs. My wife and I are from completely different backgrounds. Five years ago I had an affair and had a child with the woman. After many months of arguments with my wife about the affair and child, she seemed...

Greetings. I have been married to my wife for a little over a year. While we were dating, things were great. However, on our honeymoon I saw a side of her i didnt suspect. We got into a little argument and then all of the sudden she just yelled "F you" (full word was used). I was a little...

You can't put a price on happiness but unfortunately we have to. My wife and I are broke. That is part of the stress the ruins many areas in the relationship. But we are willing to work on it. I am just curious, after my wife's 3 day cooling period at her sisters we want to sit down and...

I am a father of two young children under 5yrs old, I have been with my partner for 14 years. My problem is my partner hates my family with vengeance in particular my mother. Since becoming a father, my partner has indirectly shut out my family for several years especially more so since us...

Ok. So my wife and I watched a show about open relationships. We got into a long discussion about what rules we would have if we were in an open relationship. The rules were you could only meet people via Facebook or Xbox Live. Then you could only meet the person in real life after 1 year. We...