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Together 17 yrs, Married 13 yrs, 2 kids, in 30s. First thank you for these forums; been reading for nearly 2 years before this post but the time has come as I need other human input. Sry lengthy. I'd like to skip most the historical for now as I want to get to the substance of my plight. Just...

Hello, my wife and I have been married for 3 years now we are both early 30s we have a split house hold out youngest is ours together my oldest daughter is from her previous relationship our middle is from my last marriage. We are both from a Christian background chasing after Christ in...

A little background on our relationship. We’ve been together over 5 years. We got married this past May and we became parents in June. We have had quite a few of ups and downs in our relationship since we started seeing each other. I am over weight and my husband is fit. We’ve always been that...

Just after some advice. I have been with my partner for 6 and half years. I told him very early on how much marriage means to me, starting a family and how I wanted it all in my 20s. He said he wanted the same and we continued dating to see if it went anywhere. Skip to 3 years in and marriage...

Hi there. So in November 2021 my ex gf broke up with me saying that she'd been unhappy for 2 years and i was devastated. cue weeks of the classic horrific emotional roller coaster as we work together, live together and have two kids together and I have bo where to move to or the money to do it...

Me (36) and my wife (36)are married for almost 8 years, last year my wife lost her mother and I was very supportive. I try to show her as much love as possible and giving her free space so she can deal with her emotions. Just to mention that in the time of her mother being treated for cancer and...

Hi everyone. I just want some advice. I'm not married. I love marriage, I wish I could get married. But that is never going to happen for me anymore. I've been with my bf for 4 years. We have 2 kids. We have talked about marriage. He says that we will get married one day. But he keeps changing...

Hi everyone and thanks in advance for taking the time to read this and apologies for the length of the post. We have been married for 9 years and together for 14 with 2 kids aged 8 and 11. A couple of years ago I started to suffer from depression and anxiety. I didn’t recognise the symptoms and...

Hi, I’m 28 and married with a nearly 8 month old. Long story very short …we had our baby and my family weren’t helpful so we moved from the county I’ve always lived to move to the next county where my husbands family live. Whilst our house sale and purchase goes through we are living with them...

My wife will not let me get close to her. She stepped out of our marriage two years ago then came back but it’s like she left a part one herself. Kisses, hugs, and flowers are a no go for her she don’t want them. Also our sex life is horrible. I take her on dates, vacations and our friendship is...

Been married 10 years. 2nd marriage. It's like we made of completely different " stuff" . I am seeing a therapist. He is not. Don't know how to move forward

Ok, so my husband and I have been having some issues involving him meeting me halfway in our marriage. Just being there more emotionally. We’ve been distant for a while because he’s been doing nonstop training since January and we haven’t been able to connect in person. Although he couldn’t be...

My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We have an 8 year old child. We had many ups and downs during our child's first few years but I think that was normal. Sex was seemingly good for 10 whole years but over the last several months it has been abysmal. I don't understand why. I...

Hey guys not sure where to start honestly as I am lost. My wife and I have been married 10 years now and im 33 and she is 48, our sex and marriage has always been great really up until the past year give or take. I wouldn't ever do anything to mess our marriage up and i love this woman with...

Back story: For New Year's my husband's youngest sister (18yrs old) accompanied us and my family to celebrate. That night she told us when we got home that my SISTER'S FIANCE (29yrs old) was hitting on her multiple times that night and even made some questionably pedophile remarks like "you were...

Hey everyone, Would just like to say I made a mistake. My girlfriend is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I apologise for wasting anyones time for responding to this thread and I would like to apologise publicly to my girlfriend for upsetting her like this. I'm sorry.

I had an affair last year and since I told my husband 8 months ago, we’ve recovered well. We are stronger than ever but he is still struggle with this intrusive thought of having a threesome. It stems from the man I had an affair with at one point asked if my husband would join. I never thought...

My wife gets really emotional and says the most horrible things to me about the most fundamental things that make me me, she attacks my core. And I admit I am at fault some times. But she puts me down and this is the lowest I’ve ever felt. Thought I could pull myself back up alone but I’m not...

My husband and I have been together for over 15 years. We are now in our mid 30s, we have a son and I am expecting our second. We have always had problems, many things on him that I didn’t like. But only recently (in the past year or so) I started to really realize what they are and how some...