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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Ok. I am new here and this will be long but I really need some advice. My husband and I have been married for 3 years (married 2015). We had a stupid argument over scrambled eggs that snowballed into him wanting a physical seperation. The argument started because he made scrambled eggs for...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I want this to start off first and foremost that I am not looking for anyone to judge another’s answers. I am about to unveil a tremendous amount of information and I want honest solutions rather than replies arguing with one another or simply just saying "it is not worth it". My Wife...
  3. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Help/clarity I have been with my wife for 10yrs, of which we have been married for 3yrs. My wife and I are from completely different backgrounds. Five years ago I had an affair and had a child with the woman. After many months of arguments with my wife about the affair and child, she seemed...
  4. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I have been married for 4 years and we have a 5 year old son. When I was 18, I enlisted in the army and we were married after basic training. During my time in the army I went on 2 deployments and spent a lot of time away from her. I treated her pretty badly emotionally. I was really...
  5. Dealing with Grief and Loss
    Everyone knows me as Granny7, on the infidelity site, but my name should tell you how devastated I am along with the whole family. I have never felt so helpless and sad in my life. This is worse than my husbands affair, just in a different way. He had testicular cancer on one side a year and a...
  6. The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband and I have been separated for 3 years now. He initiated the separation, he left me out of no where with our 1 year old and 6 year old. He took me to court a month later for visitation but never filed for divorce. He said many times he was filing the papers but never did. In the passed...
  7. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello and welcome to my story. I've been lurking here for a few days trying to gain the strength to type out what I've been experiencing and going through. Let me give you a bit of a back story of who I am and the relationship in general. I'm 28 she is 25, we have been together for 7 years...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    Hey all! New to this forum, looking forward to getting to know like-minded people and having common discussions! :) So, I know feeling attraction for your spouse is a common discussion as well as finding ways to connect etc. My problems, to sum it up in to words, would I guess fall under those...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    So here is my situation, i left a great job in the north to move to the south and be wed to the woman i truly love. Unfortunately we ran into financial strain and she became restless, she claims she was drunk and he took advantage of her. i forgave her and forgot about it but then just a month...
  10. General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I'm new to this forum and am hoping someone can help me save my marriage. I found out my husband of 20 years had cheated on me many times throughout our marriage. I stayed with him for three more years after I found out. He was my best friend, but I eventually realized that I could not...
  11. Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    [FONT="Palatino Linotype"] I am a middle age woman who has been married for about 25 years, to I have a grown son and daughter who are now out of my home. My marriage has not been a healthy one from the start. My husband is the type of man who will not deal with any issue that he finds...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    o.k. so the title is partialy misleading. sorry but your reading , right? I need help here, we all have sob stories,,...... here's mine. Honestly after 2 nights of no sleep and typing this on night 3 I just hope its comprehendable. I've been with my wife for 20 years, married 9. where to start...
  13. The Family & Parenting Forums
    Many people make the mistake of waiting until their children are pre-teens to talk about money. I’m not talking about simple conversations that cover how much change should be returned when money is spent. I’m referring to deeper subjects like the U.S. economy, credit and cost of living. Some...
  14. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Please read my story below. I know it is a bit long but I want you to understand the whole picture. I really need some advice as I can't take this situation any longer: I have been married now for over 26 years. My wife and I have been separated 3 times over the past 10 years and have some...
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