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  1. My Brother Told Me This Would Happen...

    Life After Divorce
    Right at about 9 months ago she left me for her boss and the grieving process started. Fast forward to this morning(not nearly fast enough.) For all you JFO's. It does get better. A lot better. My brother told me about 4 months ago... He said. "I'm telling you, one morning, you will wake...
  2. Will I Ever Be Able To Love Another For Fear of Getting Burned Again

    Life After Divorce
    Starting to date a little bit since my wife cheated and moved out back on February 3, 2018. I had a previous post here back in June, [URL="https://talkaboutmarriage.com/life-after-divorce/424123-wife-left-me-her-married-boss.html#post19578753"] I have found that there are a lot of damaged...
  3. Trial separation - How much hope is there in this?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    :crying: My husband and I plan a trial separation of three months, starting later this month. I will be the one moving out (some details in my profile). Originally, I was raging and suggested trial separation in anger, "Who is going to move out?" But after long convoluted discussion, he took it...
  4. Buy my House ...Again!

    Life After Divorce
    The first time I bought my house I didnt have the full input into the situation. I was being calm and collected (?) as my ex dismantled my family and she pretty much forced me to buy the house. I bought it because I really like this house. Its quirky Post and beam modern with wrap around...
  5. 100 things I dont miss about you.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi All, Found this in my old documents folder and thought it might be a good thing to share. I wrote it as part of the mourning process. Maybe it will help remind some folks why they are considering divorce. SJ Some of the things I don’t miss about you… 1. I don’t miss being slapped, kicked...
  6. In Need of a Comeback

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies! This is my first post for advice on any site so obviously things have gotten to an extreme point. Before getting married I was a loyal fan of every wedding reality show that you can think of. I also like to event plan for my family and friends, so you can imagine that I had my heart...
  7. so lost and confuse

    Coping with Infidelity
    I don't want to go into details about what my wife did. Bottom line is she had a 6 month affair 4 years ago with a friend of ours. They called it off on their own and I was none the wiser. We moved out of state about 1.5 years ago. This last summer when she went home she reached out to him...
  8. My Biggest Regret...need advice...(Sorry for the novel)

    Coping with Infidelity
    Okay, here's the back story. My boyfriend and I met two years ago. I was a very different person then, emotionally weak and insecure. We've been happy together for the most part for almost two years now, but we've led a chaotic life. I was raped three years ago and I'm still coping with it...
  9. they had sex beside our sleeping kids

    Coping with Infidelity
    i wrote several months ago that i felt that my husband's been lying. well, i finally confirmed what the lies were about. my 51 year old husband had an affair of one year with his 22 year old student. i spoke with the girl and she said whenever i was out of town for work, she would sneak in...
  10. Marriage with Surprise Herpes - Please Help

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I am married (2 years now) to an extraordinary woman -- she is beautiful inside and out, a yogi, healer, so uplifting and kind. Though our relationship has been entirely monogamous, of this I am entirely certain, she was given a visual diagnosis of HSV-2, followed by a lab diagnosis, a...
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