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  1. 6 Months Ago Today. The Pain Continues.

    Life After Divorce
    Today marks 6 months since my XWW moved out. Although I'm not writhing on the floor in emotional distress, that sledgehammer called grief keeps pounding me in the gut at least once a day. I see her face, my best friend, smiling at me. My confidant, my lover, my wife. Suddenly, gone and in...
  2. Still in disbelief........

    Coping with Infidelity
    It's been 5 months since I discovered my WH had an 'affair' 5 years ago :confused: I am a military wife that has been married for 19 years and have been chronically ill for 6 years. The past 6 years have been super stressful for me and I had only recently stopped grieving my life before I got...
  3. Wife Heartbroken over having to leave her horse behind

    General Relationship Discussion
    Short version: my wife and I are newlyweds. My job is taking us overseas. Originally we planned to ship my wife's horse but due to some unexpected health issues that cropped up this month with the beastie she feels it's no longer prudent to do so. We're scheduled to leave next week. She's...
  4. Fighting for my Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    So about two years ago my husbands father passed a away. We had to move in with him mother because even through she is fairly young she can't really take care of herself. His father did everything for her. The money she getting from his pension doesn't cover the household bills. So because we...
  5. Dealing with a grieving spouse

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband's bestfriend died in a car accident almost a year ago, he died coming from work and he worked for my husband. On to the issue...This past year has been tough, tough is not even a sufficient word to describe how difficult this year has been. Grief is hard and unpredictable and its...
  6. Husband's father has died, mother is ill and he refuses to seek help

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    My husband's parents have been ailing for many months, his dad of old age and his mom of heart problems and strokes. His mom broke her pelvic bone last week (from a fall) and his dad passed the next day. My husband was very close to his parents despite being thousands of miles away. He and...
  7. Is my Wife a *****?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am 43 and have been with my wife for 21 years. I will keep this brief. I was very close to my Mum and Dad, i lost my Mum to MND in October 2008, I lost my dad to Prostate Cancer in December 2011. My Brother in law was Killed in a RTA in January 2012. I Lost my Job for no reason in...
  8. The Inlaws - An issue most of us know too well!

    The Ladies' Lounge
    We would all like to get along with our inlaws, really we would, I believe it would make our lives sooooo much easier. Though it just seems that they are out to get us, all the time... and for me, it will be a life long mystery as to why? Ladies, the least we can do is support each other as...
  9. Life After Divorce

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    Hi everyone. When I went through my divorce, I thought I would never live to see the next day. I was going through dozens of emotions each day and didn't think it was normal. I wanted to share a book that I found that helped me tremendously with the divorce process. It's an e book on...
  10. wife wants an end to ten years of marriage

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I never drank cheated or hit, I also didn't exercise or deal with emotional problems that caused me to yell and make so many days unpleasant. My wife is a slim beauty who is truly in her bones happy in a way that makes everyone who knows her, adore her. She feels like she wasted the last ten...
  11. My husband's in mourning, my mind is elsewhere! Need to hear a man's view. LONG

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I need some help! History first up, been with hubby for 14yr, married for 3. in our early 30, We have 3 great kids (5, 2 and 7months). I have only really been with him, i have never experienced other sexual relationships, he had one other girlfriend before me. We have never had a wild sex life...
  12. Married while grieving & sexual complications

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Coming here because I really don't know where to turn at this point. My husband and I married less than 6 months ago. While we were engaged, I had doubts about getting married because I didn't feel very physically attracted to him. We clicked in many other areas and he treated and still treats...
  13. How I'm dealing with the affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    This is my first post here. I've read many posts and I'm impressed at the high quality of conversation on this site. I found out a couple months ago that my wife had an affair with a man from her work. She had been over stressed for a while and I could see that she was under a lot of strain...
  14. PLEASE HELP anyone and everyone

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    I worte in another board very simaliar and the feedback I recieved was focoused on something that wasn't the root of the problem. Basically I have been through a lot in my life already... I grew up with an abusive father and loving mother, my little sister attempted suicide twice and was in...
  15. Ugly separation but a death in the family

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been separated for 7 months, and things are not civil between us. We have gone back and forth between the 'I love you; I hate you; I want a marriage; I never want to see you again' so many times. I have gone through a good deal of personal counseling, which has helped me...
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