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  1. My dad is cheating and I do not know what to do.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi. I know this website is meant for families, moreover adults, however I just wanted to talk to you guys and see if you can help me with what I am going through, as I have no one to talk to this about. I recently found out that my father has been on a gay dating app called "Grindr" and he is...
  2. Would you want to know? Caught my ex cheating on her fiancee with...

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  3. I think my husband is Gay

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Everything between my husband and i was going just great for the first 2 years. We were what other people would call "cute happy couple" we had a lovely boy and loved each other for as long as i can remember till he started working with this guy... The way he talks about him and the way he looks...
  4. She refuses to attend my gay sister's wedding.....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    HELP! We are going through rough times. To make a really long story short, I am considering divorce. I approached my wife twice before with the suggestion of counseling and was turned down both times. Recently, I told her I was contemplating divorce and told her we needed to go to counseling...
  5. Husband fantasizes about other men

    Sex in Marriage
    And here I am 18 years ago thinking that my husband's gay fantasy would go away. And 18 years later, I still find he is posting in gay sites, photos of his penis, etc. He does this trying to keep it from me but has never done a good job of hiding it. This morning I see he has joined Adult...
  6. I can't be the only one, can I?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Ok, I am new to this sight, so here is my story. Any advice, personal experiences and outcomes would be helpful….So I have been married for almost a year now but I have known my husband for 12+ years. We had the most amazing, loving caring relationship of all, or so I thought and so did everyone...
  7. Can I fix this?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I married my husband just 2 months ago. We were engaged only after knowing each other for two months. Everything was passionate. Sex was good. He was sweet and very attentive to my wants and needs. He is great at listening. I am 30, he is 35. While we were engaged he got a DUI. I was very...
  8. In the dark for 29 years with a bi-husband, Mormon- liar!

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I was married for 29 years to a bisexual man and didn't know it. I welcome any thoughts on this. Please excuse my writing in advance, as English is my second language. I have been separated from my STBX for 8 months and sadly will divorce as soon as I can. I am a Christian, and so is my STBX...
  9. Advice - Married, with kid, but I know I'm gay - Depressed?

    Relationships and Addiction
    At age 22, whilst studying at University, I met a girl who I pretended I was in love with. A year later, we had our first child, Max, which later lead onto marriage, 2 years later. Max is now 5 years old and I’m 28, and everyone says we’re the perfect family, but I’m in fact seriously depressed...
  10. HELP! Husband Moved Out Suddenly. Sexuality questions?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    HISTORY: Married 15 1/2 yrs; together 7 yrs prior. 1 (adult) child only, who's lived away since starting college 8 1/2 yrs ago. BACKGROUND & INTIMACY 1)-MANY common interests & LOTS of great fun up through 02/'13. 2)-Obviously very good, frequent, & mutually satisfying sex 'till 1-2 yrs ago...
  11. Help, I am loseing Him. My first love (gay)

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am 24, gay and in love, (please over look grimmer as I am upset at the time of writing this) My boyfriend of 5 years lives with me in our little apartment of 3 years. I fully love him, yet we have drifted. We have trouble as all relationships do. The last 2 years he has pulled away. Yet...
  12. husband watching gay porn

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I have been married for a year and a half. We have a very active sex life. He has had some drug issues and I'll admit, I snoop. I looked on his phone browser and saw that he had been watching gay porn. I was wondering if this could maybe be a fetish or curiosity thing, or if this...
  13. is he gay?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I've been married to my husband for 19 years. During the entire time, including when we were dating, he has never been very passionate. Often he would not want to have sex because he was tired, bloated or had a headache. He is emotionally distant and has no friends that he calls or hangs out...
  14. time to leave her? - Disclaimer- lesbian relationship

    Coping with Infidelity
    I was cheated on 2 years ago by my girlfriend; we had been together for 6 years prior. We met very early in undergraduate, neither having dated women prior, and just fell head over heels in love. She and I had both been in serious straight relationships. I had very recently left my high...
  15. What is WRONG?

    Sex in Marriage
    Okay, first off, I found this site/forum after a very uninformative google search.... My husband and I are very young (20's) and have been married nearly 5 years and have one child together, one from a previous relationship, and one on the way. Just to get the basics if that is necessary...
  16. PLEASE Help... Is My Hubby Gay? Low Sex Drive?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am fairly new to the forum but have read many posts about similar situations such as mine. I do get some answers that are very helpful, but my mind is going CRAZY. I can't sleep at night and I cry all the time (please note I had all these thoughts and emotions prior to getting pregnant with...
  17. Cheated bisexually and don't know what to do.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Wife and I have been together for 12 years married 7. Prior to us getting married I had an affair with a man and never told her. I had a few online chats that she found out about after she found a text between me and this man 7 years into our marriage. She was extremely hurt and extremely...
  18. Men, question about odd porn.

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I have been with my husband for 7 years. We have a decent sex life I guess. My issue is he always asks for anal sex and I only give in once in awhile. That's not the whole issue. My problem is that on 3 occasions I have found searches for "Tranny porn" and "she male". I have found these here at...
  19. Depression Turned Him Gay?

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    A little background first: My "husband" and I have been "married" for a little under a year and together for a little over three. I use quotes because we are not legally married because of his debt and student loans, but we have had a ceremony and in our eyes we are married. I have great...
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