gaslighting

Coming up on 8 years of marriage and I'm not sure I can suffer another year let alone a lifetime. We were married only 11 months into what was already a challenging relationship. We married quickly because he was (is) in the military and was being transferred. When we were dating there were...

I have been married 38 years to a man who never had much time for his son . He's son is 34 now, Even when he was a child he never encouraged or wanted to have relationship with him this broke my heart watching my son always trying to please his father. He did the same with me he controlled all...

"HAPPY" new year, not? Need opinions/advices. hello everybody, I need some kind of help. it is escalating here and i don't know what to do. my husband betrayed me in our dating phase and right after our wedding. i found out 6months after we moved together (after our wedding). at this time my...

Hi, Everyone. I have been a lurker for a long time and I was hoping I could get some advice and insight on my troubled marriage. I will try to post this in an unemotional way even though I’m in a very upsetting situation and I cry constantly. I have walked on eggshells for 25 years. I had...

My wife and I have separated and have been apart for almost a month with almost no contact. We are going to meet this Sunday for the first time in two weeks. During our last meeting she told me she want's a divorce, but has made no movement toward this decision. Thanks to this site, I've...