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  1. Sex Life Gone After Twins

    Sex in Marriage
    I have lurked in this forum for a bit, but decided to create an account and post my experience. My wife and I have been married 9 years. She was flirty, had the touch love language, and is my amazing soulmate. Sex has always (well almost always) been frequent and amazing. We had trouble getting...
  2. HELP! I don't want a joint account...

    General Relationship Discussion
    But my husband does. We have been married for 3 years, and my husband is starting to talk about having a joint account. I have several issues with this- mainly, I don't trust my husband with money. Let me explain- it's long, but please bear with me! My hubby is a really good guy, but he just...
  3. Feeling alone and looking for support, guidance, advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    I haven't been on this forum in over 2 years, but I returned today out of desperation. H and I are very much in love but due to a series of very stressful outside factors (court battle(s) with H's ex, differences of opinion in child rearing, and dealing with parental alienation issues with my...
  4. Second guessing whether I'm off base here

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    A little background- Husband and I have been married 20 years. We've struggled financially the majority of the time just getting by. We both have decent jobs, but continuously keep getting hit with expenses that are uncontrollable/unavoidable (Ex. constant car trouble, guardianship of...
  5. sort of venting...

    Sex in Marriage
    I just joined this site to vent. Perhaps to find some answers. Or support. Or… I don’t know. Maybe to be told I’m a jerk. I was pretty closed off the first 3 years of our marriage. Like a lot of couples we started off by having sex a few times a week, which diminished over the years. During...
  6. husband doesn't satisfy me sexually

    Sex in Marriage
    We are young. I'm 23 and he is about to turn 23. We have been married over a year. We were each other's first sexual partners. I was his first girlfriend. While I had dated and even experimented in the past, I suffered from vaginismus which was not "cured" (after undergoing surgery and physical...
  7. Needs more time and space

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi I have been married for 22 years and for the last 6 months our marriage has been stalled. My wife has told me she no longer wants to stay with me. She is tired of my ocassional anger outburst all verbal. My outbursts are very limited but she detests them and was ready to leave. I talked...
  8. Husband is "too tired" for sex?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm 21 years old, and am married to a 34 year old man. At first he was very physical, we made love multiple times a day. For the first year, I'd say. We have a 6 month old child, so of course that had toned down for a little while... but it is at the point now where he only wants sex about once...
  9. Newlywed Woes

    Sex in Marriage
    I am a recently newly wed wife that is not really sure where to go next or what to do. We got married October 2013. I am so in love with my husband as he is with me but sexually we are on two separate worlds. Prior to being married we waited...yes we tested the water but held off on any full on...
  10. i'm sad and in need of help.

    Sex in Marriage
    Background Info We met in high school and married young, we're together for 8 years now and we have no kids. She is highly educated (PhD and all), but doesn't work. I dropped off college, but I have a great job (120K+ year income) I work odd hours and have lots of spare time. I helped her...
  11. frustrated, angry, bored out of my mind and quite honestly horny as hell

    Sex in Marriage
    I don’t know where to start. I love my husband; for the most part we get along and have fun. In the bedroom is a different story. We got together in the beginning of March 2010. Everything was great. Once we started having sex that was great as well. We moved fast but we had known each other...
  12. What can I do to get this fixed and back to healthy

    Sex in Marriage
    I guess I will start from the beginning of or relationship and try and make it a quick as possible. sorry it may be long. We met when we were 17 at a local fast food restaurant we both worked at and we started dating shortly after there was a couple minor issues as all relationships have at the...
  13. Wife putting us through 20yrs of wreckless spending

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    I have been at my wits end for almost 20 years...My wife immigrated to the US from Russia. She is a warm, kind, generous, loving woman....but she cannot control her spending impulses at all. She can't save a dime. Literally, she spends $ as soon as she has access to $. I am so deep into debt...
  14. No longer my friend

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Please can someone help!!!! My wife and I have been together for 8.5 years, married 6.5 years. Our daughter was born 7 months ago. My wife was a non-traditional student having dropped out of college and worked for a number of years when we first met. Through out her life, earning a B.S. has...
  15. Married and also have a roommate

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband and I are married for roughly about 6 months and living together since Nov. 2011. Due to financial reasons he decided to move in with a coworker prior to me relocating to where he was at. We all get along fine but little habits seem to annoy me with roommate. He does not clean up...
  16. Feeling lost and sad about my marriage

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been married for 10 years. We have been together a total of 15. We met in college. We Have two wonderful kids. But we have nothing else in common anymore. I am finding it impossible to continue living in the same home with her, as we differ greatly on our parenting and ideas of what our...
  17. How to Rebuild Emotional Connection?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Me and DH are back together (4 weeks) after a 6 month separation that involved him having a PA. The separation was to step back and reflect on why we feel more like "room mates" or "co parents" than a real couple. We set down some guidelines and agreed to no dating unless we talked about it...
  18. Frustrated stepfather

    General Relationship Discussion
    We were married last July, and she had a ten year old boy (now eleven years old). He was largely raised by my wife, a single mom, with "help" from her family, mostly the aunts and grandmother. The boy's father is no-where in the picture, except to send a present on the birthday and at Christmas...
  19. Don't Know What to Do Any Longer

    General Relationship Discussion
    I can honestly say that after almost a decade together I am at a total loss for what to do anymore. We met when we were 17 and 16, moved in together when we went to college, and have been together since. We don't have any kids. We both love each other, but sometimes love just isn't enough. It...
  20. Married and Sexually Frustrated

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello everyone! I'm a male and brand new to this forum. Just signed up 2 minutes ago. Thanks in advance for your help, feedback or if you can simply relate and cry in your beer with me. Searched the internet for a place to speak openly about my marriage concerns. My story is that I have been...
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