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  1. Feeling like you come second

    General Relationship Discussion
    Does anyone in my age group (25-30) who has kids feel like they always come last to your husband to his friends and hobbies? I think I just want to feel like I’m not alone because i don’t really have anyone to talk to about it and he makes me feel like some crazy controlling wife when all I want...
  2. New to the board

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi All, My name is Sharon. I am in the lovely state of Colorado. My husband and I have been married less than a year. We are generally happy, but there has been some bumps in the road. So, rather than chew his ear off with every disappointment that cross my path, I thought I could chat with...
  3. Just a Friend - Friends of oppisite sex

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been married 15 years. Trust and Jealously have never been a problem at all until recently. I guess I'm here to find out how others would interpret the actions of my wife's friend. He used to be her boss and they would joke about being work spouses. He is 15 years her...
  4. Life as a wife, or life fulfilled?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I am seeking feedback from others who have experienced similar... First of all, I love my husband, we have similar interests, I really enjoy being with him, he is extremely kind, loving, supportive etc. The only problem is every time I want to do something for me (not us) he does something to...
  5. Need advice about Fiancee's friends

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi All, Need some advice from a male perspective. Not all "I hate his friends" situations are the same, so please don't categorize me. I will try to keep this short and sweet and unbiased as possible. I have been dating my current fiancee for 6 years on and off. He is a classy guy from a...
  6. Not sure...divorce or work on it?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Dear All, First, thanks in advance for reading my long post. I do not know where to start and where to end but I am going to give this a try. I will cut to the chase: About Me and My Wife: Both internationals in US (on the way to becoming citizens) Graduate degree holders with good jobs and...
  7. He doesn't trust me.

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi Ladies- I am new to the forums, and have come here hoping I can get some ideas and perspective. My husband and I have been married for 8 months and are really struggling with some trust issues. Years ago, his first girlfriend cheated on him numerous times, which I believe has led to his...
  8. Wondering if I should let my husband have opposite sex friends?

    General Relationship Discussion
    First off, my husband and I have been married for 5 yrs and together for 7 yrs. My husband and I just got back together after being separated for the second time in our marriage. I should give you a little bit of a background on us as a married couple. I have cheated and I am in no way proud...
  9. Advice about Marriage and Moving Abroad... please read details

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am looking to get married with a woman from abroad in the future and bring her to the UK to live, work and start a family together. I understand that leaving family, home and country behind to get married can be challenging and somewhat difficult to cope with. So I am writing to ask for any...
  10. Advice Needed for argument over friends

    General Relationship Discussion
    I need some advice desperately. My husband and I keep having the same argument and I need to know if I have any right to speak up about what I feel like is an insulting disregard for privacy. Some quick backstory. I have been married for 3.5 years and have been living with my husband for a...
  11. Can I ask my boyfriend to "break up" with his friend?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I (21F) have been with my boyfriend (24) for 2.5 years. Generally, our relationship has been great. There is one problem, however, that has gone forever unresolved and it's getting to the point of being unbearable. My boyfriend has a friend from high school, let's call him K. K, 22, is your...
  12. Opinions on Outing Wife's Affair to Family, Friends

    Coping with Infidelity
    Wife of 21yrs, 4 kids, started a phone/texting affair with guy she met at regional night club, saw him twice. Upon discovery, not much remorse, wanted to explore relationship with him, got us into counseling, 2 visits, she refuses to go back. Asked me to move out the last Tuesday, I refused...
  13. Guys Point of View Needed: Friends vs. Marriage: VERY LONG

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband and I have been married for almost 8 years. After moving back to the area where we both went to high school and grew up he started regularly hanging out with another guy that he was close to in high school. To make a very long story short, I was never close to this other guy and...
  14. Venting and Jealousy Toward My Husband's Lesbian Friend?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I'm new here, and something's been bothering me. My husband has a lesbian friend (which I have nothing against) who he has known for 8 years. She is very nice, and I like her as a person, but at the same time, there are certain things that bother me about her, too. I will admit, some of the...
  15. How can a friend help my wife break off the emotional affair?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife has been having an emotional affair for 3 months now. When I found out, she came clean... but insists on carrying on, with me as an enabler (for the sake of the kids). After finally finding this forum and the plans, I'm now at the stage where I need to bring in one of her trusted...
  16. wife doesn't want to spend time with my family, friends

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    ok, Please let me get some perspective on this issue. Are my issues legitimate or are these minor issues i should just deal with? When I first dated my wife she was very social and would visit my family with me (out of state) and would occassionally go out with my friends. After we married, she...
  17. Me vs Friends

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been married for 33 years. We have had our share of ups and downs, but have raised two happily married boys, and have two grandchildren. About 3 years ago we moved to the country. My husband is on disability, and I work full time. I know at first he was bored being around the house all...
  18. Kinky sex details - do you tell your friends?

    Sex in Marriage
    Do you tell friends about kinky sex details with your spouse? I recently realized that my hubby has been telling his best friends some details about our sex life. We're in our fifties. We've been together since we were teenagers and still have dear friends from those teenage years that we...
  19. Is it possible for two people who work together (single guy and married woman).......

    General Relationship Discussion
    To remain friends, when the woman had strong feelings for the guy? Strong feelings as in she and the coworker had plans of having sex together, but her husband found out. The husband does not know who the guy is, but more than likely told her not to be in contact with him. 9 months later, the...
  20. looking for answers...

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for 8 years. We met in college when we were 20 years old, when there were no worries or concerns with any "real life" issues. Things were great then, but slowly started going downhill once we were married. The passion & connection quickly slipped away as we both changed from...
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