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  1. Im the one who cheated =(

    Coping with Infidelity
    I screwed up major with the perfect girl for me. Ive known her most of my life but then we reconnected and started a relationship. My prior relationship involved a little girl that i considered my daughter. My girlfriend said she accepted that i felt that way about her. what girl really does...
  2. I hate KIK...need advice

    Coping with Infidelity
    Long story short, my husband and I had been together since we were 17. We are now 28, were married at 26. About 1 month before our wedding, I went to turn off the music on his phone because I couldn't sleep, and I found an open conversation with multiple people on this app called kik. Until that...
  3. 2 Years Dating, 5 Years Marriage with 2 Years Apart

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...
  4. How many times do I forgive her and trust again?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married to my wife for 8 years to the day. We have two children ages 7 and 4. My wife had an emotional affair three years ago. When I found out she raged at me for spying on her. She denied and lied and tried to get rid of all the evidence. Even when confronted with the phone bill. I...
  5. How can you breakup with someone, but still live with them?

    General Relationship Discussion
    About a month ago my life feel apart. I had a feeling that my boyfriend was cheating on me. He told me he wasnt, but i didnt believe him. I hacked into his email to find a conversation with him a coworker. He was planning on taking her to the movies. I confronted him about it and he continued to...
  6. How to move forward?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am married for 2 years. I moved here from another country after my marriage. My husband is the breadwinner in the family. I am a house wife. We are comfortably off, money wise. For the past 2 years, I have been improving my CV; writing exams, getting recommendation letters etc. My husband...
  7. Starting a Trial Separation

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi All. I'm new here and just about to start a trial separation with my husband. We've been married for just over 3 1/2 years and are having some serious issues. I apologize in advance for the long post ahead.... My husband has been a serial cheater. I feel like every form a logic should tell me...
  8. Can you rebuild your marriage without communication?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Dysfunctional Communicator There’s a reason the tongue is referred to as the strongest muscle of the body. In the move Fireproof, guy 1 is counseling guy 2 who is having marital problems. He says something like “a woman is like a rosebud. If you water and nurture her, she blooms into a...
  9. What do I do when a cheating husband begs and begs?

    Coping with Infidelity
    We have been married for 2.5 years. We were dating for a year before that and FB 6months before that. My husband and I met in a party atmosphere where everyone was sleeping with everyone and we both have had many drunken walks of shame... After our marriage he still liked to party loads, was...
  10. When a spouse lies

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My wife and I have been married for all of 7 months now. We have a little girl on the way, and both have kids from a previous marriage. When we decided to get married, she was still in LA doing modeling, and she dropped everything and sold/gave away her stuff to come to Idaho to be with me and...
  11. Ex partner begging another chance ,have doubts and am confused..

    Coping with Infidelity
    Re an earlier thread I posted "Texting his ex when I moved to be with him".. I broke up with my partner 3 weeks ago. He has been extremely apologetic, and genuinely bereft.. (as was/am I). He says and will do absolutely anything to have me back with him, totally changing his priorities and...
  12. Forgive cheating before the wedding?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everybody, (First of all I'm sorry for any errors in my writing, but english isn't my first language) I'm 32 years old and my wife is 30, we got married 6 years ago and we have a 4 years old beautiful son. Before we married we were dating for 12 years (I know, it's an eternity). 3 years...
  13. How many times do I forgive?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for almost 20 years. Ever since the beginning things were rough. But, I knew marriage was hard work and tried to stick through it. A few years into our marriage, my husband started to become more and more distant. He would make comments to make me feel bad, went out with his...
  14. Chose to be an escort over him, can he forgive me?

    Coping with Infidelity
    What I had is “gone” cause of what I have done and I cannot forgive myself for the pain that I have caused but I am hoping he can forgive me. Since 2004 I have been in a relationship with a man that knows more about me then I know about myself, has seen who I am and knew what I could become...
  15. Cheating in the Rosiest Time

    Coping with Infidelity
    I met this guy on october 10 2012 when I was visiting my friend in the same town. It was an arranged meeting, his sister and my cousin's wife are best friends and they wanted us to meet.. I met him and we liked each other,we kept seeing each other for 10 days and then I had to leave back to my...
  16. Need honest advise, no matter the hurt

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I am a 29 year old who has just now allowed myself to start the process of fixing my biggest flaw. I have commited to going to a 12 step group called Celebrate Recovery, because i have been directed there by our MC. I am truly commited for the first time in 5 years to stop the cycle of pain in...
  17. Thoughts on Rejection, Forgiveness & Happiness

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have some interesting thoughts on forgiveness... from just my own perspective but I am interested to know if any agree or condemn me for my opinion here. Im 31, Been married 13 years. 18 months ago my wife was unhappy with our relationship and engaged in a 2 affairs i know of. The worst of...
  18. Fragile Love

    Coping with Infidelity
    What would you do if someone openly devoted themselves to you in every way in any particular way? Through any means of communication with heartfelt positive notion. Would you give in and connect with them no matter the distance or sacrifices you must take? Because, in some way you feel the...
  19. How do you just stop thinking about it?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm new here. My name is Dale. This is my first post. I'm hoping I can get some advice because I'm at my wit's end. My wife has been repeatedly unfaithful to me many times over the last 6 months. There were other incidents in the years before that but now it is much more frequent. Her...
  20. His Resentment & My Guilt-please help

    Coping with Infidelity
    I need some input and assistance, most likely from all you Loyal Husbands, but I welcome all who can be of help, regarding my husband's anger and resentment. He wants me to do something about it so that it can go away. Here's our background: Dated four tumultuous years, got pregnant (me at...
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