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  1. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been together for 10 years. I'm 28, he's 30. Been married for 3 years, I'm pregnant with baby #2. Backstory: In the first few years of our relationship, I moved out of province to nanny for a family and got lonely. I slept with a guy I met online. My husband (boyfriend...
  2. Relationships and Addiction
    I've been married now for 2.5 years, and I don't even know where to start. I'm a wreck and I feel like no part of my life is in order and fulfilling. The one part I thought would make me so happy and help me to bear my work and family aspect of life, feels like a huge failure. In fact, my whole...
  3. Coping with Infidelity
    Self Reflection Questions: 1. How can I overcome my past wounds? 2. What can I do to avoid emotional triggers that set off memories of unpleasant times? 3. How can I find fulfillment through overcoming the past? 4. How would my life change if I had better control of my thoughts and emotions...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    I screwed up major with the perfect girl for me. Ive known her most of my life but then we reconnected and started a relationship. My prior relationship involved a little girl that i considered my daughter. My girlfriend said she accepted that i felt that way about her. what girl really does...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    Long story short, my husband and I had been together since we were 17. We are now 28, were married at 26. About 1 month before our wedding, I went to turn off the music on his phone because I couldn't sleep, and I found an open conversation with multiple people on this app called kik. Until that...
  6. Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married to my wife for 8 years to the day. We have two children ages 7 and 4. My wife had an emotional affair three years ago. When I found out she raged at me for spying on her. She denied and lied and tried to get rid of all the evidence. Even when confronted with the phone bill. I...
  8. General Relationship Discussion
    About a month ago my life feel apart. I had a feeling that my boyfriend was cheating on me. He told me he wasnt, but i didnt believe him. I hacked into his email to find a conversation with him a coworker. He was planning on taking her to the movies. I confronted him about it and he continued to...
  9. General Relationship Discussion
    I am married for 2 years. I moved here from another country after my marriage. My husband is the breadwinner in the family. I am a house wife. We are comfortably off, money wise. For the past 2 years, I have been improving my CV; writing exams, getting recommendation letters etc. My husband...
  10. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hi All. I'm new here and just about to start a trial separation with my husband. We've been married for just over 3 1/2 years and are having some serious issues. I apologize in advance for the long post ahead.... My husband has been a serial cheater. I feel like every form a logic should tell me...
  11. General Relationship Discussion
    Dysfunctional Communicator There’s a reason the tongue is referred to as the strongest muscle of the body. In the move Fireproof, guy 1 is counseling guy 2 who is having marital problems. He says something like “a woman is like a rosebud. If you water and nurture her, she blooms into a...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    We have been married for 2.5 years. We were dating for a year before that and FB 6months before that. My husband and I met in a party atmosphere where everyone was sleeping with everyone and we both have had many drunken walks of shame... After our marriage he still liked to party loads, was...
  13. The Men's Clubhouse
    My wife and I have been married for all of 7 months now. We have a little girl on the way, and both have kids from a previous marriage. When we decided to get married, she was still in LA doing modeling, and she dropped everything and sold/gave away her stuff to come to Idaho to be with me and...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    Re an earlier thread I posted "Texting his ex when I moved to be with him".. I broke up with my partner 3 weeks ago. He has been extremely apologetic, and genuinely bereft.. (as was/am I). He says and will do absolutely anything to have me back with him, totally changing his priorities and...
  15. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello Everybody, (First of all I'm sorry for any errors in my writing, but english isn't my first language) I'm 32 years old and my wife is 30, we got married 6 years ago and we have a 4 years old beautiful son. Before we married we were dating for 12 years (I know, it's an eternity). 3 years...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for almost 20 years. Ever since the beginning things were rough. But, I knew marriage was hard work and tried to stick through it. A few years into our marriage, my husband started to become more and more distant. He would make comments to make me feel bad, went out with his...
  17. Coping with Infidelity
    What I had is “gone” cause of what I have done and I cannot forgive myself for the pain that I have caused but I am hoping he can forgive me. Since 2004 I have been in a relationship with a man that knows more about me then I know about myself, has seen who I am and knew what I could become...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    I met this guy on october 10 2012 when I was visiting my friend in the same town. It was an arranged meeting, his sister and my cousin's wife are best friends and they wanted us to meet.. I met him and we liked each other,we kept seeing each other for 10 days and then I had to leave back to my...
  19. The Ladies' Lounge
    I am a 29 year old who has just now allowed myself to start the process of fixing my biggest flaw. I have commited to going to a 12 step group called Celebrate Recovery, because i have been directed there by our MC. I am truly commited for the first time in 5 years to stop the cycle of pain in...
  20. Coping with Infidelity
    I have some interesting thoughts on forgiveness... from just my own perspective but I am interested to know if any agree or condemn me for my opinion here. Im 31, Been married 13 years. 18 months ago my wife was unhappy with our relationship and engaged in a 2 affairs i know of. The worst of...
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