I've posted and deleted and now am posting again. I want to see if I am crazy. Married 20 years - second marriage. I think my husband is passive aggressive and I really don't know what to do about it. Some things he has done . . . forgotten birthdays (multiple) forgotten anniversaries...

Advice needed desperately... This weekend I am planning to cheat for the first time. I found out at the start of the year, my husband of 9 years has been cheating on me the entire marriage with random people (one off encounters) and 2 very short relationships. I was devastated. We separated...