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  1. should I leave the door open?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Its been a long hard road. My wife and I married when we were 22. We are 38 now and going through a divorce that she initiated. Our marriage wasn't terrible, in fact I think that it was probably better than what I have let her convince me that it was. About a year and a half ago my stepson was...
  2. Worse this time around....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Well...I've never written anything in a forum....but here it goes. I'm 47, wife 42. We've been married now for 22 years, have 2 kiddos....son 18 and daughter 15. I had an off-on again 3 year affair that ended about 3 years ago. It was with my last girlfriend I had before I met my wife. I...
  3. I still don't get it...am I the regretted rebound or is there more potential left?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I'm still struggling with my marriage and this current separation. We have been separated now for almost 3 weeks. To cut to the chase, I still can't tell if these issues are based on an untreated depression, or potentially other mental illness, or if her trust bank was already so low that it...
  4. An opinion about the "affair fog"

    Coping with Infidelity
    I'm starting to believe that maybe what we think is the affair fog is just the WS acting in a completely self-centered way, actually a side of their personality that the BS may never have observed. Basically the attitude "this feels good, it's fun, and I'm going to do it regardless of how it...
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