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  1. Newbie - Marriage crisis or overthinking it?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I've never been on one of these sites before. But I felt because of what happened recently in my life, I needed a second opinion. We have always been very committed to our relationship. In fact, my wife and I just got back from our 20th anniversary trip in Europe and had a wonderful time...
  2. Am I overreacting? Are husband's lies not a big deal?

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello all. I am brand new here but so glad I found a place to get some good feedback. A little background: My husband and I first met online over 5 years ago. We had this an instantaneous connection and we both fell hard and fast in love.To be honest, I fell in love with him before we even met...
  3. Help my wife be seductive?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hello, TAM ladies. My wife and I had a talk last night about our sex life and one thing that came up (ha) was that she wants to be more seductive. She lived a very sheltered life before our marriage and her parents never openly showed affection, so she never saw any kind of healthy examples of...
  4. We Display Sexual Affection Differently

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife and I are both in our mid 20s and have been married a year and a half. Our problem is that we display our sexual affection differently. My primary love language is words of affection. She does a great job saying little things through the day, such as telling me she loves me or that she...
  5. Tired of accepting men's stereotypes!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am just so tired of it all. Men checking out girls at the gym, making crude comments to each other, making dirty jokes, WHEN YOU ARE NOT AROUND.When you raise it up with your husband, he says oh you need to chill, its just stupid talk and he loves you at the end of the day. he cant control it...
  6. How to approach this? Please advice

    Coping with Infidelity
    Lately, I have seen my husband added many females he doesnt know on his fb. I asked him and he said it was for work because they are involved in his industry (advertising). I was not convinced so I looked in his fb messages and he has a few conversations with these women where he ALWAYS says...
  7. Someone please give me advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello, I need some advice. I have been married to my husband for one year. I thought we were soul mates and always were happy and seemed perfect for each other. I had started having my intuition telling me that there was something he was keeping from me and that he may have been unfaithful. He...
  8. Trust and Understanding

    General Relationship Discussion
    My girlfriend has major trust issues with me. We've been dating for about 2 1/2 years and are 15 years apart in age. Things started out wonderful between us - lots of attraction and chemistry, we loved each other and enjoyed our time together. Prior to meeting her I gave up all attachments with...
  9. I Feel Betrayed BUT My Wife Claims That It's Not An Online Affair

    Coping with Infidelity
    About 9 1/2 years ago I married the women whom I had been dating since 9th grade (consistently). We have 4 children and I've always loved her very much. About 3-4 years ago I found out that she had been on some online forum, talking with someone (a male) about our love life/sexual exploits, to...
  10. I'm 25 and I want to propose to my girl but...

    General Relationship Discussion
    My girl and I have been together for 4 years and 4 months. On our first 2 years we already started living together. She was having problems with her parents during those times (until now but there getting better). I took her along with her 2 cats. I remember walking up early in the morning with...
  11. Wife flirts with other men and it make me feel worthless

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Wife flirts with other men and it makes me feel worthless As long as we’ve been married, people have openly marveled at how “lucky” I am to have such an attractive wife. I’ve wondered myself. I’ve rarely had women approach or flirt with me. A beautiful young lady did once so I flirted back and...
  12. Am I really paranoid or intuitive?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husband has expressed an innocent enough sort of "respect" and "admiration" for this woman at our children's school a couple of years ago. Since then our families have become closer. Although I don't think she wants to necessarily be with my husband, I do think that she has a certain way of...
  13. Fiance texting and trying to have sex... please help

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi everyone... I'm a new user to this forum after browsing a little bit. I really really would appreciate help or advice. I'm so lost right now. I talked to a family friend (well, his friend) who was helpful but he doesn't really know what I should do other than that my fiance needs counseling...
  14. Husbands: When does flirting become cheating?

    Sex in Marriage
    I am 31 and I have been married for 4 years and together for 8 years. I love my husband and he is a wonderful husband and father. We have two kids, ages 1 and 3. We have sex every other day or so, and sometimes it is great sex and sometimes just ok. I know there are times he watches porn and...
  15. Afraid she's wanting to stray

    Coping with Infidelity
    My wife has been texting and flirting with a man that she met at her office. He's the phone guy there, and she has never really told me about him. She keeps trying to make plans to see him, coffee or a beer, and she never tells me about it. I approached her about it tonight, not telling her...
  16. Need help, boyfriend flirts with his own cousins

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1.5 years. About 4 years ago, he met a girl at community college one year younger and flirted with her for about a week, until they exchanged last names and realized they were cousins (his dad has never been in his life, so he never grew up with this cousin...
  17. Need help, boyfriend flirts with his own cousins

    General Relationship Discussion
    Been with my 22 year old boyfriend for 1.5 years. About 4 years ago, he met a girl at community college one year younger and flirted with her for about a week, until they exchanged last names and realized they were cousins (his dad has never been in his life, so he never grew up with this cousin...
  18. suffering so much will i ever trust him again please help

    General Relationship Discussion
    hi me and my fiance have been together 4 years 2 years ago i discovered a message he sent t0 anothe married women talking about sex stuff and flirting . he swore to me that he didnt ment anything by it and it was to trick her as she done it to other blokes and he wanted to tell her husband once...
  19. husbands midlife crisis causing flirting w/other girls, how can i be enough for him?

    Coping with Infidelity
    i am pretty sure my husband is going through a midlife crisis, he had one emotional affair in december that we have worked out but now theres been flirting with other girls that are his friends. i have been checking his facebook since the emotional affair and ended up finding other things. it...
  20. How To Bring Flirting Back Into Your Relationship

    Articles
    There is no such thing as being way past the flirting phase in your relationship. No matter what age or stage, you and your partner need to flirt, tease and have fun in order to keep the flame burning in your relationship. Flirting is not only fun but is also a crucial precursor to intimacy...
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