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  1. Introduction + Free EBook: How to Start a Money Conversation With Your Man

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Hey, friends! I'm Adam H. Kol. I'm a Couples Financial Counselor. That means I help couples who are dealing with money-related stress to get on the same page and make peace with their finances. My business is called AHK Coaching. I have tons of great free content: my website; YouTube channel...
  2. New Member & Couples Financial Counselor

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hey, all! I've been checking out this message board for a while now. I'm glad to have finally officially joined. My name is Adam. I'm a Couples Financial Counselor, which mean I help couples experiencing money-related stress to get on the same page & make peace with their finances. I'm excited...
  3. Engaged but struggling. What do you think I should do?

    I'm glad I came across this page tonight because I feel totally blindsided by my fiance as of the last few weeks and I could really use some outside perspective. I'll try to be as succinct as possible here so here's a bit of background info (feel free to skip it if you don't care about the...
  4. Where do I go from here...careerwise?

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Deleted post since haven't got much advice since posting
  5. Fighting for my Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    So about two years ago my husbands father passed a away. We had to move in with him mother because even through she is fairly young she can't really take care of herself. His father did everything for her. The money she getting from his pension doesn't cover the household bills. So because we...
  6. Are you keeping your significant other from achieving his or her dreams?

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    I know we like to view ourselves as being supportive and an asset to our love partners, but is this perception a reflection of reality or just an aspiration? During my sessions with couples, I typically find the later to be more accurate. Most people seem to believe they are doing a good job of...
  7. Vegas to blame?

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Hi everyone, So my husband and I have been together for two years, married for one. We have a 10 year age gap (I'm 25, he's 35) and have a 6 month old baby girl who is the light of our lives. I'm a native to Las Vegas. Been here for a long time and am pretty much unaffected to the things that...
  8. Marital Strife

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    I am with my husband for 6 years and married for 4. We have just had another row – a constant in our relationship. I constantly feel sad, low and unloved. Sex happens about three times a year, since we stopped trying for a baby (which I now realize is good for any potential child we would have...
  9. My Top 10 "Did Everything But Think" (D.E.B.T.) Moments in 2012

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    10. Going to the gym for the first time in 3 months without stretching. 09. Locking myself outside of the house for a second time in 2 months. 08. Driving to Delaware for a meeting that was canceled (Also going to work on my day off). 07. Traveling to Puerto Rico without brushing up on my...
  10. Help, My husband keeps reliving the past!!!!!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married almost 10 years and I am really starting to feel like my husband is holding a mistake I made in the past over my head!! About 5 years ago we hit a rough patch financially, my husband left the state to find work and left me behind until he could better provide. Meanwhile with...
  11. Financial priorities: Starving and His Pride

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    My fiance refuses to buy food. Or paper goods. Or ask his parents for help. I love my fiance very much, and moved to a new state to be with him in the year before we get married because he made it in to grad school. He insisted I come with him at the beginning of the month, so I quit my job and...
  12. I think... divorce.

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    After 4 years of marriage and a 2 yr old son, I found out recently that my husband lied about the "diamond ring" he bought me. It supposedly cost 12,000, but what I found out was that it was maybe $200-300. I confronted my husband and he said that someone frauded him and that its not possible...
  13. Marriage or not Marriage as a PhD student!!

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    Hello everybody. It is about two years that I have had a relationship with my girlfriend. She is very kind and considerable. We had decided to get married with each other. Both of us are 29. However, last year I left my homeland for continuing higher education (PhD) and she stayed at our...
  14. Marrying Gay Best Friend

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi... A friend of a friend was recently talking about marrying her gay best friend. She has children and is divorced, and really wants to marry him - they love each other, just not in a sexual way. She says it's a great way to provide financial and emotional support to her and her children...
  15. help I lie about bills

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    I have been married for 20 years and I have always had a problem with being truthful with my husband about bills.. I will tell him what i think he wants to hear to avoid a fight. I have told him that things were paid when they were only partially, I have told him that everything is under control...
  16. Husband Sleeping on Coach

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Please i need honest answers. I cannot say I have been the perfect wife. I have my flaws and I am truly willing to work on them but I just don’t know how I should change everything about me when he is changing nothing about him. We have been married six years now and have had one daughter...