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  1. My Spouse Shows Me I'm Not Worthy of Much

    General Relationship Discussion
    Amid this CO-VID 19 pandemic, my husband did not want to pay for my health insurance. My insurance is about $223 per month (I have a huge out-of-pocket if I ever need surgery, etc.). I stopped my dental insurance to help us save money. My husband basically informed me that he wants me to pay...
  2. Financial Disagreements

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am married for more than a year. I am Indian. In our culture, bride's family spend most of the money for marriage. Our marriage was no exception. I am liberal in spending money. I am not a lavish spender. I do save money. Have never taken any loan except for House. My wife is opposite in this...
  3. April is National Financial Literacy Month

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    In 2011, President Obama declared the month of April to be "National Financial Literacy Month". He did this because he understands that the American Dream is being lost due to debt problems. (This does not mean I believe he or congress is doing a good job managing the national budget...
  4. This might be the end?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Last night and this morning my husband had a huge fight. I attempted to hit him but didn't go through with it because I stopped myself. I'm 33 and he is 37. I've attempted at least 3 times before in the course of our relationship (3 years: 1 year married) - I know it is not good but sometimes he...
  5. Lost and I don't know what to do.

    Coping with Infidelity
    In December, my husband was discharged from the military. He was planned to move in with me immediately after. But before he actually left his base, he had found out that I had cheated on him. Although its only been a month or so, my paycheck alone is barely cutting it with all of the bills to...
  6. No Concept of where Finances should Go?

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    My husband and I have been together 4 years, just married a few months ago. We have always had a weird way of dividing finances, so I don't think the marriage brought on this issue. Basically, our mentality is pay what you can afford. Not necessarily based on what you make. Forget about redoing...
  7. Suggestions for those experiencing poverty for the first time

    Financial Problems in Marriage
    The "fiscal cliff" is directly in front of our faces and going over it will result in some people experiencing financial problems for the first time. Personally, I feel bad for these people because they are not accustom to living paycheck to paycheck. They haven't had to worry about keeping the...
  8. My cheap husband!

    General Relationship Discussion
    My h and I have been married for 4 years. We have 1 daughter together and I have 2 daughters from a previous relationship. I was working when we first married and made a decent living. Since then I had become chronically ill and have gone on Social Security. This has changed our finances...
  9. need advice on post marriage planning... please help

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi... me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for 2 yrs now.... currently we are in a long distance(LD) relationship have been in this for about a year. We generally have always been well connected, travelled alot together, made arrangements to meet each other once every 3 months...