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  1. Tired of being the fixer. Help with Husband anger/annoyed

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    My husband is slowly turning into his father. A fear of mine the past 16 years. Everything annoys him. He barks constantly. He swears at me and yells at me in front of our toddler. Now this is just a 'what the **** are you talking about' or 'why the **** would you do that' kind of yelling. But...
  2. Troubles finding love in the bedroom

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife had my son 7 months ago tomorrow. Since the pregnancy she has been really distant from me in the bed room. And by that I mean sex is dwindling away. I can't even talk her into the easy stuff like hand jobs. Quite frankly I don't think she wants anything to do with me in that way. She has...
  3. Are you allergic to your spouse?

    Long Term Success in Marriage
    Do you ever wonder what causes your blink-of-the-eye, intense reactions to your spouse or partner? Jokes aside about Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Do your ever witness yourself or your partner go from zero to bat-zip angry over something that, much later, doesn’t really matter? It’s painful. And...
  4. Sometimes I can't stand my wife

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello everyone, Im having troubles loving my wife, but first I'll tell you a little something about us. We are both 31 years old and have been together now for 7 years and married for 1 year and 5 months. We have Recently had the most amazing experience giving birth to our son, he's 3...
  5. New to marriage, how to balance it out?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My Husband and I have been married for almost a year. We've been together for 6 years and living together for 2. It feels like no matter what we fight about it comes back to this idea of balance. That one spouse isn't doing enough or feels like they are doing to much of the work. Last night we...
  6. Husband and mom problems

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi...sorry if this is an old topic (I'm sure I'm not the first) but I'm new here and still trying to navigate. To make a long story short, the title says it all. My mom, who I am extremely close with, and husband have been at odds with each other for years now. They both compete for my...
  7. How do I stay with someone who lacks empathy? Is my husband a sociopath?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am in a major crisis, guys. I need help and advice desperately, especially if you've been in a similar situation. I've been married for 4 years now and we fight constantly. By nature, I am a strong, outgoing, optimistic, hard-working, go-getter woman entrepreneur; however, I feel like I've...
  8. My family is falling apart, please help.

    General Relationship Discussion
    I know this is really long, and I appreciate anyone who reads it to completion. I wish I had the time and money to talk to a professional. I am a 40 year old married father of two. My life is so broken I don’t know if it can be fixed. Let me tell you why: My wife, whom I love, refuses to...
  9. They say men can;t communicate but...

    The Men's Clubhouse
    ...here I am on this forum, first and foremost. Starting a thread to see who else may be in a similar boat and share tips. In my marriage of not quite 3 years, closer to 5 total time spent cohabiting, our arguments break down because my now wife gets too flustered to put together a coherent...
  10. Thoughts on new approach when fighting with wife.

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hey, First time poster on here. Glad I can talk to a community which sounds amazing. So my wife an I have been married for about 4 months. We had been dating for about 3 years before that. I am 27 and my wife is 23. We are amazing together. We get a long so well and our goofiness and sense...
  11. So, I Believe I Have Anxiety About Marriage...

    General Relationship Discussion
    So, here's everything in a nutshell: I've been dating my boyfriend for four and a half years and we're talking marriage (eventually...engagement in at least a year). The problem is, marriage freaks me out. My parents have a horrible relationship (and are somehow still married...is it sad that...
  12. days without seeing each other and then fighting :(

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  13. Zero Negativity

    General Relationship Discussion
    We thought you might find this article helpful. While it may be hard to follow at first, it can make a huge difference in your relationship if you apply the principles of "zero negativity" as a consistent daily practice. Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.: Zero Negativity The authors of this article...
  14. What is a "normal marriage?"

    General Relationship Discussion
    I know we all feel very unique in our feelings, especially when they are troubling feelings. However, I am curious if I really am feeling a unique (not normal) desperation and sadness within my marriage. I have been married for almost 4 years. No kids. Living together for over 8 years. When we...
  15. I've given up

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am an at home mother of two beautiful girls, i clean, cook, do homework & school projects. I'm the one who takes them to their Dr.s Appointments, school functions and have gone to their every progress meeting with teachers and staff in regards to their progress. I cook, clean and everything...
  16. Advice on picture

    Coping with Infidelity
    The question I have is about the picture I have used as my avatar. I feel this is the right section to post in because this picture has caused many fights and accusations about the man in the picture. Please feel free to respond if you are a professional photographer, just take pics for fun or...
  17. Hubby lying about spending and many other strange behaviors. Any input is welcome!

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married to my husband for 5 years. It has been some what rough. He has been arrested for stealing, he has been emotionally abusive and I think he is narcassisitic(SP). I am not perfect either though. This relationship has really turned me into someone I am not happy with at all. I...
  18. We are in counseling, he wants sex all the time

    Sex in Marriage
    Hello, i've only ever posted once on here before in the financial section, long story short, he wants access to my accounts, and he doesn't work. we are newlyweds. so..... we started marriage counseling. We've been in HUGE fights because of all this money stuff (along with some other stuff)...
  19. EA he filed came home and has left several times help!

    Reconciliation
    I am not sure where I should post...I am a 33 year old woman and deeply in love with my husband. He started using pain killers and became addicted to them for over a year and pout us in dire financil strain as we own our own business. We still 2 years later struggling with this off and on. And...
  20. Engaged and Fighting - She thinks i'm hiding things

    General Relationship Discussion
    It was exactly one week from the time i proposed until a huge fight erupted. I was at an all day soccer tournament with my daughter (child from previous marriage). When i arrived home my fiance was in a weird mood and began asking me about our day. Long story short my neighbor from my...
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