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  1. Cuckold/Hotwife understanding **maybe TMI

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I have been a long time reader and poster to the talkaboutmarriage boards. I have decided to go anon for this one, and i think you will see why. I have been married for 12 years now. After two years of marriage, DH and I were having pillow talk after sex, and we started sharing fantasies...
  2. Hey there, sex question

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My question was answered, thanks everyone for the time! I really do appreciate it
  3. "Affair" (lol) with my own book character!

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I'm a creative writer who self published a romance novel recently, and I've started writing a second book with the same characters. This is getting to be a problem for me, though! :( Now, as soon as I say 'romance novel' and 'affair' with my male character, you might start assuming "Mr. Studly...
  4. do I tell wife my fantasy?

    Sex in Marriage
    Married 50 years to a woman who has never been with another man. I’m 73 in good health and work out and so does she. I’m a typical man with fantasies when pleasuring myself and one of those fantasies is seeing my wife with another guy… not just another guy but the husband of one her friends...
  5. Wife Role Play Fantasy Advise

    Sex in Marriage
    I would like advise, suggestion on this fantasy for my wife. We have been very happily married for 30 years. Sex life is good. Wife takes good care of me. She can be very sexual. We like to keep it fresh and it's great. She has never been with another man but me. She is a Christian so she...
  6. Passing Out During Orgasm

    General Relationship Discussion
    In high school, I hooked up with the friend who eventually took my virginity. Before we actually had sex there was plenty of foreplay in the sessions leading up to the day. On one occasion, which I will never forget, she passed out after having a really strong orgasm. I was fingering her - the...
  7. Wife had online affair- She wants me to have one too.

    Sex in Marriage
    I would like to get some advice. I have posted a few topics about what has been going on in my marriage already. My wife had an online affair using skype, and says that it never was physical. She did stop the affair a couple of weeks ago and hasn't been online with him since. I know this...
  8. I need a woman's advice on this problem I have with my girlfriend

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Recently, my girlfriend told me that she has a rape fantasy. I was shocked at first but I said no. She keeps on bringing it up even though my answer is no. But it's not just rape she also want's me to rape her anally too and I just can't understand why. I really want this relationship to work...
  9. Embarrassed and frustrated about my fetish

    Sex in Marriage
    I have a crazy fantasy of being impregnated by my husband. We aren't ready to have kids yet but I still get turned on thinking about it. We have a Taken in hand style relationship so I think the idea of my husband, as the strong man and leader that he is, impregnating me is hot. But.....he...
  10. So lost!!! Help, im losing my wife!!

    Sex in Marriage
    I guess I will start from the beginning. My wife and I have been married for 4 years, together 12, and known each other 25. And we are only thirty. We were each others first puppy love crush :) Last year my company relocated me and my family to California. I was working 6 days a week...
  11. Husband has gang bang fantasy

    Sex in Marriage
    My husband of only 7 weeks has fantasies of me in a 'gang bang scenario'. He is a seemingly straightlaced formerly single father. I didn't realize he watched porn until recently and sends me porn featuring a certain girl who resembles me who is always with multiple men. He has repeatedly...
  12. Husband doesn't want to "spoil" me... so he can't think of me in a sexual way--help!

    Sex in Marriage
    Husband doesn't want to "spoil" me... so he can't think of me in a sexual way--help! My husband and I have been married for ~2 months but have been together for over 2 years. We are 19 and 20 years old. Both new at sex. Because I am my husband's first sexual partner he had previously used...
  13. no fantasies?

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife says she has no sexual fantasies and has never masturbated. I don't think thats normal but does it happen - or is it just someone who is very repressed? If I verbalise certain sexual fantasies during intercourse she orgasms readily, suggesting to me she likes the idea but she will not...
  14. fatasy/reality wife cheated.

    Relationships and Addiction
    Background: Married 3 years, together 6 years, known 10 years and share a 2 year old son. Well were do I begin with my story. Two weeks ago was like any other normal day I do my 9-5 job on my way to work when I receive a text message from my wife. The message proceeded to say that I should look...
  15. Help Me Sort Out This Craziness

    Coping with Infidelity
    I feel betrayed, broken, obsessed, and unable to move on. I've dealt with normal infidelity. But this time, it seems so unreal, I can't stop thinking about what happened. I need help to sort through this mess and craziness and to get some perspective. I am so sorry for my long story...