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  1. Need advice about Fiancee's friends

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Hi All, Need some advice from a male perspective. Not all "I hate his friends" situations are the same, so please don't categorize me. I will try to keep this short and sweet and unbiased as possible. I have been dating my current fiancee for 6 years on and off. He is a classy guy from a...
  2. I'm engaged and scared of losing myself

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi everyone! Im a 29 year old woman, who has gone through life enjoying my biggest passion TRAVELING, I have lived in Germany, Czech Republic, Costa Rica, USA, been to Mexico, oh well you get the idea, and I met this amazing man 3 years ago and I had never ever thought I'd marry, never thought...
  3. Engaged and in love, but almost sexless and having second thoughts.

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi All - Happy New Year to everyone, I hope 2014 brings us all fulfillment in our relationships. :) I am mid-30s an engaged to a man in mid-40s. We have been together for 4 and a half years, engaged for a year and a half. I just joined TAM today because I need help figuring out what to do...
  4. christian, virgin, engaged, nonplussed about sex

    Relationships and Spirituality
    I am engaged to be married to a great Christian guy. He is a catch: handsome, hard worker, and i am proud of him. We have been dating for nearly 4 years. For the first year or so I was desperate to jump into bed with him, but we always resisted, saving ourselves for marriage. Now that marriage...
  5. dealing with unforgiving

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I don't know if I'm posting in the right forum but I was hoping if there are any experienced husbands out there that might be or have been going through the same thing I am right now. How do you cope? My fiance is unforgiving. She does not take "I'm sorry's" even for little mistakes. I've...
  6. To Marry? Or not to Marry?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hello all and thanks for reading. I really need some advice!! I have been with my fiance for 4 1/2 years. We have been engaged for 2 years. We were planning on getting married in June 2013. Last Sunday (a week ago) we had an argument regarding finances. We both completely over reacted and based...
  7. Engaged and Fighting - She thinks i'm hiding things

    General Relationship Discussion
    It was exactly one week from the time i proposed until a huge fight erupted. I was at an all day soccer tournament with my daughter (child from previous marriage). When i arrived home my fiance was in a weird mood and began asking me about our day. Long story short my neighbor from my...
  8. Afraid of Making a Mistake

    The Ladies' Lounge
    My fiance and I got engaged fairly recently, after knowing each other for nearly 2 years. In many ways we are highly compatible, and the chemistry is strong between us. The problem started back in May, when we had been together for nearly a year. My fiance belongs to FB. An ex-girlfriend found...
  9. Am I Creating Problems or Are Problems Real?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I'm a 29 year old woman who's been dating a 38 year old man for the past 3 years. He's older than me so he wants to start a family pretty soon. I don't think I'm ready for that. I don't think kids are cute. Everyone assures me that my biological clock will go off at some point and I will want...
  10. Am Questioning Whether to Marry Him

    General Relationship Discussion
    So, I am new to this forum. I have never participated in one of these and am going to bare it all, which is very scary for me right now. I am not married yet, but our wedding date is set for this fall. We have been together for just over 3 and a half years and engaged for almost 2. We spent the...
  11. Breaking up is hard to do!

    Coping with Infidelity
    breaking up! We are breaking up! we are a fresh couple... started of as a long distance relationship. I came from Holland and she lives in Canada.. atm we are living in Canada... in a big house.. it is needed cause she has 4 kids... recently we invited some people to live with us (renting a...
  12. How much of a big deal is this:

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I'm getting married in a few weeks and my fiance had a previous marriage (shotgun wedding) he always said was unhappy and the discussions I've heard between him and his ex proove to me they fight a lot. They fight less now and are usually civil while discussing their teen daughter, that's really...
  13. Engagement on the Rocks. Need some advice

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi all, Sorry for this, my first post being long. I am new here so I guess I will start by telling you a little about my relationship and how I have come to my current position. I am a 28 year old guy who took a few years before going to college so I was several older than most of my friends at...
  14. Not setting a wedding date???

    General Relationship Discussion
    My fiance is constantly trying to make me feel guilty for the $4000 solitaire he bought me and patting himself on the back for being so "generous". (he makes 6 figures) I thought the ring was to represent our future together but he always says he just bought it to make ME happy. It was his idea...
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