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  1. Rebuilding Confidence (and maybe trust)

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am a long-time lurker and used to be a semi-regular poster when I was married, but I have created a new account because I don't want my new posts associated with the old account. Because my how things have changed. I am now divorced and dating a new guy. He's 39. I'm 42. We have been together...
  2. Help with midlife crisis spouse

    Coping with Infidelity
    First time on this forum. I know that the marital problem I’m going to describe isn’t uncommon, but it has a couple of aspects that I haven’t heard addressed elsewhere. I’d like to hear some perspectives on the situation. Wife and I have been together 21 years, married 19. Two girls, ages 15...
  3. Facebook Infidelity Found 2 messages

    Coping with Infidelity
    Recently my husband had been acting different. I had noticed he had been wanting to go out to hookah bars a lot lately and I was left home with our 2 year old and I am 8 months pregnant. At night I would notice his phone would light up and girls would be sending him facebook messages. I...
  4. Wife texting others over me Help me!

    General Relationship Discussion
    All this beginning stuff is backstory, its long I know but I lay the foundation. If you want to see the issues skip down to paragraph 5 please. Any advice will help. Hello I really need some advice. My wife has been texting other people, men mostly instead of me. We haven't had any problems...
  5. Where is the line crossed?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married to my husband for a few years now. We have had our ups and downs like any couple, and one thing we actually are on the same page about is that when it's good it's really good and when it's bad it can get really bad. I know that everyone needs someone else to confide in...
  6. Discovered an affair. Now what?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Background: My wife and I have been married just about 2 years. We are both 25. My parents divorced when I was 15 and hers are happily married after 30 years and incredible role models. 6 weeks ago she started an intense summer graduate school program where she lived with my parents as she took...
  7. Rock bottom in my marriage - I hope

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married almost 11 years to a woman I met 15 years ago. She is a wonderful person who my family loves very much. Our marriage has been lifeless for some time now, bearing little intimacy which, until recently, wasn't bothering me... at least I wasn't acknowledging that it was...
  8. Is this emotional infidelity? How to deal with it?

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have been married for 4.5 years and have a 10 month old baby now.My husband and I have been living in different countries for a little more than one year. I came to my parents place during the last trimester of my first pregnancy and been here ever since, since we don’t have a good enough...