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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    “We would have killed each other, wouldn’t we?” These words were spoken by my college girlfriend, best friend and wife of 48 years - and my world came crashing down. Even though I suspected what she meant, I calmly asked “Who are you talking about?” The answer was a knife in my heart – “Pat B. –...
  2. Coping with Infidelity
    This is a doozy. Several months ago, wife started a chat online with a scammer pretending to be J Hope, a famous K Pop star. Somehow he convinced my wife that he (famous wealthy 27-year old pop star) is in love with my 63-year old overweight wife, and wants to marry her. In the process, he...
  3. General Relationship Discussion
    My husband had been recently involved in an emotional affair with someone on Instagram . While I thought it was only a one time DM turned out to be more and that he’s been “ casually” so her says talking to her . the woman is not really very pretty in my opinion but she did get what seems like a...
  4. Coping with Infidelity
    Where to start…. My husband is from another country. We married 12 years ago in a whirlwind romance. He left his country 14 years ago and never went back. He has dual citizenship so green card doesn’t come into play. He left adult children, grand children, a sister and an ex wife in his home...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    Its been 7 months since I found out that my husband is an emotional cheater. I thought time would help me heal but I am still stuck in a place where I am feeling conflicted. We met in late 2017 through an online dating app. We dated for 2 years before getting engaged in mid 2019. And fast...
  6. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I have been happily married for 21 years. 2 months ago my wife and I decided to get a home refinance loan to update our house. We deposited a $48,000 check into our bank accounts. Shortly thereafter, I came home from work to find my 19-year-old daughter crying. She had found a romantic text on...
  7. Coping with Infidelity
    In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...
  8. Coping with Infidelity
    Hello, Married 21 years, 4 kids 20,18,13 & 11. Back in 2014 I found out my wife was texting a man from her work. Not sure what made me start looking other than a gut feeling something wasn't right. She claims that it never got romantic and that she didn't think of him that way. I tried to...
  9. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I’m not an expressive person (except on paper). I don’t talk enough. My wife of 10 years, Polly, tells me these things all the time. Well, here comes an outpouring of feelings. I’m going to share my view of the situation, along with how it kicks me right in the gut. For the past couple of...
  10. General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been married 15 years. Trust and Jealously have never been a problem at all until recently. I guess I'm here to find out how others would interpret the actions of my wife's friend. He used to be her boss and they would joke about being work spouses. He is 15 years her...
  11. Coping with Infidelity
    I discovered my wife's EA 14 months ago. Facebook chats with a former crush from childhood with a serious long term illness . Nothing physical but how she loved him and "we will have our chance." I finally got a gut filling and read her phone messages. I was devestated, our marriage wasn't...
  12. Coping with Infidelity
    Hey folks – long time lurker here – since June or so, but I recently registered. There were a couple other threads I wanted to comment on, questions I wanted to ask, but I figured I’d post my story as a way of an introductory post…. Also to clear my head and solicit some input, advice...
  13. The Ladies' Lounge
    We were the couple that made everyone else sick. We never really fought. We were always best friends. (We didn't really date in the traditional sense we were best friends who got each other.) My wife recently dropped the bombshell that she planned to leave me for our mutual friend (who is...
  14. Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have been together for 20 years and married for 13. We have 4 children together. The last 3 years have been pretty difficult for us. In 2014 he was in school and it felt like he was pulling away and being distant from me... studying all the time away from home while I worked...
  15. General Relationship Discussion
    I've been with my husband just shy of 5 years (married for 1) and we have had a pretty solid relationship. Much of our relationship has included change of moving, getting settled, finishing school, and new careers, but through everything we've had a good relationship with communication and...
  16. Going Through Divorce or Separation
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  17. Coping with Infidelity
    W and I have have been together for 9 years, married for 3, we're both 29 and have no kids. I always thought we were happy and we had a strong connection, though in hindsight I guess we were pretty conflict avoidant. A few months ago she started having an EA with a coworker. I didn't know what...
  18. Coping with Infidelity
    I screwed up major with the perfect girl for me. Ive known her most of my life but then we reconnected and started a relationship. My prior relationship involved a little girl that i considered my daughter. My girlfriend said she accepted that i felt that way about her. what girl really does...
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