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I'm the guilty party in this scenario. History ( Before I emotionally cheated this time) I've been with my partner for about 4 years. We've gone through a lot of growing pains and had lots of great memories. He's emotionally cheated on me and I emotionally cheated in the past as well...

Hi, I would like to have an honest perspective of men on this. If I seem naïve, that's ok. I really was. I suspect my husband married me while in love with a female friend. I have been married for nine months and we have been together for three years and two months. His friendship with her...

Last month I started the thread "My husband has a best female friend" and I would like to share my perspective on going for divorce because of a friendship without evidence of sexual cheating. Is it too much? We have been married for nine months and last month I started consulting for a divorce...

The post was considered too long by some, but the thread explains itself and here is a summary for those who didn't read the original post: I (36) looked for advice on how to deal with my husband (38) and marriage of eight months because he regularly goes out for a coffee with a female friend...

Hello. Straight to the point: I have a suspicion that my wife is having an emotional affair, but have no proof and am unsure if I am being unreasonable. All I am going by is her actions, the biggest being lying to me about talking to another man. Found this out when one night she made an excuse...

Hi all I just need advice, opinions or hearing about your experiences with infidelity 2 years ago I discovered a text messages my wife sent to a co-worker the day he relocated overseas with his wife. They were both teachers and knew each other from university. In 2013 I warned my wife about his...

“We would have killed each other, wouldn’t we?” These words were spoken by my college girlfriend, best friend and wife of 48 years - and my world came crashing down. Even though I suspected what she meant, I calmly asked “Who are you talking about?” The answer was a knife in my heart – “Pat B. –...

This is a doozy. Several months ago, wife started a chat online with a scammer pretending to be J Hope, a famous K Pop star. Somehow he convinced my wife that he (famous wealthy 27-year old pop star) is in love with my 63-year old overweight wife, and wants to marry her. In the process, he...

My husband had been recently involved in an emotional affair with someone on Instagram . While I thought it was only a one time DM turned out to be more and that he’s been “ casually” so her says talking to her . the woman is not really very pretty in my opinion but she did get what seems like a...

Where to start…. My husband is from another country. We married 12 years ago in a whirlwind romance. He left his country 14 years ago and never went back. He has dual citizenship so green card doesn’t come into play. He left adult children, grand children, a sister and an ex wife in his home...

Its been 7 months since I found out that my husband is an emotional cheater. I thought time would help me heal but I am still stuck in a place where I am feeling conflicted. We met in late 2017 through an online dating app. We dated for 2 years before getting engaged in mid 2019. And fast...

I have been happily married for 21 years. 2 months ago my wife and I decided to get a home refinance loan to update our house. We deposited a $48,000 check into our bank accounts. Shortly thereafter, I came home from work to find my 19-year-old daughter crying. She had found a romantic text on...

In reading some of these threads - and I posted a few long ago - I have some thoughts for those of you posting. Please hear me out because I have been on both sides of this fence: 1. If your gut tells you something is wrong LISTEN! It probably is. 2. Don't wait for years thinking that...

Hello, Married 21 years, 4 kids 20,18,13 & 11. Back in 2014 I found out my wife was texting a man from her work. Not sure what made me start looking other than a gut feeling something wasn't right. She claims that it never got romantic and that she didn't think of him that way. I tried to...

I’m not an expressive person (except on paper). I don’t talk enough. My wife of 10 years, Polly, tells me these things all the time. Well, here comes an outpouring of feelings. I’m going to share my view of the situation, along with how it kicks me right in the gut. For the past couple of...

My wife and I have been married 15 years. Trust and Jealously have never been a problem at all until recently. I guess I'm here to find out how others would interpret the actions of my wife's friend. He used to be her boss and they would joke about being work spouses. He is 15 years her...

I discovered my wife's EA 14 months ago. Facebook chats with a former crush from childhood with a serious long term illness . Nothing physical but how she loved him and "we will have our chance." I finally got a gut filling and read her phone messages. I was devestated, our marriage wasn't...

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Hey folks – long time lurker here – since June or so, but I recently registered. There were a couple other threads I wanted to comment on, questions I wanted to ask, but I figured I’d post my story as a way of an introductory post…. Also to clear my head and solicit some input, advice...