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  1. Keeping custody communications on-point

    Coping with Infidelity
    I am having a lot of problems talking about our son with my cheating STBXH. My M.O. has been to email or text because often, when we talk on the phone, we argue. Or he'll start asking me questions about my life - my job, how I'm doing, how he wants to see me socially and get together for coffee...
  2. NEED A Man's point of view. Flirty Work Emails Found.

    Coping with Infidelity
    Discovered Flirty Work Emails on my husbands phone. {Pls note, I posted this on another forum but I would really appreciate a man's point of view (i dont mind women too) bc my DH is making me feel guilty as if this was MY fault. Thank you} Background: My husband and I have been married for...
  3. Husband emailing ex girlfriend

    General Relationship Discussion
    It's funny, I came to this site by googling "husband emailing ex girlfriend" and it's amazing how many posts there are about this. My story is a little different -- maybe not as serious as some of these posts I'm reading, but still upsetting. My husband started an email correspondence on...
  4. Wife was keeping friendship a secret, possible EA

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, the past week or so has been a roller coaster of emotions. We have been married for almost 15 years and have 3 children and have/had a pretty healthy relationship. There are the usual ups and downs but overall good stable emotionally and physically. Going back to my first year of marriage...
  5. Email/Facebook/Privacy/Openness -- please help

    General Relationship Discussion
    I intend to open a conversation with my husband about our online boundaries, and I need help. My husband and I married 2 months ago. He found me last year via a mutual friend on Facebook. He friended me, sent me a flattering, long message as an overture, and started wooing me online by...
  6. If he doesn't know/wont admit WHY he does it, how can he stop?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hello everyone, I am a long time lurker but I am not sure if this post belongs in this section or the general discussion section... I will try and sum things up as best I can without writing a huge novel- My husband knows I am posting this and is also interested in reading the feedback I get...
  7. I sabotaged the affair. Now what?

    Coping with Infidelity
    Back in early January, I was in bed with my wife, spooning her, as I did almost every night. We were best friends, companions, parents to our 2 1/2 year old son. I was a loving husband, and she was a loving wife. We married at 19 -- did the Vegas drive-thru wedding, and for the most part, we...