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  1. Advice needed-had enough of hubby's disrespect

    General Relationship Discussion
    HI. I am 33 hubby is 34.We are married for 7 years with two kids. 4 and 1.5year old. I have an issue with my hubby and his lack of respect when he goes out drinking. He makes promises to return at a certain time but doesn't. He will come home 3-4 or 5 hours later than normal. He has done this...
  2. Newlywed & Separated

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am new to this forum and would like to share my story for some advice from other people going through a similar situation. I am 29 and met H when I was 24 on vacation and we dated blissfully long distance (2 hours away) for about a year before I moved to his city. Once moved, I realised...
  3. Broken Trust

    General Relationship Discussion
    So me and my husband have been together almost 10 years, married for 8. I just recently found out of his cheating about 7 months ago. It was more than 1 girl more than 1 time. I'm the type that alway said I would never stay with someone once they cheated on me but I now stand corrected. Once...
  4. Drinking, sex drive and lack of affection

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I am new to the forum and debated on where to make my post. My husband and I have been married 9 months. We didn't date long and that is probably part of our problem. Our sex life has become abysmal. Last month we had sex three times and that was partly due to me commenting on our...
  5. Mife wife is a different person when drinking, how can we fix this?

    Relationships and Addiction
    Hello & happy holidays! I am new around here but need advice. We have been married for 9mos now and together for 5yrs. I am concerned about my wifes drinking, its not just how often she drinks but the fact that her behavior tends to get inappropriate when drunk and I hate it. We've talked about...
  6. need outside opinions, not sure what to do

    General Relationship Discussion
    Backstory: I have been with this person for over a year, and we were best friends for over a decade before we decided to give it a go. We have both lost friends due to the fact that we chose each other over them. My other half has been going out with their ex, both of us were at one point...
  7. Religious background causing difficulties in reasoning with spouse?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi, I'm 19 years old, my husband is in the Military and is currently stationed in Germany, and I'm trying to get paperwork done so that I can go to be with him. We've been married for 4 and a half months, and those 4 months he's been in Germany. We've been together for almost 4 years, though...
  8. Husband drink while watching kids

    Relationships and Addiction
    I returned home from a grocery shopping trip yesterday to find my husband had been drinking excessively while looking after our 2 boys aged 6 and 3. He was so drunk that he was struggling to put clothes on our 3 year old son. He denied he had been drinking. We had plans to go and visit my...
  9. Weary of it all...this is long.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married almost 20 years...less that a month to go to my anniversary. The last 12 years have totally sucked...truly awful. Our first years were pretty happy. Hubby started to become very jealous, but I always figured he'd settle down in time, he'd come to know I'm a loyal gal. And...
  10. confused

    General Relationship Discussion
    I am not sure what to do... i am in a weird situation. my husband seems like he just doesnt want to grow up. but on the other hand maybe i am being to demanding. i am 27 and he is 29. he works a lot. and when he comes home he is usually in a bad mood. he is a very negative person. it seems...
  11. Husband left me 4 Months Pregnant

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband left me about 6 weeks ago. We have been married for just one year but together for 3 before that. We had been arguing alot and he finally said he had enough and he just couldn't do it anymore. I was at my cousins wedding and not even in the same city as him when he decided this. He...
  12. Stay or Go?

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I have been struggling for over a year on whether to file for divorce. My husband is a heavy drinker and always seems ot have an answer to everything. We went to counseling and that didn't help much. When we finally hit a breaking point, he decided to stop drinking, but he always starts again...
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