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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone. I am a new poster here. Please bare with me as my story likely has a lot of details but I would really appreciate your advise on this. Just to give you a little background on myself, I was originally born in Asia (can't say where) but left when I was a baby and have been living in...
  2. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, so I’ve never written on one of these and frankly, don’t know where to start. I’m a married woman of 5 years and it’s felt like a life time. I’m truly in such an unhappy marriage I can’t see us ever mending the hurt that has transpired over the past 5 years. We have two small children...
  3. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I’m new to this place. I’m feeling very lost and alone and I could do with some advice please. I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for 2. We are very compatible but with this is passion and fire-in both the negative and positive sense. We are fiery and we argue and bicker a...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Coming up on 8 years of marriage and I'm not sure I can suffer another year let alone a lifetime. We were married only 11 months into what was already a challenging relationship. We married quickly because he was (is) in the military and was being transferred. When we were dating there were...
  5. Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry this is a long read but I think the context is needed before requesting advice. Met my wife in 2009 and married in 2012. In early 2019, I found out she was cheating on me with one of her co-workers. I confronted her and threatened to leave, but she begged for forgiveness and wanted to work...
  6. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    A little back story. Married for 10 years. 2 children. I have job paying just about the same as his. We have a house together under my VA. At 6 months pregnant, 3 months before saying "I do" I catch him sending messages to girls while in the "field" for Army training saying he doesn't want to...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am far away from my hometown and haven't seen my family in almost a year. After a ton of reassurance from my husband, we decided to make plans to go see my parents. My father is 80 and my mother in her 60s. I have struggled with anxiety most of my adult life and I am super nervous about going...
  8. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    You stopped loving me After 18 years of being together, you stopped loving me. Maybe it happened gradually, but it is now that you decided to leave. You grabbed some courage, as you said it wasn’t easy and told me you weren’t happy in the relationship anymore. You also told me you’ve been...
  9. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband (29) and I (28) have been married for 2 years and in a relationship for 10 years. Our relationship has had it’s ups and downs. A major problem with our relationship was that he is an alcoholic. For years he would always go out and not come back until the next day. He wouldn’t text or...
  10. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I have been married for 5 years we have one special needs kid and I’m 33 years old. Before we were married we did not live together. Once we married and moved in I quickly learned my husband is a pathological liar. I’m at the point where emotionally I’m done with the marriage but I can’t seem to...
  11. The Men's Clubhouse
    Hello, I (33m) am at the tail end of a divorce that has went relatively smoothly. I can be thankful for that at the very least. I will keep this brief. I have been with my wife for about 7 years but only married for 3. About two months ago my wife began acting strangely. I suspected something...
  12. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am contemplating divorce with my husband. We have been married for 2.5 years. We didn’t have a “honeymoon” period because we were, and still is, quite busy with our personal careers and goals. We didn’t even go on a honeymoon. My husband went straight back to work the day after our wedding. So...
  13. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I am trying to get advice on some of the financials concerning divorce.
  14. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Me and my wife started dating 7 years Ago. 4 years Ago we had a daughter. She was born with autism (until recently It was called asperger's syndrom). Since our daughter was borned our sex life declined and we were having It once a month or two. This went on for the past 4 years. I never cheated...
  15. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I’m just about 12 weeks pregnant and I’m divorcing my husband because he had an affair. I have a 2 year old with him already and he was the one who wanted the second baby so bad. What I don’t get is how can someone have a sexual affair with someone else while trying to get their wife pregnant...
  16. General Relationship Discussion
    I apologize for the long post but I am desperate for advice on what I should do because I am truly lost. I’ve been married to my wonderful husband for a little under four years but we have been together for almost ten years. We are both in our early thirties. I have nothing but good things to...
  17. Relationships and Addiction
    As I sit here and think about it I cannot remember a time when my husband wasn't making me feel insecure due to his behavior which is my fault for looking past his flaws and still marrying him. When we were dating he used to have a roaming eye but tmk he's never cheated which is usually his...
  18. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I am currently working in Afghanistan as a US civilian contractor. I have been married to a foreigner for almost 10 years now. We have only lived together in her country for about 2½ years out of the 10 year of marriage. This time together was spent between jobs and vacation. We have...
  19. General Relationship Discussion
    Been married for 5 years now have an almost 2 year old and have had a lot of issues these past 3 years. My husband has had multiple phone affairs. (Never physical) but he went to counseling for about 3 months for this and alcoholism and has been so much better for the last 6 months. Now the past...
  20. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Me and my wife have been together for almost ten year married for one. I was not the best partner. I held a lot in my chest for a long time, perceived wrongs I thought had been done to me. I had a blow up one day and the next day she went to her sister's and when she was supposed to come home I...
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