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  1. Resentment, no attraction but love. Help!

    Sex in Marriage
    Dear all I would really appreciate some advice. I’ve been married 14 years to my wife. She’s 35 and I’m 46 but the age gap has never been a problem. We have 3 boys aged 11,8 and 5. When we got married, sex was enjoyable and affectionate. 3 months into the marriage my wife lost her sexual...
  2. It’s been 9 months since D day but the betrayal lasted for five years and the pain is strong as ever

    Coping with Infidelity
    This is a long post but I really hope to get some insight I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and I never expected nor saw any of this coming. He would always tell me how happy he was and that he couldn’t picture his life without me. I felt the same. He is the only person in the world that...
  3. Feeling lost and purposeless after divorce

    Life After Divorce
    I got a divorced after being engaged with a person for about 1 year and married for around 6 months. Most of the time was long distance but the relationship was toxic and I felt more stressful while being in that relationship. I only understood after wards that what I was dealing with, a...
  4. Husband left me for younger woman

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi, I’m 45 and my husband 41. About 2 years ago I found out he was having an affair with a 26 year old. When confronted, he told me it started The month before and chose to leave the house and not try save our marriage. Fast forward two years, we are divorced and she now lives in the house I...
  5. Just got divorced

    Dealing with Grief and Loss
    I was with the love of my life. Some trials and tribulations happened connected to Childhood trauma. I begged for people to be with me as I worked through this because I was always there for everyone else but no one would help. My life was falling apart and everyone just turned the other way. I...
  6. Divorce over porn?

    Sex in Marriage
    My wife found downloaded porn on my phone yesterday, I did watch it, but didn't realize it got downloaded. She was deeply hurt, I was embarrassed when she told me. She went to work and I started to look in google for some advice (which landed me here), I found a lot of information that made me...
  7. New Here and afraid to post

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    My name is Cody and I am from Texas. I am married to someone who is narcissistic, diagnosed with bipolar disorder, and paranoid personality disorder. I did not know she had bipolar disorder until she gave birth. She had thoughts about killing me, herself, and our child. This led to her...
  8. Would you want to know? Caught my ex cheating on her fiancee with...

    Coping with Infidelity
    ... the woman she cheated on me with (while she and I were dating). Also, please forgive me if I'm in the correct forum or not. I'm a woman and Kayla was my first same-sex experience in both getting physical with another woman and dating. I was struggling accept my sexuality, while she had...
  9. Mutual Friends or New Foes...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    How are your relationships with couples that are “mutual friends”? We’re not divorced yet but I have a set of supposed friends that we knew independently before any of us got into relationships. I even worked with her overseas where our husbands were stationed (we were all in the military...
  10. Marriage Dilemma

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi Everyone, I've been married for 5 years now, going on 6 yrs in November - no children. My husband has developed a deep interest in video games and has been working the night shift for 3 years. On weekends when he has off, he will spend his time playing video games and then he will sleep. I've...
  11. Looking for unbiased advice

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello all. Ultimately I'm looking for a little advice, from people that aren't biased and know us on a personal level. Everything said is the 100% truth. I don't know anybody therefore have no reason to lie. So we got married just a year ago July, and already in divorce proceedings. The...
  12. Choosing Divorce or Separation?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hey, everyone. So I've been married to my husband for almost 9.5 years. When we met/got married, I was a slim 130 lbs, wearing a 2-4 in pants and fairly responsible. A lot has changed since then. To begin with, once we moved from Texas, where I had lived since birth, I put on a lot of weight-...
  13. Please Help

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    I am struggling deeply and just need some sound advice. I've had a very rough year. I was struggling with care-taking for a very very sick immediate family member and went through a rough surgery for myself. My mental health suffered during this time- I began to struggle with crippling anxiety...
  14. This is VERY long, but extremely important marriage issue. Would appreciate your time

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    *This is pretty long, but all relevant. My sister thinks our relationship is a big soap opera, and thus.. if you have the time to read through, process, and answer..I would be in your debt* I met Keith ( a F2M trans) at a 4 day wedding in Colorado 4 years ago. We clicked instantly. One night...
  15. HELP... I’m angry and mad...

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Where do I start... I’ve been married for almost 21 years. I have 3 children and I want a divorce. My husband claims to love me and says he will never stop loving me that I am the love of his life... my story is LONG sand could be made into a Sunday night movie- I grew up very religious and...
  16. My wife wants to leave me

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife wants to leave me We have been been together 7 years, married 4 and a half and have two children 4 and almost 1. My youngest turns 1 in just 3 weeks ! A month ago on my birthday! when I was trying to get intimate my wife came out and told me the marriage isn't working and she doesn't...
  17. Infidelity questions

    Coping with Infidelity
    I have read a great number of posts here and on other marriage and psychology sites about why people are unfaithful. Men do it for different reasons than women, it's not really cheating if, should I take him/ her back etc. I'm old school on this I suppose but don't couples discuss the issue of...
  18. Husband doesn't love me anymore because of my introverted side

    Reconciliation
    Hello, I'm writing here because I need some objective opinion..should I accept the situation or somehow try to fight to save my marriage. 

(Please excuse my English, it's my second language)

 So this is my story 


I'm 28, he is 36, we were together for 5 years (married for 3.5). The moment...
  19. Wife wants divorce

    Reconciliation
    I am in the army and i have been on tdy orders in germany since october. I have been in a relationship for 5 years and married for almost 1. A month after marriage was when i got my orders. Last month she called me to say that she had a one night stand 2 days earlier when she was drunk at a bar...
  20. Seven Ways To Leave A Cheater

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I thought I will share this with you guys. Seven Ways To Leave A Cheater By Tracy Schorn Leaving a cheater is an intimidating process. It’s not like you want to blurt out to everyone in your life, “Hey, Bob won’t quit cheating on me. Do you know a good divorce attorney?” And anyone...
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