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  1. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi there, sorry for the long post but really stuck in a bind and need to get this off my chest. I have been married for ten years, a few months after getting married my wife fell pregnant. To be honest shortly after getting married I realized it was a mistake (pressure was put on me by my wife...
  2. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone reading this....... I have a question that I’m hoping people can help me with. I have been married for the past 4 years, to someone I’ve known since 2007. We started off as friends with benefits, but being young at the time (around 18 years), I feel in love with him. I then asked...
  3. Going Through Divorce or Separation
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  4. Coping with Infidelity
    I'll try to keep this short, hopefully I'm in the right spot and asking the right thing. I'll be 30 next month, married 8 years in June with a total of 11 years together and we have one 7 year old together. My entire relationship had been pretty beautiful up until about year 3 of marriage. We...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    I don’t know who I am anymore and I’m unsure if I ever truly knew myself. I first married at 21 to a man 12 years my senior thinking he must be more mature then men my age. He turned out to be abusive and serial cheater, after 7 years and 3 children I finally had a support system of friends...
  6. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Please be nice. I'm already in this situation. I have been married for almost 2 yrs (this Nov) and am unhappy and contemplating divorce. The sad part is that a year before I got married, I was already regretting it. You see, I am Armenian, and did not like men of my culture. I was dating...
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  8. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Looking for some advice on separation/divorce. I have been married for 17 years, and we have three boys, 11, 13 and 14. Kids adore their dad, and he is an excellent father. He has been involved in all their activities, and coaches whatever sport they play – soccer, hockey, baseball. Takes them...
  9. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    History: Husband that is a cheater, has multiple DUI's, no license, and continues to drink and drive with my children in the car. Has narcissitic personality traits and after years of failed promises to change I finally said DONE and filed for divorce. He is now not drinking and not driving...
  10. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married for 10 years. We've had our struggles but 4 years into our marriage I started struggling with intense anxiety which led to me becoming agoraphobic. This drastically changed me and my husband's lives as I was not able to go and do much of anything anymore. I continued to work on...
  11. The Family & Parenting Forums
    Hi there, I'm new here, so please bear with me :) I have a question regarding my partner and his mother. For context, we've been together about 8 years. About 2 years ago, his parents split up after 23 years of marriage. It was his dad's decision, and she had and is still having a very hard...
  12. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi everyone. I am a new poster here. Please bare with me as my story likely has a lot of details but I would really appreciate your advise on this. Just to give you a little background on myself, I was originally born in Asia (can't say where) but left when I was a baby and have been living in...
  13. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Hello, so I’ve never written on one of these and frankly, don’t know where to start. I’m a married woman of 5 years and it’s felt like a life time. I’m truly in such an unhappy marriage I can’t see us ever mending the hurt that has transpired over the past 5 years. We have two small children...
  14. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I’m new to this place. I’m feeling very lost and alone and I could do with some advice please. I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for 2. We are very compatible but with this is passion and fire-in both the negative and positive sense. We are fiery and we argue and bicker a...
  15. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Coming up on 8 years of marriage and I'm not sure I can suffer another year let alone a lifetime. We were married only 11 months into what was already a challenging relationship. We married quickly because he was (is) in the military and was being transferred. When we were dating there were...
  16. Coping with Infidelity
    Sorry this is a long read but I think the context is needed before requesting advice. Met my wife in 2009 and married in 2012. In early 2019, I found out she was cheating on me with one of her co-workers. I confronted her and threatened to leave, but she begged for forgiveness and wanted to work...
  17. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    A little back story. Married for 10 years. 2 children. I have job paying just about the same as his. We have a house together under my VA. At 6 months pregnant, 3 months before saying "I do" I catch him sending messages to girls while in the "field" for Army training saying he doesn't want to...
  18. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am far away from my hometown and haven't seen my family in almost a year. After a ton of reassurance from my husband, we decided to make plans to go see my parents. My father is 80 and my mother in her 60s. I have struggled with anxiety most of my adult life and I am super nervous about going...
  19. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    You stopped loving me After 18 years of being together, you stopped loving me. Maybe it happened gradually, but it is now that you decided to leave. You grabbed some courage, as you said it wasn’t easy and told me you weren’t happy in the relationship anymore. You also told me you’ve been...
  20. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband (29) and I (28) have been married for 2 years and in a relationship for 10 years. Our relationship has had it’s ups and downs. A major problem with our relationship was that he is an alcoholic. For years he would always go out and not come back until the next day. He wouldn’t text or...
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