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  1. Moved out

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I haven’t talk to any lawyer bc I don’t have the money for it. I moved out of our rental house that me and my “husband “ live with our 2 kids We were fighting a lot, and I thought I couldn’t pay for the rent by myself and he need the space for his tools and such. Now he is seeing some...
  2. I Lost Respect for My Wife, Considering Divorce

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and I are married for 3 years now, and we were dating for a year. I am 31 and she is 29. I knew for her past relationships from beginning, but in last few months I am very disturbed about her sexual past. I can't control my thoughts, I am starting to distance my self from her and from my...
  3. Is it bad enough to divorce over?

    General Relationship Discussion
    I dated my wife for 6 years and have been married to her for 1. Recently I found out that she had messaged an acquaintance of hers 2 1/2 years into our relationship. I'm not exactly sure what the messages said but I found out by discovering semi-nude photos of this man on her email account. They...
  4. Workshop on Marriage Success

    Self-Help Marriage & Relationship Programs
    I am considering putting together a workshop on marriage success. And was wondering if you were coming to my workshop what questions would you ask me?
  5. I'm so lonely

    The Ladies' Lounge
    I've been starved for an emotional connection with my husband for almost our entire marriage, but I just realized what "my problem" is almost 3 years ago. Since then, I've read every book, talked to every friend, been to 3 marriage counselors, a priest and a marriage encounter, and I feel like...
  6. Wife had an affair and does not know if she wants to stay married

    Coping with Infidelity
    Need some help here. I have been with my wife for almost 10 years and married for 5 years, we have 2 kids (2 and 4 year old). 2 Months ago I found out she has been having an affair for the last year with one of her coworkers that is also married and has 2 kids. I imediatly blew up and said a...
  7. At my wits end with my husband

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    For starters, I feel quite embarrassed that I am even considering divorce, as my husband and I have only been married for 6 months, but I'm beyond frustrated and at my wits end. Our arguments about finances and our future are never-ending. I'll try not to write a book, but here's our quick...
  8. I just don't know what to do.... Been married 6 weeks

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I'm a 25 year old male in the professional world. I got married to the girl of my dreams, 28, on Labor Day. We've been together 6 years. We met in college when I was 19. We both graduated college during that time. We moved across country 3 and half years ago and moved in with each other for the...
  9. At a cross roads and need HELP

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been married almost 11 years. We got off to a bad start because we were involved in an abusive ultra conservative church that all but forbid me from marring her. After we were married, we got pregnant, with twins, but we lost the second daughter shortly before birth. We...
  10. I'm a jerk please help!

    The Men's Clubhouse
    I'm in my second year of marriage and have been threatened with the D more than once. I know it's me that's setting her off....I have to say i have an issue with communicating things to here like the 300 times i've tried to quit smoking (this being one of our biggest issues) I end up bumming...
  11. Would you divorce this man??!!

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband cheated on me on his bachelors party-orgy thrown by brother- We were married by the court for 3 month before we did the big wedding. My antlers have always been on and several times I discovered my suspicions were true. Not much repentance from him other that. "I know God has...
  12. Married for 7 months and I can't seem to get anywhere.

    General Relationship Discussion
    As the title says I've been married for 7 months and since the first week we have had all sorts of problems. Most of it is in communicating and trying to solve problems in order to make our relationship a better one. We have lots of problems in our relationship and I know I have my quirks and...
  13. Marriage Seems Good but I'm Unhappy

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    This is my first time posting here and I guess I'm just looking for some fresh perspective. I'll try to be as brief as I can and hope you will be gentle but honest with me because I am very nervous. So I am 33 years old and have been married to my husband for almost 5 years, we have been...
  14. Trial Separation; how does it work??

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, My husband came to me last week and told me we should do a trial separation. Although we have had a very rough couple of years, it still hurts like hell. It's been a week now and I'm still in shock, I don't know what to do, how to act or what to expect. Let me backtrack and tell you the...
  15. Husband not home again

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been together for 14 years. We have two young children. I don't even know where to start. My husband had an affair five years ago. We went to counseling. Things got better. Since then he goes out several times a year without calling and he'll come home around 7am...
  16. What is wrong with my husband?? Is this normal??

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I will try to keep this as brief as i can please take the time to read this because i really need the help. I have been married to my husband for 10 years and together for almost 11. I have 3 kids who live with us they are 18,16 and 15 and he has a son who is 13 who he has nothing to do with and...
  17. We always thought we'd have children

    The Family & Parenting Forums
    We always thought we would have children. We agreed upon that when we met and fell in love during our Army assignment back in 2000. He was 29 and I was 25. We dated and lived together for four years before our marriage in 2004. No rush, we have plenty of time to start a family. I’ve always...
  18. I feel too broken to continue moving forward...

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have had so many issues in our marriage. from problems with his ex wife to dealing with a brain washed stepson and a mother in law who dislikes me, and to top it off our constant arguing. There is just not peace at home. I feel like there is too much on my shoulders, I don't...
  19. What to do?

    General Relationship Discussion
    Background-My husband and I haven't gotten along well for months. He has controlling tendencies (he doesn't think so but they are definitley there). Everything is fine and dandy so long as what I'm doing in life is what he wants and thinks I should and once I go off that path he's just *****y...
  20. will my husband change his mind about having kids or should i divorce him?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I have been together for 4 years. In the beginning of our relationship he told me that he wanted to have kids and a family with me. Our marriage hasn't been great. We love each other and care for one another. The only big problem we have that has taken a big toll in our marriage...
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