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  1. Stepdaughter trying to ruin my married

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello..new here I've been married for a year and four months. We have been together for 2 years. My husband has a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship, I have a 19 year old daughter from a previous relationship, and we have a 1 year old daughtet together. The issue is the 11 year...
  2. My husband just filed :(

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I’d love to hear some advice. My husband just filed for divorce last week. Prior to that he was getting frustrated and sad that I kept complaining about his work schedule. I said some pretty harsh things including you should move out of the bedroom because we don’t have much of a relationship. I...
  3. How to accept that he loves someone else.. (sorry it is so long)

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am at a loss.. It all started around August of 2019, my husband had changed the settings in his phone and was talking to a female coworker through Whats App. When I found out, I confronted him and we had a whole blow up about it and he told me that it was absolutely nothing to worry about. She...
  4. New marriage and husband wants to end it.

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I’m looking for outside advice or at least some opinions on my current situation with my husband. We met 7 months ago on a dating app, we moved in together at about 2 months, got engaged at 3 months and then, due to a clause in his parenting agreement with his ex wife (and also what I thought...
  5. What do I do? MIL issues, Money issues, relationship in tatters.... Too many?

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    {Note: Canusa57 says that he accidently deleted his post. I rebuilt it from the quotes of is post in replies in this thread. ~ EleGirl} In 2000, 6 years after we got married, I immigrated to Canada. My wife did not want to move there That unfortunately was not the last time she accused me of...
  6. Not sure what to do

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello everyone, Just registered. I have been away from my wife for just over three months now. We have a child together (20 mo old). She has been keeping him from me, having only let me see him twice now for a total of about 2 hours in the last 3 months. I have filed for divorce since I was...
  7. considering separation , so afraid and having panic attack,need your views on this..

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I was sponsored to Canada after being married to my wife , she is has a kid from her ex lover , they are so close and chat about a lot , business , basketball games and all that, when he calls on the phone , shouting at her i feel bad and try to sort it as i see her looking so low in response...
  8. Rocky Divorce

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    First off, I posted here a little over a year ago about being unhappily married. I tried much of the advice and it was greatly appreciated. Having tried addressing issues with my wife on our own and through MC, we decided to get a divorce. I'm the one who said that's the only path I can see...
  9. Moved out

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I haven’t talk to any lawyer bc I don’t have the money for it. I moved out of our rental house that me and my “husband “ live with our 2 kids We were fighting a lot, and I thought I couldn’t pay for the rent by myself and he need the space for his tools and such. Now he is seeing some...
  10. Need advice - Parents advice especially appreciated

    Life After Divorce
    Hi all, I am a 33M and I have been divorced now for about 5 years. The hardest part of the divorce that I have settled on is not having as much time as I would like with my five year old daughter. I basically have her every other weekend and have a visitation once a week for two hours...
  11. Help : Not Sure What To Do

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Last June my husband left and never came back, won't communicate and blindsided me with divorce papers in July, we are not divorced yet. We have been married over 10 years and had a pretty good marriage, not perfect but definitely not headed for divorce. We did suffer some financial problems and...
  12. Advice on reconciling or moving on

    The Men's Clubhouse
    Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...
  13. My husband leaves for days at a time..

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    For one I honestly don't believe he's cheating.. He doesn't know that I know his password to Facebook so I log in to see his conversations with his friends. I'm just pretty certain. What he does is, he will leave for days at a time just to hang out with his friends and drink and just do...
  14. How to start the D-Word Conversation

    Considering Divorce or Separation
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  15. Not sure if divorce is what I should be going for. Thoughts/advice?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My husband and I are both 26 and we've been married since December 2013. Before that we were really good friends for a few yeas and started dating in the beginning of 2011. We have a 4 year old daughter together and I have a 5 year old son from a previous relationship. Since our relationship...
  16. Riding the Fence of Divorcing or Not?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone! My husband's father died in 2013 and every since he has been acting really weird. We had a baby a month before his father had his heart attack. It was our first child together but I have three from a previous marriage. This is going to be a long story so please be patient. My...
  17. 2 Years Dating, 5 Years Marriage with 2 Years Apart

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My wife and married and three weeks later I was in Japan for my new job. She caught up with my 4 months later and we got to enjoy each others time while looking for an apartment. She went back home to to get the dog and two months later, the three of us were living in a Japanese apartment, and...
  18. Overwhelmed... To separate or not

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married for 10 years. I have three children under 10. My Husband lost his job in December. His unemployment just ended. I run a successful business from home running an at home daycare (watching 8 kids under 5). My job doesn't pay enough to pay all the bills, but does take care of...
  19. How many times do I forgive her and trust again?

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    I've been married to my wife for 8 years to the day. We have two children ages 7 and 4. My wife had an emotional affair three years ago. When I found out she raged at me for spying on her. She denied and lied and tried to get rid of all the evidence. Even when confronted with the phone bill. I...
  20. Worse this time around....

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Well...I've never written anything in a forum....but here it goes. I'm 47, wife 42. We've been married now for 22 years, have 2 kiddos....son 18 and daughter 15. I had an off-on again 3 year affair that ended about 3 years ago. It was with my last girlfriend I had before I met my wife. I...
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