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  1. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband (29) and I (28) have been married for 2 years and in a relationship for 10 years. Our relationship has had it’s ups and downs. A major problem with our relationship was that he is an alcoholic. For years he would always go out and not come back until the next day. He wouldn’t text or...
  2. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Ok so sorry for the long post but I feel some background information may be needed. I had been with my husband for 13 years. We have a house and a little one we got married Aug 19 Last march (2020) there was a knock on my door and 4 police officers were stood there, they were looking for my...
  3. Relationships and Addiction
    As I sit here and think about it I cannot remember a time when my husband wasn't making me feel insecure due to his behavior which is my fault for looking past his flaws and still marrying him. When we were dating he used to have a roaming eye but tmk he's never cheated which is usually his...
  4. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I am 52 years old. My wife of 5 years is 47. This is the second marriage for us both. Just a short history on our relationship.... When my wife and I met, she was in the process of a breakup. I was dating. I know it is wrong, but I was dating 2 women at the same time. (I had gotten out of a 13...
  5. General Relationship Discussion
    This is hard to post, but I am not sure where to go to deal with my emotions. I asked my husband in mid September for a divorce after our last child moved into his own place. My marriage was not horrible but it also was not great, nor is he a bad person, and I would like to think I am not...
  6. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I have begged my husband to love me (literally) all he wanted was sex . No interaction with me except sex. No dates ,no touching me gently , no telling me I'm important to him , no making sure I didn't get overwhelmed with the kids , nothing .... unless I got upset and overwhelmed. I made a...
  7. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello..new here I've been married for a year and four months. We have been together for 2 years. My husband has a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship, I have a 19 year old daughter from a previous relationship, and we have a 1 year old daughtet together. The issue is the 11 year...
  8. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I’d love to hear some advice. My husband just filed for divorce last week. Prior to that he was getting frustrated and sad that I kept complaining about his work schedule. I said some pretty harsh things including you should move out of the bedroom because we don’t have much of a relationship. I...
  9. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    I am at a loss.. It all started around August of 2019, my husband had changed the settings in his phone and was talking to a female coworker through Whats App. When I found out, I confronted him and we had a whole blow up about it and he told me that it was absolutely nothing to worry about. She...
  10. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I’m looking for outside advice or at least some opinions on my current situation with my husband. We met 7 months ago on a dating app, we moved in together at about 2 months, got engaged at 3 months and then, due to a clause in his parenting agreement with his ex wife (and also what I thought...
  11. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    {Note: Canusa57 says that he accidently deleted his post. I rebuilt it from the quotes of is post in replies in this thread. ~ EleGirl} In 2000, 6 years after we got married, I immigrated to Canada. My wife did not want to move there That unfortunately was not the last time she accused me of...
  12. New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hello everyone, Just registered. I have been away from my wife for just over three months now. We have a child together (20 mo old). She has been keeping him from me, having only let me see him twice now for a total of about 2 hours in the last 3 months. I have filed for divorce since I was...
  13. Considering Divorce or Separation
    I was sponsored to Canada after being married to my wife , she is has a kid from her ex lover , they are so close and chat about a lot , business , basketball games and all that, when he calls on the phone , shouting at her i feel bad and try to sort it as i see her looking so low in response...
  14. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    First off, I posted here a little over a year ago about being unhappily married. I tried much of the advice and it was greatly appreciated. Having tried addressing issues with my wife on our own and through MC, we decided to get a divorce. I'm the one who said that's the only path I can see...
  15. Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello, I haven’t talk to any lawyer bc I don’t have the money for it. I moved out of our rental house that me and my “husband “ live with our 2 kids We were fighting a lot, and I thought I couldn’t pay for the rent by myself and he need the space for his tools and such. Now he is seeing some...
  16. Life After Divorce
    Hi all, I am a 33M and I have been divorced now for about 5 years. The hardest part of the divorce that I have settled on is not having as much time as I would like with my five year old daughter. I basically have her every other weekend and have a visitation once a week for two hours...
  17. Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Last June my husband left and never came back, won't communicate and blindsided me with divorce papers in July, we are not divorced yet. We have been married over 10 years and had a pretty good marriage, not perfect but definitely not headed for divorce. We did suffer some financial problems and...
  18. The Men's Clubhouse
    Guys I need some advice. I have messed up, and I have been for years. I'll try to make a long story short. Some background: I'm 35, so is my wife. We met in high school, but started dating about a year later. Within a year she's pregnant, and I go into "good guy" mode and we get married...
  19. Considering Divorce or Separation
    For one I honestly don't believe he's cheating.. He doesn't know that I know his password to Facebook so I log in to see his conversations with his friends. I'm just pretty certain. What he does is, he will leave for days at a time just to hang out with his friends and drink and just do...
  20. Considering Divorce or Separation
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