divorce advice

I'll try to keep this short, hopefully I'm in the right spot and asking the right thing. I'll be 30 next month, married 8 years in June with a total of 11 years together and we have one 7 year old together. My entire relationship had been pretty beautiful up until about year 3 of marriage. We...

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One month before our one year wedding anniversary a woman messaged me on social media. She told me she has loved my husband for 10 years and always will. I had only known him for 5 years at this time. Dated 2 years, engaged 2 years, now married 2 years. I never responded to her and immediately...

History: Husband that is a cheater, has multiple DUI's, no license, and continues to drink and drive with my children in the car. Has narcissitic personality traits and after years of failed promises to change I finally said DONE and filed for divorce. He is now not drinking and not driving...

Hi All, I am seeking desperate help from this forum to save my marriage. Background - 1. I am an Indian and got married in 2012. We have 2 kids - a boy and a girl that are 6 and 3 respectively. It was a love marriage for us where I proposed the girl who was my high school senior. 2. It was a...

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Wife [35 years old] has been bringing up that she feels like she's a little bisexual lately and that she has dreams about having sex with another woman. Yesterday she came up to me [40 years old] and said she's made up her mind and wants to have a threesome with another woman. I thought about...

We try get a new car... for our new baby coming.. and the car loan company told us ex wife haven't paid right away. And my husband credit has been miners. And because of that we couldn't get one. My husband paid her every month what he owns it. She has car and she has house. What upset me the...

Hello everyone, I am new to this message board, and I’m reaching out for some advice. I have been married for 12 years and have two girls (9 and 7). My husband and I have had trouble throughout our marriage including: financial trouble (in which I was blamed for spending too much money), not...

Hi, I’m new to this place. I’m feeling very lost and alone and I could do with some advice please. I have been with my husband for 6 years and married for 2. We are very compatible but with this is passion and fire-in both the negative and positive sense. We are fiery and we argue and bicker a...

A little back story. Married for 10 years. 2 children. I have job paying just about the same as his. We have a house together under my VA. At 6 months pregnant, 3 months before saying "I do" I catch him sending messages to girls while in the "field" for Army training saying he doesn't want to...

My husband (29) and I (28) have been married for 2 years and in a relationship for 10 years. Our relationship has had it’s ups and downs. A major problem with our relationship was that he is an alcoholic. For years he would always go out and not come back until the next day. He wouldn’t text or...

Ok so sorry for the long post but I feel some background information may be needed. I had been with my husband for 13 years. We have a house and a little one we got married Aug 19 Last march (2020) there was a knock on my door and 4 police officers were stood there, they were looking for my...

As I sit here and think about it I cannot remember a time when my husband wasn't making me feel insecure due to his behavior which is my fault for looking past his flaws and still marrying him. When we were dating he used to have a roaming eye but tmk he's never cheated which is usually his...

I am 52 years old. My wife of 5 years is 47. This is the second marriage for us both. Just a short history on our relationship.... When my wife and I met, she was in the process of a breakup. I was dating. I know it is wrong, but I was dating 2 women at the same time. (I had gotten out of a 13...

This is hard to post, but I am not sure where to go to deal with my emotions. I asked my husband in mid September for a divorce after our last child moved into his own place. My marriage was not horrible but it also was not great, nor is he a bad person, and I would like to think I am not...

I have begged my husband to love me (literally) all he wanted was sex . No interaction with me except sex. No dates ,no touching me gently , no telling me I'm important to him , no making sure I didn't get overwhelmed with the kids , nothing .... unless I got upset and overwhelmed. I made a...

Hello..new here I've been married for a year and four months. We have been together for 2 years. My husband has a 11 year old daughter from a previous relationship, I have a 19 year old daughter from a previous relationship, and we have a 1 year old daughtet together. The issue is the 11 year...

I’d love to hear some advice. My husband just filed for divorce last week. Prior to that he was getting frustrated and sad that I kept complaining about his work schedule. I said some pretty harsh things including you should move out of the bedroom because we don’t have much of a relationship. I...

I am at a loss.. It all started around August of 2019, my husband had changed the settings in his phone and was talking to a female coworker through Whats App. When I found out, I confronted him and we had a whole blow up about it and he told me that it was absolutely nothing to worry about. She...