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Hello everyone, this is the first time I have ever posted anything online so I am not sure if I am in the right area in this site but I really need opinions and would greatly appreciate any you would have....I talk a lot so this may be pretty long but I will try my best to keep it on the shorter...

My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years. We have three children. My husband is a hobbiest photographer that is trying to become a professional photographer but also works a typical 9-5 job. He created a photo club where other hobby photographers get together and shoot pics...