desire

I have lurked in this forum for a bit, but decided to create an account and post my experience. My wife and I have been married 9 years. She was flirty, had the touch love language, and is my amazing soulmate. Sex has always (well almost always) been frequent and amazing. We had trouble getting...

Yes, you read that correctly. 19 months. It’s not the way we imagined married life. But it’s the reality we’re facing. My wife and I were both virgins when we married back in July of 2012. And technically, I guess we’re still virgins. In the past 19 months there has been only one attempt to...

Hello everybody, first time here but I needed some advice and found this page. As expressed in the title, I am having an issue with no sexual desire for my wife. We have been together for about 7 years and married for 6. We got married right out of high school and had a baby 7 months later (I...

My husband and I got married less than a year ago. As we're religious we'd never had sex before our wedding night. On that occasion, and since, he has had problems getting an erection and also maintaining it until he orgasms. We're both under 30. I'm into health so I 'made' him go to the...

I'm a young and and am wondering how things will pan out as I age from a sexual desire perspective. I have a 2 questions: As men age, does the pursuit of sex continue to influence their behaviour toward attractive women as much as it does when they are young? Do all men interact with attractive...

I'll preface this by saying my boyfriend is 30 years my senior. Regardless of the age gap, we fell in love and both found each other hot and sexy. My boyfriend would make comments about how I might become fat as I get older (judging by my mom's figure) even though I am in shape and relatively...

I love my wife, I love my wife, I love my wife BUT lately, I’m beginning to think her weight has become a problem for me. Let’s throw it out there…Yes; I’d still stay with her through all sickness and strife. She’s still the very attractive. She dresses well and keeps herself dressed and made...

Hello, I am 36 today and my wife of 9yrs (+8yrs) admits to losing her attraction / desire for me, however can get the emotional arousal from other men. Not to sound conceded, but by no definition am I unattractive. She feels a sensation from new attention (men) that she no longer gets from...

Advice needed desperately... This weekend I am planning to cheat for the first time. I found out at the start of the year, my husband of 9 years has been cheating on me the entire marriage with random people (one off encounters) and 2 very short relationships. I was devastated. We separated...