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  1. Me and my wife seem to have too many differences to ever be happy

    General Relationship Discussion
  2. How to move on and foster meaningful friendships and avoid depression

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    My husband of 6 years decided he was no longer happy with me and wants a divorce. We have a 2 year old and 4 year old girls together. I begged him to reconsider and try counseling but he said so cold heartedly he doesn't want the marriage any more. No infidelity on either part that I know of...
  3. I'm a depressed depressed newlywed

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for 5 months and this has led me to so much depressed feelings. I don't know where to begin, and before you all tell me to see a therapist, let me tell you, it's in the works. So I was dating someone before my now-husband who my parents did not approve of. Let me tell you I...
  4. Sexless (Loveless?) Marriage

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi folks, it's been a long time since I've posted. My full story is very long (you can probably see my old posts under my profile if you'd really like to) so I will try my best to keep this short. Essentially, for the entirety of my wife and I's married lives, we've lived in a mostly sexless...
  5. Still Can't Forget & Getting Worse!

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi to everyone, I've been on this helpful site for a long time. I'm back again, still having trouble. I'm sure most of you will remember me, Granny7. I wish I could say things were better, but they aren't. We've moved to another state, N. Carolina, from our home of 47 yrs. in Fl. to the...
  6. Suffering from PTSD 30 years after discovering husbands affair!

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi To Everyone who doesn't want to be here, I was a member many years ago and now have come back again. My husband had an affair during our 25 years of marriage, right before our 25th. Anniversary. I found out because the other women's husband mailed me a copy of the love letter/cards that he...
  7. Lurking for 3 days, decided to join...

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    ...been married for 17+ years. Knew my wife for 18+ years. She has been depressed for 15+ years. I initially wrote a long post about it, but I can't seem to post anywhere else on the site. I also tried to post an introduction before, but I didn't see it pop up so hopefully this is not a...
  8. Severed emotional connection. How do I get it back if want it back?

    General Relationship Discussion
    First of all, this is coming from a place of hurt. My hurt, and I'm still trying to process it and my thoughts and feelings. I've been with my spouse for over 20 years. We've had our good times and bad, but through it all, we had each other. We were best friends and in sync with each other and...
  9. Lesbian Marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    I titled this Lesbian Marriage so that you all know what you're getting into by reading this. Please don't come at me with "you're going to hell" or this or that. Just move along. If you are reading this to help, I thank you. I will try to keep it short. My name is B (22). Her name is S (28)...
  10. Need some advice

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hello everyone. I've read a few posts here and have gained much knowledge from other people's situations so I'd like to thank everyone for sharing beforehand. My home situation is pretty good compared to most people but I'd like to get perspectives from others so I don't think about wanting to...
  11. I'm not sure I still like my husband

    General Relationship Discussion
    I don't seem to enjoy mu husband's company anymore and I don't really think he cares. - We can't hold a conversation without him making jokes about everything. Everything. I do have a sense of humor but sometimes I'd like to be able to talk about important subjects without him dodging it by...
  12. Don't read just an intro

    New Member Forum - Introduce Yourself!
    Hi New here
  13. Woman's Insight needed

    The Ladies' Lounge
    First of all I'm sorry for posting to the women's section, but I'm tired of reading posts suggesting you put recorders in your wife's car and read her text messages to find out the truth. Also I want to apologize for the length of the this post.. My situation isn't pretty, my wife and I...
  14. Making it work for the kids

    General Relationship Discussion
    My wife and I have been together for 15 years and have 6 children together. About 4 years ago I left my job as a state social worker, making great progress in the field of advancement, to become a sty at home dad while she worked as a nurse. Everything was fine for quite so time but probably...
  15. Cheating and Separation - need to know if I'm doing the right thing

    Going Through Divorce or Separation
    Sorry for the long post. My husband and I have been married for 12 years this past February. This has been my only real relationship, as we got married the day I turned 21. I used to have lots of jealousy and anger issues, but with his help and support, have gotten pretty much over them. I...
  16. Hopefully my story can help someone

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    My wife is the best thing thats ever happened to me. And we are getting a divorce. It's the single greatest pain I've ever gone through. You know how they say when a member of a long married couple passes away, the other often goes within 6 months? I completely understand why. I feel physically...
  17. Crazy how everything changes..

    Coping with Infidelity
    K thanks bye
  18. Unable to communicate in marriage

    General Relationship Discussion
    OK, I've been married for almost 5 years and I do love my wife. I was the happiest I had ever been when I married my wife, the wedding day was genuinely the happiest day of our lives. However, shortly after marriage (about 6 months in) I found my feelings start to change. It was like a switch...
  19. New to marriage, how to balance it out?

    General Relationship Discussion
    My Husband and I have been married for almost a year. We've been together for 6 years and living together for 2. It feels like no matter what we fight about it comes back to this idea of balance. That one spouse isn't doing enough or feels like they are doing to much of the work. Last night we...
  20. My husband's depression

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi ladies. I just joined this page today because I am desperately seeking perspective on my marriage. My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 8, with four beautiful children. He is a great guy. We have had our share of ups and downs, like every married couple, but all in...