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  1. I'm a depressed depressed newlywed

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been married for 5 months and this has led me to so much depressed feelings. I don't know where to begin, and before you all tell me to see a therapist, let me tell you, it's in the works. So I was dating someone before my now-husband who my parents did not approve of. Let me tell you I...
  2. Partner is never happy

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    Hi i have a question, if someone can help me whit this ill appreciate i have been with my now wife for 10 years i pretty much know everything a bout her we finally were able to tie the knot on december last year but our wedding wasn't the best thing ever i must say, there were a lot of...
  3. My 28yo husband doesn't want me sexually

    General Relationship Discussion
    I have been going out with him for 5 years and we got married for 2.5 years now. He wasn't very sexually active with me the entire time. I have asked my friends before but they just said that maybe he is not a horny individual. To be fair, I fell in love with him that way too. I have huge boobs...
  4. Depressed cheating wife

    Coping with Infidelity
    ...Where to start?... She's been depressed for years now.. possibly can have other undiagnosed mental illnesses. Slowly she was losing interest in me..It started with her leaving going out with friends for a month she was usually never home. She lost those friends and a few months later met a...
  5. I am married and another woman has made me depressed

    General Relationship Discussion
    Hi everyone. I Hope someone has the time to read my message and possibly help me out. I would certainly appreciate it. I have been with my wife for nearly 13 years. I am very happy with her and we have a wonderful 3 year old boy, who I am completely besotted with. 2 months ago, a new woman...
  6. Sad and depressed don't know what to do

    Coping with Infidelity
    Hi All Please help and advice. My wife if 15 years younger then me - we have been married 23 years mostly happy but the last couple of years everything seems to have changed. She is impossible to talk with - I know she has some problems but will not tell me. Whenever I try to talk her she says...
  7. I am 18 and married.

    The Ladies' Lounge
    Hi, my name is Sayantani. I am from an Indian background. yes i got married really at a very early age but i took the decision because of many other reasons too. My in-laws are really very well off financially. but my parents are not. they are actually in dire need of money so there is actually...
  8. Dear men... what does my husband need from me?

    The Men's Clubhouse
    My husband is an amazing man! He is very intelligent, skilled in SO many areas, handsome, strong, loving, caring, ... . He left his home country/family/friends for me and gave up his old job. He started to learn a new language (of my home country). He started to help my family out a LOT. We...
  9. Is it really me?

    Coping with Infidelity
    My husband and I have know each other for a little over 20 years. We were each others first kiss and first boyfriend/girlfriend when we were 12. Everyone gets gooey over our story. We met back up 10 years later and were inseparable. We dated for two years and got married on 12/12/12. its been a...
  10. Desperate for help

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    Hi, I'm a 26 year old female, this is my first post here. I have been married to my husband for almost 8 years. Almost three years ago, I gave up all that I knew to move to a different state to support him in his career. Things seemed to be great for most of our marriage, and he would say the...
  11. Passive aggressive in-laws

    General Relationship Discussion
    My husbands parents have always never liked me but they will never come out and say it, however confronted my father in-law about his behavior he told me what he thought. He said he believe i'm cold uncaring, and selfish. He went on to say that he didn't understand why his son wants to be with...
  12. confused, sad and downright desperate

    Reconciliation
    Hello, I'm new to this site but have done a little bit of reading.. This is going to be a long post so I apologize in advance but hope you will take the time and hopefully I can get a little advice. So, my husband and I have been together for 8 years, married for almost 6. We have a 2 year...
  13. My wife isn't sexually attracted to me anymore... is there any hope for us?

    Sex in Marriage
    Hi, I've been married over 10 years, am in my late 30s, as is my wife. This year has been rocky... we've been fighting a lot (verbal, never physical), and invariably my wife would tell me during the fights that she felt trapped, or wanted us to have more time apart, doing separate things. Now...
  14. I'm Falling Apart

    Coping with Infidelity
    I had a thread going in the considering separation area and everyone was telling me it sounded like an affair. I was angry that everyone was so negative ... They didnt know us. i hate them for eing right. As our separation started things just didnt seem to add up. I looked into the phone...
  15. I Want To Fight For Her

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    My story so far: My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years and married for a little over 4 years. We have a beautiful 2 year old boy that we both love and loving supporting families. My wife has a great job as the manager for a large retail store and I work in management for her...
  16. Ugh, not sure what to do after tonight's melt down?

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    So frustrated. Tonight our 10 year old asked to use my husband's cell phone, just to call a friend, and somehow it degenerated quickly into my husband yelling, storming around, slamming doors, and when I finally got him to leave the room, and had the kids go upstairs to play, he spent hours...
  17. Shaken and can't pick myself up.

    Physical & Mental Health Issues
    I posted a thread about a month ago and got some real advice. My relationship is over, and I'm in the process of moving out on my own. The problem is that my confindence is totally shot and I can not shake this depression. I have a 12 year daughter to look after, and I dont want this to rub...
  18. Feeling lonley just want my husband to love me

    General Relationship Discussion
    Here's the history. My husband and I recently got married 6 months ago after dating for 13 years. (now in my 30s). we have no children. For 13 years I lived with my parents, and once married we moved into his parents house whilst saving to buy a house. Before we got married, I felt things...
  19. Im so frustrated...I feel so lost

    General Relationship Discussion
    I just got married about a month ago. My husband and I met each other on the internet on a Christian web site. We fell in love very quickly and we were married just 4-months after meeting. I am originally from Florida, my kids and I have moved to wv to form a new life with my husband. In the...
  20. I think i made a terrible mistake..

    Considering Divorce or Separation
    So, I am 20 and my husband is 21. We are both students and we got married in may of this year. I know it's so early but i feel like i was forced into it from the get go. I honestly felt like i should have postponed or cancelled the wedding in January but his parents had already put so much money...
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