Search Results for ‘denial’

Hi, my name is Gary and I have been married to Christy for five years. I begged her to fulfil my ultimate fantasy and let another guy make love to her. She has an incredible body and keeps herself in great shape. Finally, she agreed and set down some rules. She told me that she could only have...

i just joined this forum a little over an hour ago. I am lost and my body feels numb. Here is my situation: I have been with my girlfriend for over 5 years now. We have a daughter aged 3 about to turn 4 at the end of this month. She also had two boys from a previous relationship. Their father is...

Hi I need some serious help. I’ve been married for 5 and half years. Both 2nd marriage. We used to get along very well but things changed. My H and I have been living on and off together for the last 3 years. First job was the reason but it became the excuse later. Bottom line is my H told me...

I just found out my husband of 22 years has been cheating with prostitutes the entire marriage and before. I'm a fairly bright woman, how did I miss this? I feel so incredibly duped and stupid! I keep waiting to wake up from this nightmare. If you were to ask anyone if my husband was a...

My H and I have been separated for 2 months now and I feel as lost as ever in our relationship. We have been going to mc and ic since we separated and I feel nothing has changed and that we are both in denial regarding different ‘issues’ in our relationship. I feel he continues to be in...

Bullet points, because they help me to not be so verbose: June: Husband said things to OW like “you’re my #1 fan”, “when you’re hurting it feels like it’s happening to me”, “that’s what I love about you” which devastated me because there were many problems I toughed out for 20 years (financial...

Hi (sorry this is going to be a bit of a long post) I have been with my husband for 9 years and married for 5. We fell in love quite quickly and were engaged after being together a year. When we first met, I was 21 (he was 25) and I had planned to go travelling at the end of that year - as we...

My husband does not accept that I am separating from him. He asks a series of questions every single day, all day and into the night. There is nothing I've been able to do to get him to stay away from me, to stop the constant bombardment of questions that I will never answer to his liking...

My husband and I married young, in our very early 20s, and were heads over heels in love. He was my first boyfriend and I still love him very much. But unfortunately, ever since we got married things started going down hill, especially when I quit my job. We live with his family because they...